Is it fair my cousin always says ladies first?
It's not fair. It is sexist. She is also misinterpreting the saying. The way I was taught, "ladies first" meant if a male and a female were walking from point A to point B, the woman goes before the man. (For example, going through a door. The woman goes first.) It doesn't mean the woman gets to choose whatever she wants to do before the man. Tell her to read up on her history about the phrase and put your foot down next time she tries to pull something.
My Mom always compares me to my cousins.?
I'm 15 years old and my Mom has been comparing me to my cousins and friends. I'll admit my grades haven't been up to par lately. But instead of helping, she just puts me down and says how my cousins are so much better and a bunch of other stuff. She has that "I'm always right" mentality and whenever I try to explain myself, she says I'm getting an attitude. She says that my cousins in Trinidad to kill for the opportunities I have. Its like she's oblivious to how hard I'm trying. I know I'm not the perfect daughter but the things she says makes me feel terrible.
My cousin ALWAYS copies me?
I know how you feel!!! im 13 and my cousin is 8 but she acts like she is 15!! we were at my grandmas house and we were going somewhere and i went to go sit in the car (front seat) and she started to cry! she is only 8!!! she is the most spoiled person i know! her parents are divorced so she gets what ever she wants!! she has a camera that she doesn't use and shes not even thankful for it! i just got a camera that i had to pay with my OWN money and the only reason i got it was because my parents paid for half of it cuz i got strait A on my report card . i had the same phone forever! it have a razor and still use it and am thankful for it. she had 3 phones in her life! she keeps "losing" them because she wants a new one! and when someone asks like for example "whats ur fav color?" i say green and she says green, then the next time i wait for her to answers first and she says pink and im like "i hate pink!" (i really dont) and she like "ya i dont really like it, i was joking" and i just got a new laptop for school and now guess who is getting a new laptop? she is whiney so her dad gets her what ever she wants. her mom (my aunt) dosnt spoil her tho. once i was at her house and she was watching TV and i took a fruit roll up and she started to cry! and start hitting me but her mom stoped her. plus when ever she comes over she takes all my hidden candy (my family is really healthy so i have to hide my junk food lol) so i know how u feel.
Why does my cousin always try to make me feel bad about myself?
If feels like I’ve answered this question before? First of all there is a beautiful gift we’ve been given in life and it’s called, “Choice.” We all have it, and we all have to use it within our own discretion. We can decide whether or not we “deserve to be treated less,” and or “disrespected and made to feel less.” Once we examine “how we want to be treated,” we have to do the hardest thing in the world and that is either “distance ourselves” from them or erase the relationship.Might I add there is no relationship or a friendship when we allow someone to abuse us, we are playing a game. That game is co-dependent and really means we are dependent on them. Before you distance yourself from the people you shared with us today it might be a good idea to tell them how you are feeling. The key to being empowered is acknowledging there is no such thing as, “Someone making me feel…making me say…making me do anything.” We have choices, and when we take ownership of how we feel when someone hurts our feelings, or violates our being … it is powerful.” Claim your power, why would allow someone to put you down? Find people who are excited to be around you! Where? Join a club, an activity and make some more friends. Love yourself and it will come back to you like you’ve never dreamed.
My cousin told me she loves me?
That's family, it's wrong. Fall for someone not related to you.
Is it weird that I say "I love you" to my cousin?
I was talking to some of my friends & they said that it was weird that i say "I love you" to my cousin. Whenever i see him, i give him a hug & kiss on the cheek...nothing wrong with that because hes family right? He & i spend lots of time together & whenever we go shopping at the mall, people always assume that i am his girlfriend because I hug him & stuff. But he and i are just really close & I do love him a lot. Even his own girlfriend thinks that we are kinda weird because one christmas day he got me a really cool present & i gave him a big hug & kiss on the cheek & I said "i love u! ur the best cousin ever!". We dont kiss on the lips or anything like that....but im just wondering if that is weird that he and i do that. my boyfriend thinks that its kinda odd too...what do u think???
English Grammar: Would I say "my cousin and me" or "my cousin and I"?
Answer : “my cousin and I” correct when used as the subject of the verb. Ex: My cousin and I were last in queue. ( underlined words are used as the subject of the verb ) Hint: How to find the Subject : Verb + what/ who = Subject One of the rules of Concord says : The subject should be arranged in the proper order.This Rule further emphasises that the order of the subjects should be as mentioned below.First … the person spoken to ( Second Person, examples you … singular and you… plural )Second….the person of ( Third Person, examples He, she , it and they )Last… the speaker ( First Person, examples I and We )Pronouns are replacers of Nouns. Whatever rules apply for Nouns , the same rule also applies to Pronouns.Hence the order of Pronouns also should be as described for Nouns.In the given sentence “ my cousin” is a noun and “I “ is a pronoun. They are the subjects of the verb. And their order is correct. And both of them are in Nominative case which is the case of Subjects. “my cousin and me ” is also correct when used as the Object of the verb. The last chance was given to my cousin and me. ( underlined words are used as the object of the verb ) In the given sentence “ my cousin” is a noun and “I “ is a pronoun. They arethe objects of the verb. And their order is correct. And both of them are in Objective case which is the case of Objects. Note : The Pronoun forms are different for different Cases as shown below.I….Nominative Case.( case of the subject ) Me….Objective Case ( case of the object )Hint: How to find the Object : 1. Subject + verb + what = Object 2. Subject + verb + whom = Object 3. Subject + verb + to whom = Object 4. Subject + verb + for whom = Object Conclusion: 01.“my cousin and I” correct when used as the subject of the verb. 02. “my cousin and me ” is also correct when used as the Object of the verb.
She's my cousin what is wrong with me?
Nothing's wrong. She's cute and arouses your body. That's as it should be. Your job is to handle it. You might ask her if she's coming on to you. And if she says no, ask her to not be fully clothed around you. You have testosterone in your veins. She's either tormenting you willfully or tormenting you accidentally. I'm sure on some level she knows it, but perhaps not consciously. Tell her. Girls and boys do a lot of posturing sexually. It's in our nature. But it can easily mess up people.
How to i stop cousin from running away?
Your friend and her family desperately need counseling. The hitting part really caught my attention. I don't know exactly about where you are, but where I am located there is a Department of children and families. They have this reputation for taking kids away and they do, but they also have RESPITE programs for just this situation. The child has a safe place to go, her parents can know exactly where she is if she wants or not. This will also get her and the family's foot in the door for some very good counseling. It is important that she knows.. THIS CAN BE FIXED and without endangering her life. The school counselors should be able to help set it up. My wife and I do Foster care, sort of, just respite care and this is EXACTLY what situation it is for. PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT GO TO THE STREETS!! PS you are a great friend!!!!!!!!!! Thanks
My cousin always want to isolate herself for no reason. What's wrong with her?
Are you only one voicing concern or do others notice this as well? There are many different reasons One may isolate themself. Finding out the underlying issue is the best way to go forward deciding if it is a choice of hers or something more like a mental health issue. She could be an introvert, an empath or just a loner.. Or something more serious like chronic depression. If you have a close relationship with her you need to have a heart to heart and pick up on any red flags she may throw out. Hopefully it is something simple but,, if it isn't and it does turn out to be more complicated and serious, be willing to ask for help from friends and family to make sure she doesn't fall further into a void. Let her know she has people like you that care and want to help her.