My Best friend is leaving me for her boyfriend?
I think the problem is when a couple first get together they don't always realise their behaviour as they are caught up in the honeymoon period of their relationship. I think its a case of grin and bare it for friends at this stage to a point.... I think things really get annoying when I feel some couples use the excuse they are a couple to behave badly...this is when its not right. However they know they can often get away with it, because if a friend brings it up with them the friend will ussually be told or it will be implyed that they are either selfish, jealous etc etc or they will be asked why they are not happy for them....again bringing it back to the jealousy thing, so its a very difficult topic to approach. I think for the situation you are in if you are all out on a group situation with this couple and they go off the rest of you should just carry on with you plans don't wait for them, just text them and say what your doing and say you will see them later and leave it at that....if they want to meet back up with you then they will get in contact if they don't then they won't. Don't let your plans get dictated be their behaviour. As for her not wanting to spend time with you round your house to a point your going to have to except this as she is in a relationship her priority is going to be her boyfriend. But really if she wants to be friends she should still be making time for you as well but you can't expect as much of her time. I think in your head you know some of their behaviour is not right but if you want to appraoch her on the subject you have to be selective about what you say and bring up. Only bring up behaviour that is really not fair on her friends (and is genuinely out of order) not the behaviour that would just be seen as irratating, also some things are best left unsaid.
What do u when your boyfriend leaves you for your best friend?!?!?
Don't worry about it. Sometimes guys can be like that! It's just their nature. Now, I'm not saying you should try to get back together. Obviously, him and your friend both have a problem with respect and trust. You should take this opportunity to try to help them. Try to be nice, and you never know: They might be nice back and learn to respect your personal life. It's okay to be angry, but don't get overhand. DON"T write a letter or email about hate, even if you don't plan on sending it. It will get into someone's hands and come back to hurt you. Here are some steps on how to heal that broken heart of your's!: 1. Talk to your parents about it. They will help you a lot. 2. Talk to your ex and your bff and tell them how you feel. Do it in a calm and forgiving way, so they know that they will not be hated by you forever! 3. Spoil yourself a lil. Go shopping with friends, hang out, whatver you like to do best. 4. Get a job! Try to take your mind off of everything and apply for a job at your fave store! 5. Find a new boyfriend! Don't be too desperate. That'll give off the wrong hint. 6. Enjoy life to the fullest! Live like this never happened. I guarantee you, you will have forgotten after a month at the most. I know that you are in a lot of pain, but this is a good experience for you. Love hurts sometimes, but it's better to love than not to love, even if it hurts. best of luck!!!
Would you leave your best friend (guy) for your boyfriend?
Hell no…!! Relationship is a grace of short period of time…but friendship is grace of long term..best friend is someone who knows every bit of you …she knows you more than yourself.Bestfriend is a co-author of all your texts to your bf.Bestfriend is that moron who isults you needlessly and can punch straight on someone's face if they try to insult youBestfriends are the people with same mental disorder.Bestfriends don't judge you when you are in pajamas..with no makeup. You cannot do that with your bf Love is beautiful..but friendship is better.You can show who you are to bf. But you cannot hide your damn self from your Bestfriend. They are good psychologist ,trustme they are good at analysing your psychotic disorder.If you get into fight ..your bf may ignore and leave you …but bestfriend…they will sit next to you and say let's fix this instead walking away being child and ignorant. They are mad.Love is temporary.. friendship is permanent .Your are lucky if you have a Boyfriend. But you are even more lucky and blessed if you have a bestfriend.
Why did my friend leave me for her boyfriend?
Did she tell you she left her boyfriend for you? Or are you assuming that? Maybe she had a realisation that she was losing her life by being with him. Sometimes it hurts, because even if you love someone, its best if they are not in your life. Might be her case. She is probably trying to find her balance by not being with him and getting her life back.
My best friend dumped me for her boyfriend?
