I have a huge crush on my Fathers co-worker?
Sorry I just had to get this out on here, I can't tell anybody else, or else they'd think I'm some kind of freak! lol I don't know why I have a crush on him, he's very very attractive and handsome. Nothing will come out of this crush, and I know that. He's must be in his thirties or late twenties, I'm sure....and he's married and has two baby girls. So my crush on him is very wrong. He's probably the most handsome guy I've ever seen. I went my Baba's work, and I saw him there, he's was one of the new people my baba hired. I was staring at him a lot. I know I'm so weird :/. He said to me "Assalama Alakum" as he walked by and smiled. I said "Wa alakum wasalam" so nervously, like my heart was beating so fast. :S I feel like going with my father to his work everyday so I could see him....what's wrong with me??? I'm goinng crazy! lol There really isn't a question.,I just had to get this out, sorry. But I guess you could tell me how get over this stupid crush?? thanks
Should I tell my coworker I have a crush on her, but, am trying to get over it?
I think we all are curious why you distanced yourself from her. My gues I'd that you wanted to keep your work life separate from your social/romantic variety, but I'm not certain. Anyway, I don't think you should be afraid to crush on her. Of course you should keep work professional, but if you desire to pursue the lady you shouldn't push her away for employment’s sake.So…What I think you should do before making another move such as the radius game you already performed, is ask her how she feels and maybe even tell her why you distanced yourself from her. Where should you do it?!? OUTSIDE of work, yayyyyy!!! Try to set the tone as a casual one.
I miss my coworker whom i had a crush on?
I miss a coworker and Im trying to move on. We got along so well for a long time and we started flirting. The last year of work we didnt talk to each other. She is supposed to get married in a few months but in my mind I feel like I have a chance even though I dont see her. What do I do?
I have a crush on one of my co-workers. What should I do?
The rational answer is to get over it and not engage in a romantic relationship with a coworker. If it works out and you become a couple, it will be awkward for your other coworkers and if it doesn't work out, do you really want to work at the same place as your ex? Are you willing to leave or lose your job over her?Of course, the heart wants what the heart wants, so good luck. :)
One of my boyfriend's co-workers has a huge crush on him and has been looking into my life. Should I say anything about it?
Yeah you’ve got a problem… a stalker. Problem is, who can you tell? Presumably your boyfriend already knows and is just hoping it goes away, so it doesn't cause him problems at work.It won’t kill you to make a report to the police. If it were me, I’d write it out very clearly In advance. But don't be surprised if they tell you they can't do anything. That's what I was told almost forty years ago when I was being stalked.If it were me, I’d do several things. I’d put a small canister of pepper spray in my purse or on my key ring. I’d be particularly careful stepping out into the street where a car might run me down. I’d consider having an attorney write her a letter indicating that she should cease and desist following you or you will have her served with an order of protection, meaning that she cannot come within a certain distance of you (100 yards for example) without being arrested. These go by various names no doubt but attorney will know what I mean.The problem is that sometimes, such orders tend to really set the other person off and they get extremely obsessive and far more dangerous than they may have been. Additionally, they may also seek retribution against not just you but your boyfriend. So they really are recommended as a last resort.By the way, your boyfriend should consider talking to Human Resources where he works, perhaps taking you, or presenting a statement from you, indicating that he is not making a formal complaint (unless you want to) against this person but wants them to be apprised of the circumstances lest they make unwarranted claims against him.
Crush on a coworker with a boyfriend.?
I used to get along well with this female coworker. I have a huge crush on her but now she has a boyfriend. Everytime we see each other I try to avoid her but she comes to me and is very friendly to me. I try my best to ignore her and send a message that I don't want to talk to her. She either doesn't get the hint or doesn't care and continues to try to talk to me and ask me to go out with her and others from work for drinks. She has a boyfriend so I try to stay away from her, plus she used to be very flirty with me and has suggested that the two of us hook up after a night of drinking. I don't know if she still likes me like that but I don't want to come between her and her boyfriend. But I also want her bad. What do I do?
Should I tell my coworker I have a massive crush on him?
You don't.Unless he has made it abundantly clear to you that he is interested, then the safest assumption is that he is not. Unless you want to create unneeded tension in the workplace either rein in your feelings or ask to be reassigned for unspecified "personal reasons."Why?What are you going to do if he's not interested in you? - Have you considered that?What are you going to do if he IS interested in you, but later you find that you aren't as interested in him s you first believed yourself to be?What are you going to do if his interest is simply sexual and he then has no interest in anything further with you? - Especially if you both are still on the project together?Sorry...but too many things can go wrong and not enough will go "right" to make this anything other than a fantasy that you should keep to yourself. If you cannot, then again, you need to remove yourself from the situation.