Can I ask my very good friend to stop being friends with someone else who used to bully me?
That right there……damn…..I swear to god, if I could have done that in college, I’d have probably turned out normal.But I’ve since gotten wiser and figured some stuff out. More often than not, your pal knows what’s up. In the rare case that your pal doesn’t know what’s up, you’re going to loose your pal anyway. (Heads up, yes you will….) Because logically speaking, why would your bully decide to become pals with your pals.A reformed bully will not do that, and if they’re going to do that, they’ll first talk to you, and make sure it’s all cool first.So…urm….get another very good pal……someone nicer.
What are some ways to make someone your best friend?
My Gran used to say, 'You can lead a horse to water, you can't make it drink!'You can't make someone be your best friend, you can increase the likelihood of it happening.How is that possible?Firstly, it freaks people out if you are 'over-friendly', so don't be too pushy.Don't overshare, don't be spilling your entire life history within minutes of meeting themWe have two ears and one mouth for a reason - dont talk too much.Be a happy person, but not manically happy - because that will make you look crazy.Be interesting. Take an interest in what's going on around you. I don't mean be an expert in everything but have stuff to talk about.Find out their interests - music, books, films, sport. If you have some of them in common, you are more likely to get on.Don't expect them to do all of the running around. If you have a car, pick them up sometimes. Equally, don't always run around after them, that will turn you into a doormat.Don't expect to spend every minute of every day with them, that will get dull. (I spend most of my time with my best friend but it has taken us a very long time to get to that point)Don't be jealous if they choose to spend time with someone else.I'll say it again. Do not act as though you are jealous of them spending time with other people. Don't moan about them spending time with someone else. Don't sit in the house moping if they are spending time with someone else. (That is very important!)Include them - not just in your activities but also in how you are feeling (but not in the very early stages!)Remember their birthday.Be considerate when they are ill.Most importantly of all:Be the friend that you want them to be.
How do I know if I am on someone else's best friend list on Snapchat?
Hi, straight to the point. I am not very familiar with Snapchat but I have some history with it. Here are two ways..This is very old -fashioned, ask them- now it may sound dumb, but people actually will take interest on you since they will have this feeling you've been thinking about them. This makes them feel important and more open about it.Here is the second way. When you friend a fellow snapchatter, you can see in the chat(swipe to the right) that there are snapscores.So, this is really the only ways I know, maybe someone else can add to this, but I hope you figure out which ever reason you have to ask this question.
I get jealous when my best friend hangs out with someone else?
I get jealous super easy. (Lets call my best friend Alison) The thing that bugs me is my best friend alison never wants to hang out with me anymore. But when other people ask her she wants to. Every time this happens I can't help think "would she have said yes if I asked her first?" or "Is it just me she doesn't want to hang out with?" It just makes me so frustrated. Our friendship group is made up of 4 people. But we are in pairs. I am with alison, and the other 2 girls are best friends. But one of the girls (Lets just call her Sadie) is starting to drift towards alison. And is spending more time with her. It makes me so jealous and whenever I see them talking I but in and distract alison from talking to her. I dont make it obvious but I feel like I want her all to myself. It's just because for a long period of time when I had it really rough and she was there for me. And we have been best friends for about 7 years so when people spend time with her I take it as a threat. I got better, and stopped getting jealous but it has just started again. I need help. I have confronted her about why she never wants to hang out with me anymore and I must have made her feel bad because she started crying and making it my fault :( it made me really upset to see her sad so I haven't asked her about it since.
My best friend is getting close to someone else. What do i do?
People come and go, I know it is really hard to believe. I had JUST recently had to end a friendship. Because of lying and neglect. I decided I was not going to let myself go through it. If your friend found someone else to hang out with, then just let her go. Or talk with her! I find talking about this topic with the friend is very sensitive and difficult to speak what is on your mind. And I knew someone for 9 years who basically tossed me out like that. I was sad (kinda still am) but I have learned that a true friend is NOT going to do that to you. Stay Strong!
How do you handle your best friend getting closer to someone else?
No matter how bad you feel about it, don’t reveal it because, despite your best intentions, you will come across as jealous, possessive and a control freak. It might make matters worse.The thing about life is that friends come and go and we, as people, keep changing. Indeed, change is the only permanent thing in this world. Your best friend too is ever changing. And the worst part is that you can’t do anything about it. So, if your “best friend” chooses to replace you, then so be it. It’ll hurt you a lot. But sooner or later you will have to pick up the broken pieces of your heart and move on. That’s just how life is.Also, if you truly love your best friend, then you will have the courage to look past your own hurt feelings and be glad that they’ve found someone they’re happy with. You will have the courage to prioritize their happiness over yours. And, I think that’s what matters in the end.
Can you have more than one 'best friend'?
Yes you can have more than one best friend. It is not abnormal to have more than one best friend. It really depends on you definition of a best friend, or any other title you want to name. I consider a best friend a close friend. A best friend is someone you can rely on no matter what. You can count on them through the ups and down. I have 2 best friends, they are the same friends that I have had since high school. They both share the title of best friend. I do not put one before the other. One is not first or second, they are both first in my life. I am close to both and can depend on them. They are there when I need a shoulder to cry on or even when I need someone just to talk to. So if you have more than one friend that fits this description, then you are a lucky person. And if any of these so called friends are telling you you can only have one best friend than they are really not your friend. Good luck with all that you do.