Why is my crush/best friend avoiding me?
Sometimes people don't want to risk ruining a friendship by dating. You say he's your best friend, if that's true, I would lean towards deepening the friendship and don't worry about dating right away. If you become truly best friends and you are meant to be together, then it will work out in time. Don't throw away a great friendship just for the romantic benefits of a relationship, those are not as important as having a good friend. It wouldn't hurt to get his thoughts on the matter, though, he could be scared, or he could just feel the the friendship is more important and he's shying away because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
My best guy friend is avoiding me?
You didn't do anything wrong. As a guy, I found myself in a similar situation - liking my female best friend - except she was taken. I did purposefully make myself more busy to avoid her so that I could forget about my feelings for her and be more detached. It worked. One possible reason for his behavior is that he is experiencing emotions that he is not comfortable with yet - such as depression or anxiety about something - which can cloud our judgement. When I started liking my taken female friend in a romantic way - I became much more isolated, anxious, and sad about the idea of "love". Seeing her only caused more of these emotions to intensify and they felt uncomfortable. It was like being overwhelmed with love and then a great surge of sadness that you she'll never be yours. So sometimes - being busy and avoiding you can help us process these emotions and regain our sense of inner self. There might be other reasons why he is avoiding you - apart from conflicted feelings about you. They could range from personal issues to being busy, etc. So for now - your best bet is to give him his space to deal with his challenge and cheer him on when he needs it. Is it possible that he is attracted to you but is scared to date you for other reasons like low confidence, financial concerns, fear of commitment, depression, etc? This happened with a female friend years ago where we mutually liked each other but I was too trapped in my depression to see that she did like me until it was too late. In the end, we both lost. Well, either way - you did nothing wrong.
If friends are avoiding me, what can I do?
Throw them a party. If they’re truly avoiding you, you will put them in a trap. To avoid you would be to miss the party.Honestly, the problem with so-called friends avoiding you is that they don’t have the moxy to come right and tell you if something is wrong. So, this means that they are actually dealing with the problem by refusing to deal with it. It’s lame but it is also the way the lame-brained think.I would take it at face value. If there has been nothing said, then I would assume that there is nothing wrong. You can’t cure a problem until it becomes obvious that there atually is a problem.In the meantime, you must learn to be your own person. If you suddenly have a shortage of friends, then make up your mind to live for a while without friends until you can make new ones. If you will do that, sooner or later, the true friends will come back around when they’ve had some time to think things through. Once they do, you can work on the problem THEN.
My best friend is avoiding me?
my best friend was the exact same. She didnt actually realise what she was doing until i told her. She even started to hang out with a different girl all the time and it made me soo jealous! i say dont worry about it, when she needs you the most you wont be there to hold her hand soo its her loss :) your obviously an amazing genuine person and she should have respect for you. Text her or ring her and tell her how you feel and if she chooses to ignore you then shes not worth holding on to. When i confronted my best friend about it she realised then what she had been doing to me and apologised to me and were now still close as ever , so good luck x
Why Is My Guy Friend Avoiding Me?
He likes you girl!! Ask him to go out! Unless you want the man to ask the person out.. In that case, tell him that you have feelings for him. He himself doesn't know how to approach you and say, "Hey, do you want to go to the movies on Saturday" Or something like that without acting like a fool. Look what I found from wiki: Sometimes, it is sort of embarrassing to have a strong attraction when you don't know how to handle it. It seems easier to avoid the person so you don't make a fool of yourself. I can talk to anyone, but if I am really attracted to a girl, I want to hide. I just feel I don't want the person to know in case she rejects me, even if she is showing clear signs of interest. It is also hard for me to talk to them and get to know them. I appear rude and maybe cold, but in fact I really like the person. And if you ask me, another reason he is avoiding you is because if he asks you out, and you reject him, the friendship would be akward or may even disappear. Take it from someone who as been through this. I used to hang out with this boy named Paul thinking we were just friends, and my other friend, Kailee, who is a girl, told me that Paul told her that he liked me for a year, so finally I asked him if it was true, and he said "yes, so what do you say?" Omg I never felt worse in my life when I said, "I only think of you as a friend" Then I stopped talking to him, I never answered my cell phone when he called, maybe at school I'll say a quick Hi to him but that was it. Anyways, good luck.
Why is my crush's friend avoiding me?
I asked my crush to prom a few weeks ago, and that was that. She claimed to be going out of town during the occasion, which I will believe is true, since out of all excuses, this would be one that would be hard to lie about. However, her best friend has started to avoid me. This started after I asked my crush to prom. What the hell? I did not do anything to upset anyone. Does she think that I'm an annoying person? I don't talk much in front of people in general.
What should I do if my best friend is avoiding me, and my presence is no longer important to him? How should I react?
If you live long enough, you will realise that your best friends will leave you. It happens with childhood friends, school friends, college friends, office friends etc. Don't know from your question enough to give an answer, but it is best to speak directly (as it is possible) that he has been hurt inadvertently by you, or possibly somebody has said something wrong about you, or he is mis-interpreting something you said/did. The best way to go about is to get this issue cleared. If still, your friend decides to sulk, you will have to let him be, and look for another friend.
My best friend has been avoiding me. How can I stop myself from feeling so bad?
There are so many reasons why your best friend may be avoiding you. Tell you my story as an example. I had a friend (we were both girls) who was my best and only close friend for about 3 years. After school daily we spent just about every minute with each other. We studied together, did our homework together and used our free time together. That went on from age 11 to 15. Then, all of the sudden, for no known reason at all, she never had free time for me anymore. I was very sad about it. We were in talking term, never insulted each other, but now she was friends with another group of kids in our class. and I was not invited to their gathering. Then, about a year or so later she left Hungary, came to Canada. About 8 years later my husband and I came to Canada, and we somehow settled for a while in the same city where she lived.She was very happy to see me, and on her initiative we became friends again. She talked about our past like I was always her closest friend. And now I know what happened. I became interested in math very seriously. Prepared for competitions. I was obsessed with it. At the same time I became interested in reading books discussing political philosophies. My friend became interested in boys. So our interests just grew apart, and that is why our friendship ended. None of us were at fault. None of us needed to feel bad about it.
My best friend is avoiding me and giving me excuses?
We never once had a disagreement. Two days ago we had a lot of fun together and all was great, next day after that she suddenly starts giving me one worded replies to texts or replies with just an emoticon and doesnt try to have a conversation as usual, her behavior is very different. I asked if everything is okay, she said yea. So then i asked if she is mad at me or something. She said no and that she is busy. I dont know how busy she is though, because she has been active on social media the whole time and playing an online game as usual (she is on a character that she doesnt know i know about, she thinks i cant see her playing). Also, being busy doesnt justify a change in the way you talk to your friend in my opinion. We dont have any common friends and i have talked to her boyfriend like 2 times only, after she asked me to help him with something. So the possibility of someone having lied about me or turned her against me, isnt there. What do i do? What is happening?
My best friend is avoiding me. I am 100% sure I have done nothing to her, but she tries to avoid me as much as she can. What should I do?
1 . Ask yourself why the person ignoring you2. Just speak with the person once whatever in your mind and try to figure out what’s in the other person’s mind3. Confront the person and Ask to talk privately. In a quiet, private place, calmly ask whats going on.4. Accept the other person’s decision to put distance between you.5. Don’t blame yourself for their behaviour6. Keep the door open, Let the person know that you hope for reconciliation