My best best friend in the whole wide world. She got a boyfriend in November and when that happened she just ignored and me stopped talking to me. she treats him like a god and i hate it so much omg, we spent like every day together and we had a really special relationship, we told every other EVERYTHING every single thing. we spent like a week straight together at a time, we were inseparable. I have to sit with her boyfriend at lunch and i only get to talk to her for like 2 mins when he leaves to go the bathroom, and when we talk is awkward now, it's not like it was. He doesn't let her hang out with me or our other friends, i think that he thinks im a "bad person" because i smoke and i got to parties but that's not bad. I'm trying so hard to keep our friendship and i don't think she cares at all for me, not one bit and it hurts, it hurts so much i cry allot and i don't talk in school anymore, it's sucked the life out of me. I've cut myself over her many times and i'm so pathetic, i thought we would never split up, I just miss her so much and i want my best friend back, i hate how things changed. I'm nothing now, i'm just a sad, lonely unlucky girl, i think she see's me as that. I remember her telling me that i was her role model and that she looked up to me and that she would be nothing without me. Well i'm nothing without her and all i want is for them to break up, i don't really have other friends, i have some but they will never be as close as we were. I'm so hurt and angry. I'm not jealous, but he's an asshole and he's nothing to her and all he's doing is hurting her and bringing her down, and she doesn't deserve that. She needs so much better, and i can see her doing so many things she's so beautiful but she can't see it. I'm nothing i need my best friend back. I hate my life so much. Everything is falling apart and they spend every day together like a married couple, and i can't even f**king talk to her. I'm just waiting for her to see how much it kills me and how much it's tearing me up inside everyday and also how much of a jerk he is. I feel like pathetic all i want her to do is come crawling back to me.
My friends boyfriend wants her to leave me. what should I do?
It happens many times when our good frds are in relationship. May be that boy have some past with you so he don't want to be with his gf. May be he want to do things against your frdship and feel proud to have only control to his gf. Better not to give any advice to ur frd and rest of the things be like same what they were before. May be advices you give didn't liked by that boy. Normally it happens with girls but I think that biuy have some problem with you and want to have things acc to him . So if you feel to not break up the frdship then don't advices to them . Things will settle down with time . Message here of you have any other problem
My friend left me for her boyfriend?
My best friend Lucy has just started going out with her boyfriend, Adam, and they were friends before they started going out, and I used to speak to her over MSN loads, hang out with her in school sometimes, and spend time with her after school some days out of school as well, but ever since she's been with Adam, I hardly see her anymore because she's always with him, even though us three all go to the library every break and lunch, she goes to a separate bit with him and I'm left hanging around on my own, then we don't really speak in lessons either cuz she's always texting him. I'm really happy for them both because I know they liked each other for a while so it's good that they've started going out, but I feel like she's left me for her boyfriend - which she basically has, and I didn't want to ever lose her as my best friend. Is there anything you can suggest I do, or should I just leave them to it?
My best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
Something like that happened to me. Very different, but I did lose a friend, and I was very upset. And for a long time, too. My friend had a lot of troubles in her life and I was very, very, very young. She told me too many things I couldn't handle at that age. It made depressed. Really depressed. I slowly tried to inch myself away from her. I found out she was backstabbing me, and telling people secrets about me. I just cut myself off. When she invited me over I said no, because when I went over I would be sad. I made new friends. When I lost her it was hard but I got through it. I needed to be away from her. She was my first and last best friend. I miss having someone I can tell everything to but I do not miss her. She moved to a new school and eventually we could just say hello and make small talk. Bahh. I guess my story isn't similar to yours but maybe it's comforting to know you aren't the only one who lost a friend, and kind of lost track of what was going on between each other.
My best friend left me because her boyfriend forced her to choose between me and him. We were the closest friends and now I am all alone. I miss her like hell, but I don't think she does the same. I am not able to come out of this thing. Will she return or have I lost my best friend forever?
This situation is surprisingly common. I understand that you may be feeling hurt and angry right now. It definitely wasn't right of her to "choose" the boyfriend over you. But remember - the real villain here is the boyfriend. Due to his own insecurities, he is isolating and controlling your best friend. If she fights or wants to break up with him, she will no longer have her biggest outside support (you). And that will give him more control.So in this situation, I would watch her carefully. Watch especially for signs of emotional abuse. If nothing is wrong, she will probably eventually break up with him and come right back to you, at which point it will be up to you to decide whether to forgive her and re-instate the friendship.