Can a dog get upset/depressed over a haircut?
This is a bit long, but please read, I am really confused! I have a very furry dog and since the summer is here (and i live in texas) I decided to take her to the groomers last saturday. Now i took my dog to her a lot of times and she never cut her hair very short, but this time, she left her furry tail and face, but the rest of her hair is very very short (about 2 cm length). My dog has never had her hair that short (her hair is usually about an inch or two long normally). She still looks cute as ever so i dont mind it and i thought that since shes a dog, she wouldnt care either. Lately, though, since we got back from the groomers, i have been noticing a change in her behavior. She doesnt get excited anymore like she used to, and barely comes to greet me at the door when i come home, like she did before. Then, She is always shaking her body constantly. My mom and i joked and said "shes looking for her hair", but now, I am starting to wonder is she depressed about her hair cut short. I keep on thinking its a silly idea, but i dont know what else i can attribute to her change in behavior, since it only happened after the haircut and never before. If so, do you have any suggestions on what i should do besides waiting until her hair grows out? Any help would be greatly appreciated and thank you in advance!
Please help, my daughter is cutting herself!?
My daughter is 13 and her brother is 11. Her father and I have been divorced for 7 years and she doesn't spend time with her dad because she says it's boring over there and she prefers to be with her friends. She has had depression and anxiety most of her life as have I and most of the people in my family have this problem. She is on a medicine and I thought that would solve everything but now I find out she has been cutting her legs for 2 years and now her arms. It makes me soooo sad to see her hate herself and scar herself. She is beautiful, sweet, and smart. She refuses to go to see the doctor or a counselor and the doctor wants her to go to an inpatient facility but I don't want her to miss a lot of school and get more stressed out. I want to help her and she knows I love her. What do I do? I would do anything for her.
My Gf keeps cutting herself and it's getting worse. How do I get her to stop?
My Gf always tells me that she thinks she ugly (Which is most definitely not). She tells me that she thinks she isn't good enough for me. She always says that she hates herself and she takes it out on her body. She began to burn herself on her wrists two weeks back. A couple days ago she started cutting up her arms and stomach. Now she is cutting herself on the stomach even more. She is destroying her body and I need to stop her! Nothing I say makes her want to stop. She says she can't promise me that she will stop. It hurts me to know that as her boyfriend I should be able to protect her from anything, but the one thing I can't protect her from is herself. I love her and don't want anything bad to happen to her. I want to get her to stop and I know that it won't be easy, but I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her to stop. I want her to stop destroying her body and show her how much she really means to me and everybody else. I've tried talking to her, but she barely listens. She keeps telling me "You can save me from myself". She says it relieves her stress for a while and helps her let her emotions out. She doesn't understand that it's hurting her body and leaving her with scars and pain. She just doesn't care about herself. Please give me advice on how to help her, I need to save her!
How to cut without severely hurting yourself?
It is completely inappropriate for you to come here and ask people to help you self injure. People who would help you are also violating the rules. this method works really well to remove and heal emotional pain ,and there is also a free self help version of it. eftmasters.com
Is my daughter cutting herself, and if so what do I do?
So awhile ago I posted a question about my daughter being "emo". Which she really is starting to make me worry. She went to camp for a week and when she came back she was wearing a short-sleeve t-shirt for the first time in a long time. On her left arm I noticed a bunch of scars just straight lines on the upper wrist right before her elbow. I am making an appointment on Monday to go talk to a doctor because, I'm really starting to think she is depressed. She hardly ever talks to me now. She and her best friend are in a fight over this guy from camp because he kept staring at my daughter and smiled at her a couple times instead of her friend. I'm begging to worry about her, I really have no idea if she cuts, and if she does will she cut now that her friend and her are in an argument? Also my boyfriend and I took her to her friends house which she was going to camp with and she didn't want my boyfriend to ride with and he did anyways. I noticed in the car mirror when I looked in the back seat she kept looking at her wrist.
How to help my girlfriend to stop scratching herself?
My girlfriend is 18 and has been cutting for a while now. I finally got her to stop cutting herself. But anytime something bad enough happens she scratches herself. How do I help her stop. I tell her she's to beautiful, and if im around the only way to stop her from doing it is to physically hold her arms and make her either stop or make her scratch me instead. But when im not around I cant do anything about it. Ive told her how much it means to me. Every time she does it she tells me and always appologizes. Does she really mean this or just not want me to get mad? It only happens in really bad situations and she doesnt do it after whatever happened is done with just during it or directly after. This makes me feel horrible, it tears mea apart when she does it and she knows it does but does it anyways. I wonder if she does it and thinks about it or if she just does it like an addiction. Please help! It tears me up mentally when she does it. -Thanks in advance.
How to act depressed?
Ideas 1.She could be hallucinating, and the person she see's makes her kill herself 2.She could be sat in the corner of her room with her headphones in listening to depressing music, but then starts crying. 3. Sat on the floor, writing 'what's the fuking point anymore' in her diary. 4. She could have a knife in her hand cutting herself, and have the tablets aside her ready to kill herself. 5.Could be in an argument with someone on her mobile.. then it gets to much, she throws it at the wall.. and then kills herself. 6. She could be making a suicide video and says about how there's not point anymore or what she's about to kill herself with.