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My Coach Is Rude To Me

My basketball coach was RUDE?

Okay so I used to play on "B" team and now I moved up to "A" team. Yes I know it's good but I know what's right for me and unfortunately "A" team was way to high advanced for me. "B" team was great and I could communicate better with them. So I asked coach if I can be back on "B" team, she said she'll talk to the other coach bout it. Then tonight my friend with withe coaches and I asked her to asked them if I was able to play on "B" team. This is what one of the coaches said "No, because you being a bucketcase and you need to stop being scared" is that a bit rude of what she said? And what does bucketcase mean?

Is this a rude email to my cheer coach?

so my cheer coach yells at me all the time for our stunt not hitting ever though it is our flyers fault and it makes really frustrated and angry. she falls everytime and we have never hit extension before with her for the past 2 monthes. she keeps yelling at me when I know i can hit it with different flyers. so here is my email:
Hi this is Lauren and I just wanted to talk to you about practice on tuesday night. In my stunt group with Shannon, I am trying very hard and I noticed that our group has been working on our extension since September and it still hasn't hit. For the success of our team, I wondered we could try switching up some stunt groups just to see what would work best so that our team can achieve more at competitions.

okay so i am trying to sound polite about saying that is hasn't been working out very well and i want to try different groups with out her responding like well you just need to push harder.

How to deal with rude/ mean coaches?

I pretty much gave the description, so i will give examples.

-When the coach sees me it looks at me unenthusiastically.
-when i talk to the coach the coach gives me a wtf face and asks what im saying then it hears me and still has that face and tells me to do whatever. sometimes i find it sneering at me.
-when i say hi it looks at me and doesnt respond.then someone else arrives and the coach looks at the person and says hi! and gives a warm smile.
-when i have to do something im terrible at it starts staring at me and laughs uncontrollably.
-when i get injured the coach laughs, then it yells at me.
-tries to teach me wrong ways to do a flip, the coach told me to put my hands under my butt. it tells everyone else to put it on their shins.
-forced me to run a mile when i can't due to me having tendonitis in my left knee.
-snaps at me almost everyday, and is pleasant to everyone else in my team..

I honestly don't know what i did to make the coach mad. I know everyone can be rude and mean at times but its been ongoing everyday for MONTHS.. I can hardly stand to see my coach like this, its really sad, aggravating, and confusing.

THANKS :)

-and i left the gender of people anonymous, i wasn't trying to be mean/disrespectful by calling anyone an it.

My coach is rude to me!!?

As for former basketball player in high school #5 Point Guard, your coach is a freaking dick! My Coach Rage (That's his last name Rage) he NEVER ever yelled at me or my teammates & even we where DOWN 43 POINTS! Yelling is NOT going to help dude. Our Coach talk to us with calm & he did give us nick names but NOT insult names. If I was you, I would talk to him because this is NOT normal. Yelling to it's own teammates is NOT going to help to motivate them since this is not a military base.

My coach made me cry then hugged me?

I'm 17 and my coach is 28. She's kind of like my big sister but she can be really rude and condescending to me. Today I asked her a SIMPLE question and she totally went off on me and it was kind of traumatizing and I hate getting yelled at, it freaks me out lol so I started crying. Plus she was being extremely rude. And after I started crying and everything she hugged me and was like "you're fine. calm down babe, everything is okay. I love you, you know I'm always here for you and I'm just telling you what you need to hear instead of what you want to here. there's no reason to be upset"...is it weird how she went completely off on me and then hugged me and started being weirdly nice to me? I'm kind of dreading seeing her tomorrow because it was just awkward

My new 20 year old cheer coach is so rude to me and it makes me want to cry (please help)?

So Ive been in cheer for two years now and my coach always has new assistants. This year she hired a 20 year old who is so rude. She's only rude to me and I don't know why.She's so nice to everybody else and as much as I try to fix things and be nice she just still is rude and i see her laughing from the corner of my eye and it makes me feel bad. I won't talk to her about it because I'm too scared and I know she's probably gonna be like what are you talking about. and I don't want to tell my main coach because i don't want her to think im being dramatic. The point is how do I make it stop bothering me and just go on thinking she's not there. because she still gives us instructions.
(i'm 15 by the way) today she talked to me like i was stupid and said "we established that already" and walked away
its just rude
i really want to make it stop bothering me and I won't talk to her about it
how can i do it without talking to her?

My track coach is always mean to me? Would it be rude to stand up to her?

At my athletics club one of my coaches really hates me. She's only 17 (im 15) and she always picks on me and tells me off for nothing. I dont mind being told off if I do derserve it and if the person actually talks to me like I am a human being but she talks to me like Im a scumbag and she literally shakes with anger when she shouts at me. I really hate being around her and it really ruins athletic club!

I try my best at athletics but i have some learning difficulties and get things mixed up...she gets so mad at me like I i just comitted a crime!

Would you consider it rude if I stood up to her and talked back? I did once but and it made her shut up but it made her hate me even more. Should I tell my mum/dad? Should I ask them to talk to the older coach about this horrible girl?

Is my tennis coach being a bit rude to me...help i dont know why but its really bothering me?

Ok recently i've just been having a really tough time and have not been regular with my tennis sessions with the coach. And now on top of all the personal issues I'm having my final school exams - I've just got a lot of things in my mind so I decided to postpone my tennis sessions for 2 months and I texted my coach (pretty late) saying that I'm really sorry and can't make come for two months. I got really angry reply saying "You could have informed earlier about that. I'm not avaliable in January, you should find a new coach." What do you guys think this means?

Although I've only known her for a year I thought we were friends. I mean I was selfish with replying so late but I would have done it earlier but I just had so many things in my head :(

Do you think I should let this coach go? And find another coach? Or should I send a text to her and say "I'm sorry for the late notice, are you avaliable later next year?"

And the really scary thing I have to meet her once sometime and get her signatures for something.

What should I do?? :( Please help

How can you tell if your coach hates you?

If you’re talking about sports coaches, you will know if they hate you if they ignore you.A coach may be hard on you and push you to what you may see as unfairly, and it may be unfair but its because they want you to push yourself because they seem something in you.Now, I had a football coach that did this to a teammate of mine to an unfair level to the point, 17 years later my teammate still hates our coach. But he did play football in college, partially because our coach pushed him so hard.Now, on the other hand there are a group of people that the coach will not push, they will ignore, be rude to and probably try to intimidate or bully. They don’t “hate” these players as people OR players they just hate that they are taking up a spot on a team and aren’t worthy of it. They can cut them if possible, move them to JV or another lower tier team but they will try to make them quit.Lets put it this way. If you’re working your butt off and you know you’re doing a good job and your coach, boss, etc is still pushing you to do more than he likes you. If you’re working your butt off and can’t seem to do anything to get in hi good graces, it likely means he doesnt think you can cut it.

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