Is she cheating on me? she gets so defensive when I ask her questions about what she is doing?
here's the deal, I know my girlfriend's routines....she usually gets up an hour before work and calls me and sits up with coffee while talking to me, heads off to shower and calls me on way to work. yesterday she, had to work at 7:30, she tells me the night before she's getting up at 6:30, I was working all night so I usually send a nice text message previous to when she gets up....an hour or 45 minutes before. She answers right away, find out from her she set her alarm to 5:45, an extra 45 minutes ahead of her usual time...so, I know maybe some of you are saying who cares...this is a girl who needs her sleep, so her being up that early -says she did it because she thought she needed extra time to wake up- , is really strange....when i asked her about it she got so pissed off about it I couldn't understand..I really was like "baby, you never get up so early" and "why would you get up 45 minutes extra to take a shower when you haven't by now?" she was livid....so last night after things had cooled, she tells me not to worry tomorrow -which would be today- that she needs extra time to wash her hair because she didn't wash it yesterday and she feels horrible, tells me not to freak out if she doesn't call as usual....I thought that was stranger than her reaction yesterday morning... this is a gal who told me it takes her 5-10 minutes to wash her hair, and that's pretty typical for most gals, what is going on? Am I going crazy over nothing, or is this normal behaviour...one thing for sure is, her geting up early or announcing she needs extra time to wash her hair is not normal....assures me I am the one, we're in love and all that stuff, but this is freaking me out...help me out girls, guys....
My husband gets mad when I call him or ask where he is!!!!?
How long have you two been married? Has he always been like this, or is this something new? There is nothing wrong with knowing where your husband (or wife) spends their time. It is another thing to demand to know where they are every minute of every day. I would certainly feel resentful of someone who expected that-it shows a lack of trust. On the other hand, yelling at your spouse for wanting to know where you are sounds like someone trying to hide something. You should not be alone & bored. Suggest doing something together. Be specific. Let's go see a movie (or go to dinner, or go bowling) instead of Let's do something. If he doesn't want to go-GO WITHOUT HIM. Do not be a prisioner in your own home. As far as the sex problem, try to talk to him outside the bedroom. Pick a time when you are both alert & there are no distractions around. Tell him you love him, and you want to please him, but you also want to feel wanted. He may still react badly. From what you have said, I am sorry to say it sounds like he might be having an affair. If that is the case, you have a desision to make. Personally, I would not stay with someone who treated me the way you describe whether they were having an affair or not. Not any more, anyway. I spent 10 years of my life with someone very similar. Life is too short for that. You are not sick in the head to demand that your husband treat you with courtesy and respect.
How do I handle and angry and defensive scorpio???
Scorpios tend to think of themselfs as an emotional wreck, but there's a logical explanation for their obsessiveness. Scorpios are intensely emotional and mystically sexual (oh, those eyes!). The key to their spiritual maintenance is finding healthful outlets for their passion, creativity, artistry and sensitivity.Take care not to surrender to Scorpio's darker side. Scorpios have the capacity to self-destruct and to destroy others. They fear of losing control can wreak havoc, because it may induce them to grab power or attempt to control others excessively. When Scorpios are not doing well, they tend to detach and retreat from human contact. That's bad news because their intensity diffuses among groups. Sharing is vital to Scorpios long-term bliss. Their best match is someone who shares interest in metaphysics and is charmed by your ethereal, fanciful musings. Don't batter Scorpios for their insecurities and emotional instabilities. Think of it as the cost of being a deep thinker. Scorpios philosophies on such topics as survival, life's deeper meanings and reincarnation couldn't have become so highly evolved without a dose of depression. Still, they will be fine. Scorpios resourcefulness, work ethic, strength, courage and efficiency are your their graces. Some people find their sensuality intimidating, but others are drawn to it.Scorpios are a tough act to follow, but once you've met them, you seldom move on.... They feel things on a deeper level than most. But don't be fooled They will bounce back from any hurt you can inflict. Of course, they are probably be the one who refuses to get close because commitment is a four-letter word.
Why does my gf get mad at me when I ask her simple questions?
She is annoyed and doesn't seem to respect you. When a cabe no longer cares about the impression she is making on you, then you know that she is indifferent about what you must feelIt's time time you out your foot and tell her she is mean and rude. Retract our question. And leav her presses when she does that.You at her BF. Yoh do things for her that nobody else does. Now imagine the courtesy and respect she extends to others that are way less deserved a de home she is way less familiar with. Sounds unjust, doesn't it?Ironic how we not only take our loved ones for granted, but we treat the more poorly than we treat our friends and acquaintance. Stupid?!? It's just Crazy.Don't stand for. If tears won't changer her, trust me, your contempt st being treated like that WILL.It works for me and it makes her love me more (she has her Moody times. I did t sign up for tag while courting her. She respected me enough then to keep her temper it in check. Why would I allow it to creep into our relationship when it wasn't there to begin with?
Girlfriend gets mad when I touch her butt!?
So my girlfriend of a year gets really mad when I touch her butt or try to act all sexual. We both love each other a lot but whenever I try to do something, she thinks that I only think of her as a sexual object, which is not true. Do girls get all defensive like this? I mean, it's been a year and I'm just trying to be flirty and fun. What do you think??