My brother keeps eating my food?
This is just a vent but he always eats my food when I get it from somewhere and it's in a container I normally don't care but since I have a strep throats nothing really sounds good I saved the rest of my rice and vegetables from yesterday even wrote my name on it big so no one eats it but this morning I wanted it, it was gone! He's not awake yet but I am getting impatient to yell at him I am about to wake him up because I'm so mad I'm going to make him buy me more only because that's all what sounds good that or cheese pizza but we don't have any I'm going to snap at him when he gets up! Maybe pull his hair I don't know.
My brothers always eat all the food?
Ok so i always go home and my parents are always at work so i cant ask them for food. My brother gets home first and he eats all the food, i starve and my parents work hard for it. He could have just saved some for me but instead he doesnt care. I tried talking to my mom but she yelled at me and said HE SAID HES SORRY DO YOU WANT ME TO GO TO THE STORE AND BUY ONE FOR YOU?! Even when its my food he still eats it all. My other brother does this too and they both younger so my mom favors them. I get good grades and i dont ask for any thing but they are cute and have a better relationship. I try to hang out with my mother but i do a lot of afterschool. What should i do? I cant talk back to her also.
Brother stealing my food?
You have to be honest with and just say "It's not fair that you keep eating my food when you work and you can buy your own. I have to eat too so be considerate!". Be firm and assertive. If however, you two dont have that sort of assertive communication relationship between youse than handle it more practically. Hide the food! When he's out working or he's gone, eat. But play the game better than he is. Another alternative is eating before he does so you can leave him 15% of the potatoes! If he is physically undermining you (gets to the kitchen first/eats first blah blah blah) than you need to either talk to your Mum about it. Be strong and stand up for your rights to eat! ;)
MY BROTHER EATS ALL OF THE FOOD !!!!?
I can not even begin to explain how PISSED I am about this. my brother is such a ******* pig. lemme give some details tho, he s 19, I m 13, and he has a job (probably quit by now) at a fast food place, doesn t go to college. I live with my parents but they don t do ****. my dad is pissed at him as well but never really does anything. I feel like my mom goes too easy on him. she ll yell at him every now & then but my brother always says stupid things like "I need a snack". I swear, last night my mom & I went grocery shopping and she bought my some Doritos but I warned her he d eat it all but she bought them anyways. today I walked downstairs to get some lunch AND HE HAD THE EMPTY BAG OF DORITOS NEXT TO HIM. my mom also bought cream soda SPECIFICALLY FOR MY SCHOOL LUNCHES but there s already half of the box gone WE BOUGHT THAT BOX LAST NIGHT TOO. he eats all the food & im sick of it. he won t listen to anyone & it s so damn annoying. I don t think he has an intention of moving out anytime soon. he also leaves a mess literally EVERYWHERE in the house. what do I do? if I yell at him he won t listen cause I m his younger sister. he also acts like he s my parent. PLEASS HELPPP
My little brother eats all of the food in the house! Please help!?
I'm 17 and my brother is 14. All he does is watch YouTube, play video games, and eat. He comes out of his room like every half hour to look in the fridge/pantry. It's getting ridiculous. Also I'm vegan, and my mom sometimes buys me frozen veggie burgers, and he ate ALL of them!!! I only had ONE! So now I don't have as much food to eat. He has other things he can eat that my mom buys for him (hot dogs, lunch meat for sandwiches, etc). So he doesn't need to eat my food! The biggest problem is portion control. He doesn't know when to stop! Because I'm vegan, I need to make sure I always have food in the house that I can eat, but how can I eat if he eats ALL of my grocery essentials? (Avocados, bananas, veggie burgers, bread, etc). I think the biggest problem is miscommunication. My mom doesn't tell him anything. But I tell him ALL THE TIME to make the food last throughout the week, but he doesn't listen! He just waits until I leave the room until he eats! (He's a secret eater). I would buy my own groceries, but I'm not in a financial position where that is feasible right now. But that's not even the issue. The thing is, my mom buys enough groceries, he just eats them all! Someone please help! My mom still treats him like he's 10, but he's going into high school
Please help me understand food rationing with foster children.
I have been reading several foster parent blogs where the children they are fostering are accused of "hoarding" food. The foster parents go to great lengths to lock up food and create food control rules in their houses. Two taboos that foster parents seem to be obsessed over are their foster children taking food without permission and having food in their bedrooms. I am really trying to understand this issue. The foster parents say that they need to create these rules because food hoarding behavior stems from "birth" parents depriving the children of food. But aren't foster parents doing the same thing? Aren't they being as neglectful as the "birth" parents? For example, a foster mother was complaining that she "needed" to sleep in until 8:30, but her inconsiderate foster children (11 and 13 y-olds) expected to be able to "leave their rooms" at 6:30 when they woke up. AND they wanted breakfast when they woke up. She thought that they should wait to eat until she was ready to get up at 8:30. Then she went on to say that when she was a kid, she only needed one meal a day and so what was up with their need for food more often than that? Other foster parents on the blog fell all over themselves to identify with the "food hoarding" and to support her "house rules". I bravely posted a comment about "allowing" them to have a healthy snack in their room for when they woke up and got my head bit off for suggesting that it is unreasonable for ravenous teens to want to eat when they first wake up and that it was perfectly fine to expect them to wait in their rooms for 2 hours with an aching hungry tummie until foster mommie dearest could get herself out of bed. So does food hoarding behavior justify depriving foster children of 3 meals a day at the times they are hungry? Are foster parents who ration and control food being abusive? What am I missing here? Does anyone know how to report suspected abuse by an anonymous foster parents?