Why do men think they have to control women?
Insecurity, or growing up in a socially conservative region/community.
How long can the silent treatment last in a woman?
It can last a long time for a woman that does not care about the relationship, if she truely cared she would talk it out and resolve the issue so the relationship can continue.
Why do American women draw out the last word of each sentence.."That is so Awesooooome!" "How are Youuuuuu?"?
The dialect-drawl is prominent only in REGIONS across our USA and elsewhere. Certain regions do d-r-a-g out certain parts of words merely as a "cheap" way to stress the idea. Compare *a lightning-fast-speaking* Californian against a s-l-o-w and methodical So. Carolinian. I enjoy the diversity!
What is the best thing to say someone who cheated on you while you talk to him for the last time?
When you find out that the love of your life , has been cheating on you, there is nothing smart or witty left to tell him/her. You feel stupid. You get flashes of all the time you have spent with them; of all the time they dodged you; of all the times you thought they are the one for you; of all the times you could have caught them red handed, of all the times you felt lucky to have them. And you feel utterly stupid that you let somebody trick you like that.You go through a emotional turmoil, where the ‘sensible you' demands how you let yourself befooled and the 'inner you' wants to know why they did that, were you not good? Some other part of you hopes to have them back.Amidst all this you go head and meet them. In your head you think of all the things you can ask them/ tell them, but your senses fail you. You lose the will to make sentence or to sound indifferent.When I went to meet him for the last time, I literally pleaded him to stay. When somebody asks me if I will trust him again if he comes begging to me I laugh off n say no. Nothing can make me trust him again. But I know I wouldn't have given it a second thought.And I think one shouldn't say anything, as they are, definitely, not bothered.
Who do you think starts more arguments, men or women?
you could say women but its really only because the men they are attempting to reach would rather not be bother at the moment.
If you could tell your ex one last thing, what would you say?
I am really thankful to you for teaching me some of the finest lessons of my life.You taught me how great I look. It was you who made me feel wonderful. After meeting you I realised that “Beauty is not how you look. It's about how you represent yourself.”It was the relationship with you that taught me that sex is not a necessity in any relationship. Your relationship can survive without even hugs. We never hugged or kissed each other, still we were together.It was you who taught me that looking in your partner's eyes is the sexiest gesture you can pull off. It's amazing gazing continuously in the eyes of your loved one and talking to each other, without uttering a word.It was you who taught me that you should be ready to make some extra efforts to make a relationship interesting. From love letters that we passed secretly to phone calls that we made even after knowing the worst outcomes, I remember everything.Finally, it was you who taught me that if you want to stay happy in life, learn to detach yourself from the people who are gone.Thanks once again for the most important lesson of my life.You left, and I cried for days. I waited for you, for months. But, you didn't appear.And when I heard about you after a long, it was about your engagement.But, by then, I was emotionally stable. I just smirked. That's it. I didn't laugh. I didn't cry either.Your absence made me stronger. I hated you for few months initially. But, then I placed you as one of the most beautiful parts of my life. I don't hate you anymore.You were amazing. I respect you, still, for all the love and care that you showered on me.I had many questions for you. But, I don't want answers anymore.Some questions are better unanswered.Some paths are better unwalked.Thank You. May God Bless You, And Your Husband.
What would be your last words to your lover?
"This is not a goodbye, my darling, this is a thank you. Thank you for coming into my life and giving me joy, thank you for loving me and receiving my love in return. Thank you for the memories I will cherish forever. But most of all, thank you for showing me that there will come a time when I can eventually let you go.I love you,"