My boyfriend was shocked when I told him I am a virgin?
His shock could be one of two things: 1) He finds you extremely attractive and therefore thought you must have had sexual experiences before dating him. 2) He heard that you were easy from other people before he decided to date you. Now if we are talking option 1, I would be flattered. Your boyfriend thinks you're hot, and probably thinks you are much hotter than he is (which is why he would expect you to be more experienced). If we are talking option 2, I would be pissed and dump him, since this means he is only dating someone he thinks would be an easy lay. Unfortunately, I don't know which of the two is going on in his mind lol good luck finding that out
My boyfriend just told me he's bisexual...?
(Prepare for a confusing story!) Well, today at school, my friend Billie (yes, her name is Billie) told me that she wanted to tell me something about my boyfriend Austin. We walked down the street to a Mr. Sub while we just talked casually, and then when we got into the restaurant, her openly bisexual friend Matt and an openly bisexual friend (don't remember her name) of his was there. They heard I was dating Austin, and automatically Matt said, "Oh ya, the bi guy!" I was shocked! I the heard that Austin had been flirting with Matt before we dated! Austin had not told me, and that was what Billie was trying to tell me! So, as it turns out, Austin had asked Billie to tell me because he was afraid I was going to break up with him... I met Austin outside of Billie's locker, and he gave me a HUGE hug, and I think he realized that I accepted him for his sexual orientation, but I'm still kinda shocked. Like, what does this mean? I'm utterly shocked and confused. I still love Austin, and I'm not gonna break up with him, but I wish I had known earlier. Does this make m a bad person? I am definitely not a homophobic, my best friend is gay and I'm in my high school's Gay Straight Alliance. I'm kinda worried he'll be like checking out both guys and girls behind my back, and stuff. Our relationship hasn't changed, we still have those really cute random hugs between class, and private jokes (no kissing though - I haven't had my first kiss yet. I'm waiting for the right moment.) But I'M SO CONFUSED.
My boyfriend just told me he had a small penis.?
It sounds like he's quite serious about you - not many guys would openly admit that when you are a "new couple". I know that's not the "commitment" sign you were after, but clearly he has his own reasons for not wanting to rush into sex - maybe previous gfs have mocked him for it. I would suggest you do this: I know that every girl is not the same and size isn't always the most important thing, but you need to decide if it is important FOR YOU. Because if it is, you need to assess whether you want to be with him at all, rather than raise his hopes of someone accepting his shortcomings (no pun intended). He needs to know where he stands with this. He was VERY honest about something quite embarrassing so you need to afford him the same respect.
Does my boyfriend have "shell shock" from Iraq?
Shell Shock, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Battle Fatigue are all terms used for the residual stress from being sent to war. My husband has/had PTSD (Shell Shock) after he returned from Iraq. 2 of his friends were killed in an IED. My husband was more of the type to be afraid of loud noises, sit with his back to the corner of the room so he could see everything, sleepless nights, drinking some, nightmares, hallucinations (sort of), etc. If you are concerned about him, ask him to visit his doctor so they can accurately diagnose him and provide him with some therapy. My husband actually hated the therapy and told me that nothing will fix what he felt over in Iraq (constant stress, being ready at a moments notice). He told me that just being around me and being in a normal situation after being home for a while helped the most. Good Luck
Has your child ever caught you doing something that shocked them?
I didn’t catch my mom but my mom caught me:I was at home in the living room. My mom wasn’t supposed to be home for a while. I had my boyfriend over. So we decided to have sex in the living room. So. We started. I had been begging him to f**k me hard and calling him daddy. And he did as I asked. He loves to c*m on my t*ts. We do it every time. However. I am busy sucking his d*ck, trying to get him to c*m. I hear this loud gasp. I look over and my mother is standing there. And I have my boyfriend in my mouth. I say how lon have you been standing there. She replies with I heard you begging him to f*ck you hard. And saying come on daddy c*m on me. And calling him daddy. I watched him c*m on you. and watched him penetrate you. I was completely embarrassed and shocked. So yeah.
After dating for 1.5 years, my boyfriend told me he still has feelings for his ex. He has no intentions of returning to her, but this still hurts. I love him, but I am shocked. What am I supposed to do?
I think that that’s definitely something you’re allowed to feel hurt and shocked over, anyone would! The best and really only thing you can do (if you trust your boyfriend still) is to focus on the positives in this. Maybe appreciate that you two are so close and by sharing this deeply personal information with you he obviously feels like he can be this honest with you. Honesty about feelings in a relationship is so hard to find and it sounds like you are both in touch with each other. Forget the ex and focus on that honesty unless something in the future makes you believe it needs to be readdressed. You’re allowed to feel hurt and shocked, and he needs to make sure you’re reassured in your relationship at the moment, but I would try my best to forget about it until time heals the wound. He wants to be with you, he wants to be honest with you AND he doesn’t want to get back with the ex…Plus no matter how shocking/hurtful the information is, it’s far better to know something like that than not. Try to focus on those parts of it. Honest love is hard to find, but it’s the best kind. Remenber you are both a team with every problem (no yours or mine, just ours)Good luck :)
Have your parents ever caught you doing something that shocked them?
So I was having an affair. My boyfriend and I were having lunch at the park. Suddenly my Father drove by and saw us!!!! (What are the odds?!) He parked his car and came over to me. (Before he reached us my bf and I were trying to come up with a story or explanation.) BF split. Father said to me,” what are you doing with that guy? Isn't that xxxxxx from xxxxx?!” I told him no no NO! The guy was actually an old old old acquaintance that was at the park with his family and I just happened to pick this path to jog today! (I don't jog.) Father looked at me so intently! I couldn't look him in the eye. I was sweating profusely. I was mumbling. I am a bad liar. I know he didn't believe me. I didn't believe me either. Father let it go at that point. Bf and I were much more careful after that close call. Until we broke up. Father has never mentioned it and I am VERY lucky for that!!
My boyfriend took an XTC pill and I'm disappointed, shocked and pissed, but he doesn't get my point? (short)
To be totally honest, if he keeps on hanging w/this crowd of guys, I'm afraid he's going to be trying things along the way now & then. Like you said, a wk. ago you tho't he wouldn't do anything like he did. BUT, he did. If these other guys are doing things & have it around, he's liable to experiment w/other things too. I'm just trying to be honest w/you. The only thing, I don't think IF he did something else he might just not be inclined to tell you about it. It's the people, places & things that are going to be his problem. I don't blame you one bit for bringing it up, because one thing can lead to another & another etc. I know how things like this can happen, I once lived w/it w/one of my children. You're just going to have to keep your eyes on him & see if you notice any differences in him. If you do, just ask about it. Drugs are really undesirable things & can take you places you normally would not go. You are going to have to make the decision if you want to deal w/this on a regular basis, worry about it, or just what you want to do about him. Please tho, take care of yourself & do what you need to do for YOU. Only you can say what's best for you. I truly hope he doesn't get involved w/anything else for both your sakes, & I DO wish you all the best...:)
My boyfriend watching porn involving animals!?
I have just seen some files on my boyfriend's computer with porn involving animals. I was just completely shocked and asked him why is he watching that dirty stuff!? He said he was bored and wanted to check some "new stuff" but it doesn't excite him. I am so shocked that I don't really know what to do now. What shall I think of him? What would you do? How can I trust him that he loves me? Now, I even have doubts about it!! This is just disgusting!