My parents found out about my suicide attempt/cutting. (Sorta long, serious answers only please)?
A lot of people don't understand what goes on in the mind of a suicidal person. A lot of people will just tell you to stop trying to get attention, and go get some help. But I know exactly how you're feeling, believe it or not. And I'm not here to judge you. Your mom took the wrong approach reacting the way she did. She's putting a lot of guilt on you, making you feel worse. And even though it feels like you're the one hurting her, she's putting a lot of pressure on you right now. But that's not your fault, and I want you to know that. I know how it feels to finally open up to somebody, tell them about what's really been going on with you and getting a negative reaction like that. It makes you feel like you're f*cking with everything you touch, and that you have no positive impact on anybodys life. But that's not true. Your mom should've handled it in a more calm manner, but honestly she just loves you, and she hates about the possible fact that her Son wants to take his own life. Killing yourself is an extreme; and even though you don't see it yet, but there's a lot to live for. You're not hurting anybody right now. And I know it feels like you're hurting everybody slowly, but you're not. They're worried about you, and would hate to see anything bad happen. The only person you're hurting right now by accusing yourself of these things, is yourself. You're putting too much pressure on yourself, and I know how that feels as well. I used to blame myself for everybody's problems. I'd pile it up, until I just couldn't take it anymore. I know it's hard right now, and I know it feels like you have nothing left. But somewhere in there, there's something. Don't give up hope, okay? Try to keep your head up. If you need someone to talk to, you can e-mail me if you like. I have gone through similar stuff as you have; which I won't post here for all oh Y!A to see. It seems like right now you just need somebody to listen to what you have to say, and not freak out or judge you. I'm here if you need me :] ~ Fey
Why don't I feel sad when a family member dies?
People feel different emotion when some one dies. They are neither bad or good just emotion. If your relieved, anxious, heaetbroken, am very. It's ok. If your numb or fine, it's ok. The only time you should be wondering why is if you or someone else is feeling joy or happiness from a death. That person or you may suffer from a mental illness. We are more inclined to feel sad with a relative than a stranger by sometimes it can be reversed.I am a very empathetic person, I pride myself on being able to empathize and understand someone. To be in there shoes and see there perspective but when it comes to death I am very ok, fine really. I don't really have any emotion.. except aniexty cuase I fear others will call me a freak cause I'm not crying or visual upset. The first time someone dies and I knew them was my grandma. My uncle hugged me, my mom cried, my brother cried. I didn't. I found there years and emotion awkward. Next was a family friend again at there funeral all I did was stand there while everyone cried. Recently my best friends mom died . She wants me to comfort her and I will but sje expects me to cry and tried with her and I just can't. ( Granted my grandma was a racist drunk, the family friend I only met once, and my my friends mom was riddled with health issues)This doesn't mean I don't ever feel sad, i cry all the time, but for different reason. I have never seen or thought about my death and if I woke up and some one said I was going to die today or had cancer my response. Would problay be “Ok, whatever”Does it make sense no, is it normal yes. If someone gives you a hard time ignore them. They have no say in your emotion and how you grieve .I hope this helps.
A couple who loved each other truly had to get married to someone else due to family pressure. How do they feel about it now?
The couple loved each other still got married to someone else…this happens in many cases..some of the couples end their life because they cannot see their partner living with someone else..they only want to live with each other.Some of the couples move on after geting married…they cannot completely forget their love..but when they get married..they have their own family..so they try to be happy as they are..It is very very difficult to leave your loved one and get married to someone else…only the ones who have experienced it can tell exactly how it feels…when tou are in love with someone..you imagine your every moment with them…you feel as if you want them every second…you cannot inagine living with someone else other than your partner….But because of the family pressure..some couple have to do this…i think this is the familys mistake…when you separate two loved ones…God never bless them..it is the worst sin i suppose..Being seperated from your partner is the worst feeling ever…i cannot even imagine a single secind without my girlfriend…she is my breath…wherever i will go..she will be with me…and i am gonna marry her..thats for sure…It is the responsibility of the family members to understand where their daughter or son is happy..if they are happy with a particular person…they should let them marry to him/her.People should try to understand the beauty of love…because it is the best experience abyone can have..:it is the best feeling anyone can ever feel. It is the best of all.Hope it helps!:)
What should i do i caught my little sister and her boyfriend?
im a 16 year old guy. my little sister is 12 she looks alot older then she is and now she is wearing makeup , and alot of other things to try to make her self look older. i met her boyfriend ( he is 13)once and i didnt like him because he seemed like a jerk to me and i really didnt think he was good for my little sister i had a talk with him and i told him if he hurts my little sister he will be sorry. anyways , one day i came home from a friends house and nobody was home well i thought so. i heard moaning and the bed squeaking it was coming from my little sisters room i ran upstairs and knocked on the door and said "is everything ok? what are you doing?" she said "nothing" and tried to cover up i went away and i had a funny feeling they were having sex but i trusted her i heard her scream and i knew what they were doing by then so i went back upstairs and opened the door and they were both naked and she was bent over the bed and he was giving it to her. i was like WTF!!!!! and i told him to leave and never come back or i would kick his sorry little a**and i would call the cops and i grabbed him by his arm and squeezed it and i took him downstairs and kind of pushed him out the door . i was just really mad and my little sister was crying and i just kept saying wtf is wrong with you?!? and i asked her if he wore something on his penis like a condom or something and she said yes he did and she was crying and she doesnt even talk to me anymore. i feel bad but i really didnt want to walk in on my 12 year old little sister and her 13 year old boyfriend having sex. what should i do? should i tell my parents? how to i talk to my little sister about this? and this happend a while ago and just to be safe i got her a pregnancy test , 2 of them and they both said negative. but i still dont know what to do