Was I wrong when told my ex boyfriend we can't be friends after he told me he can't be committed to me?
You weren’t wrong. Staying friends after a breakup is actually not commonly workable. It is most common when people started out friends, let it gets little more serious but never develops deep commitment. It was the decision you made that your gut told you was right. No need to second guess. Most decisions have their upsides as well as downsides and that is true for which over choice you opt for.You appear to be looking for something else in your relationships than he is—namely commitment. That means people who aren’t willing or able to be committed are UNAVAILABLE. By breaking up without the lingering “friendship” your status is clear to you and others and you can more quickly try to find someone who is available.
My boyfriend told a friend his ex was the "best woman in his life". Should I confront him?
Ask him if he had a chance to leave the relationship he’s in with you and go back to his ex, if he would do it. Then go from there.I’m saying that as a woman who has been in the same relationship with the same guy for over 20 years and never cheated. I never would and he wouldn’t either. I have had relationships in the past that could never have worked out in any stretch of my imagination, but were great while they lasted for a variety of reasons that I wouldn’t lie about in order to protect someone’s feelings. My husband has had some of those, too. Our relationship has weathered the truth about those. There were things about his ex that he liked better than me. There are things about him that I liked my ex better about. We’re both pretty clear about what we’re willing to change for each other and what we’re not. I’d be upset if he said that she were the ‘best woman’ in his life, though. You need to find out what that’s all about.As far as your friend goes, that’s not a good thing to have told you. It would be one thing if he says it all the time. It’s another if he blurted it out once and you don’t know the context. People say things when they’re hurt, stressed or angry that they don’t mean or don’t mean later.
My ex-best friend told my ex-boyfriend about the secrets that I told her. What should I do?
In life learning is a continuous process. You learn not to reveal all your secrets. You learn how to get over a break up and you learn how to extricate yourself when cornered. First of all, know that being in relationships is overrated. It is better to wait and find a suitable partner - even if it takes more than 3 years - than to rush headlong into a bad friendship and regret later. Next, just say your ex best friend was lying through her teeth when she said that you cried, you missed your ex, and that you are jealous of his GF, etc. In fact, you assure your ex that you told those stories to her because she pestered you time and again to know how you felt and would not let go unless you fed such crap. Now, what is it to your ex that he should bother about all these things and make enquires with you when he is already in a relationship with a new GF? I am surprised. Because, it shows that he too is thinking about you and is concerned, is it? Anyway, that is his problem. So, just forget about the whole thing and move on. In life, you live and learn as whom to trust and whom not to. Consider this as one such lesson. All the best.
Should I meet my ex boyfriend friends?
The answer is NO.Once my friend told me that whenever you'll marry, break contact with all friends who knows your past or weakness, I didn't understand his point at that time but after sometime I understood why he said so.The people portray two personalities one in front of you and one behind your back, no matter how much they seems nice, you never know when they'll backstab you.I and my husband were in same office. My close friend who knew everything about me and her bf were in the same office as well. So after our engagement one of our colleagues called my husband and told ill about me. Though my husband knew that it was some rumour as spread by my friend’s bf but if my friend haven't told anything to her bf this would not have happened.So I suggest you not to even try contacting your ex’s friends, it will not only impact your present but your future also.
I made out with my best friends ex boyfriend and now she hates me?
they broke up a week ago, but the thing is SHE broke up with him. she told me how much she hated him and how she didn't ever wanna see him again. i've had feelings for him for months and i always had to sit through them kissing when they were going out. i knew something like this was going to happen so i even asked her the night before what she would do if i ever did anything with him and she told me that she wouldn't care at all and if i really like him i could do whatever. so we were all at the mall and he told me he had to talk to me so we left everyone else and we started making out, thats all we did though. well my friend asked me if thats what we did cause she had a "feeling" and i am a horrible liar. she instisted she wasn't mad and all this stuff but today she was telling everyone how much she hated me and how she didnt wanna be friends, she's also with this other girl who likes the same guy, they used to hate each other but now they have something in common, they both hate me. i apologized too many times to count, and i told her i made a horrible mistake and that i wouldnt talk to him or even look at him anymore, but she won't forgive me. this is the first thing wrong i did in our friendship. and shes telling everyone that im the reason they broke up, for sympathy. she's turning all of my friends against me. so my question is was i wrong to do this? she told me a hunderd times that she hated him.
Should i tell my best friend that i have slept with her ex boyfriend?
two years ago i slept with my best friend's ex boyfriend, i have done that twice and i have not gotten the guts to tell her, m scared that if i tell m going to lose her, i truly love her and i feel very bad for what i did, i believe if i tell her she is not going to trust me. wht should i do?
How to tell a friend there ex boyfriend likes me?
Theres this girl shes my best friend and i dont know how to tell her sorry cause i went out with her ex bf but i didnt know cause he lied to me. I asked him to keep it a secret and he said ok but for you, but unfortantly he told this girl named Taylor who spread it to Gabby and it evenantly spread as a rumor. I have no idea if Alexis found out and if she has i dont know how i'll say sorry. Any suggestions???!!!
Am I just a friend to my ex boyfriend or does he like me?
It’s amazing how many women ask me this question. My question to you is, Who initiated the first texts after he broke up with you? My next question is Who initiates the texts each day?Once dumped, many women end up thinking that they can get their ex back by checking in, asking for something, telling them about their day. This can be from a place of loneliness, and also from a place of manipulation.And many men, once they have dumped their girlfriend (no offence to any man here, but it does happen), check in to see how far they can go. And to be brutally honest, some just want to have their ex on hand for booty calls.The truth is, he broke up with you for a reason. Do you know what the reason was?And even deeper than that, why would you want someone back who broke up with you?Another piece of this question is that once you end a relationship with someone, it is difficult to be friends with them. It is absolutely possible, but the reality is that you both need to be very clear about what kind of relationship you want to have with the other person.Do you want to be friends or lovers, or do you want to be in a committed relationship?These are the questions you need to ask yourself and your ex. It’s better to find out now, than later. Hope this helps.BlessingsCaterina Barregar - North America's Relationship and Worthiness Coach
Why would my ex-boyfriend tell his friend that I'm wifey material, but not date me?
Simple, he is preserving and protecting you. He respects you and sees you as straight with a good head on your shoulders. He wants to let his friend know NOT to try to use you for sex. He may be saving you for a time much, much, much later but not anytime close to the near future. Also, he is ensuring his friend stay the hell away from you, knowing any one of his friends is game to give you a go. Also, right now he doesn’t want to date wifey material. He wants to date a variety girls that he can have a variety of sexual acts with. He doesn’t want to marry those girls, he just wants to use them in sexually exploitative ways to satisfy his urges and curiosity. But afterwards, he will lose all respect for them and consider them NOT wifey material. He could never marry someone who he did such-and-such to or who did such-and-such with him. Nobody wants to think they are spending the rest of their life with the a whore who throws herself at everybody and screws everybody and doesn’t take care of herself physically, emotionally, etc.