My best friend always copies me?
Actually, don't be annoyed. Be flattered, and even feel sorry for her. Here's, why... For you, it takes NO effort to be yourself. You know what you want, you know what you're interested in. You know you. SHE, on the other hand, is turning her back on herself becuase she's too busy trying to be something she's not. When she went out and bought all those lipsticks, even more than you, guess who wasted their money on something they probably didn't even like or care for all that much? She did. She's probably never going to wear every color lipstick she bought. She's not probably not going to even wear it right, or be fully wise in what colors match her outfits. THink about it, she's spending all this effort and money on STUFF that probably isn't even a part of her original style. The joke's on her. OR, maybe she does really like the style you have. But she's incapable of creating one for herself. It could also be that she really admires you, is jealous, of you, or she wants you to feel like that she's got it and wants you to be jealous of her. Maybe she want's recognition. Well, it's clear she does if she's making up stories about people drooling over her boots and crap. Just sit back and have a quiet laugh. Hopefully, she'll get tired. Also, don't share anything you like with her, becuase you know what's going to happen.
My friend always copies me .?
Ok so every little thing I do she'll copy and it's gotten to the point where she's basically stealing my friends . She's my best friend to but she always copies or has to be one up done me . -I got my ears pierced the second time a couple weeks ago , so she has to get a third hole pierces now ! -I've always worn skinny jeans , converse , and hoodie and teeshirts , I've never really been girly , but she was one of the most girliest people I know , but what does she wear now ? The same . Exact . Style . -.- -I like all time low and mayday parade , she likes all time low and mayday parade . -I dye my hair , she wants her dyed . -she ALWAYS brags about when she gets new clothes . Shell seriously take a picture of it all . - she acts no where like her self online , she swears and everything . - I like gir , and jack the skellington , she like them . - I put spaces between my punctuation , so does she . - I like a guy , SO DOES SHE . She also copies other people to . She tries to hard to fit in but she mainly copies me . And other people have noticed ! And I honestly think she acts like me cause I have more friends than her . No I'm not trying to sound popular , I'm saying compared to her I have a lot more friends , so she probably thinks by being like me , my friends will like her . And it works . Shes steeling my friends ! I just don't know what to do , it's so annoying . But I don't want to loose her as my best friend .
My friends always copy me!?
So last year, I was the first one in my group of friends, perhaps even my whole class, to get this certain haircut. I know this is really popular, but its bangs with layers. I have my bangs cut right above my eyes and in an angle. Well, my friend Monica got THE SAME EXACT HAIRCUT right after I got mine, but I figured it was just a trend. Then I started reading Harry Potter. After my friend Jackie found out, she started reading it too. It went kinda like this: "You read Harry Potter?" "Yep." the next day: "Hey guess what, I'm reading Harry Potter now!" "Oh, they're good books huh?" "Yeah, I started reading them before, but got bored, so now I'm reading them again." I thought it was a bit weird how she started reading them "again" right when she found out I read them. Now, a few days ago, my friend Alexis got THE SAME HAIRCUT (bangs with layers) at the same length and everything, AND GOT THE SAME GLASSES I DO. WTF. And before she got this haircut she told Monica "Mable copied your hairstyle, with the bangs and stuff." What a hypocrite.. Oh and after I started listening to rock, ALEXIS AND MONICA DID TOO. They never said a word about it until I started listening to it. And Alexis only adds the songs that I show her..
My friend always copies my interests?
My best friend who I've been best friends with for three years now, always copies what i like. Shes been doing this since 7th grade and its been pissing me off. Right now, im really into beauty and makeup and buying make up and stuff like that. However, last year she would always bug me and mock me for liking it, but suddenly she starts buying all the make up i buy and starts watching beauty gurus on youtube and its just so aggravating. Previously, she's done with with the clothes i wear and music i listen to and it just really gets on my nerves because i feel like i have no personality if she takes everything i like. Sorry for ranting its just been really bugging me. any advice? thanks <3
How do I deal with a friend who copies me?
First of all cancel that party. Say the venue wasn't available or something. Tell her why you're doing it, and that if she contradicts you that all your friends will be made aware that she's too blame. As to the issue. You need to identify why she's copying you. Does she admire you? Is she purposefully trying to tick you off? Is she dull and have no original thoughts of her own? Does she have an actual mental issue?Identifying what her problem is will help determine what you need to do. No matter what, I think she would benefit from a counselor. Maybe if you start going she'll follow that lead too.The other thing that strikes me is you seem a little too close given this problem. You take her on trips or confide your plans to her yet are surprised when she copies you. Apparently that's what she does. I'm not saying end the relationship, just put s little emotional and physical distance between yourselves.You said talking is pointless, so you're going to have to take a firm lead on this.
'Friend' is stealing my life! Always copies me!?
She just wants to be like you, and for you to like her. Perhaps it's not the best way to do so, but in a way it's flattering for you. I think she just wants to be accepted by you and others, but she's going about it in the wrong way. Talk to her rationally. If it continues and/or gets worse, tell a teacher or authority figure.
Friend always copying my work?
I'm a pretty good student and I do my work really fast, so my friend just asks me what each question is, she'd be like her: hey whats question 1? me: __________ her: hey whats question 2? me: __________ her: hey what's question 3? me: ________ and it just keeps going on until theres no more questions left. the other day, we made had to make a job advertisment poster for a pharaoh, and my friend was complaining to me how this other person was copying her work, then she just grabbed my book and read it, then started writing down all my facts. she stole every job requirement I wrote, even my best one (Must be male, we only accept women under special circumstances). and when I asked her about it she just said: what? I didn't copy you. hahahahaha. when clearly she did. I mean seriously? YOU TOOK MY BOOK, AND READ IT. then you started writing down the exact same things you just read from my book onto your book. I think that classifies as COPYING. she even copys READING COMPREHENSION. the answers are all in the text but she's still TOO LAZY. she keeps nagging until she gets her way. and then the teacher comes by and says: wow, that's great ______. you finished your work really fast! when she copied of ME. isn't it weird how people who copy you get better grades than you? the weird thing is how she never lets people copy (not much) or she complains about people copying her but then she just goes around and copys whole pages of work. and the bad thing is she ALWAYS does it better then me. it's my answers, but she presents it really well and woos the teachers. and I don't want to confront her about it cause she's a friends and I don't want to lose her. her excuse is : I let you copy last time. she did. but not much of it. I don't know how I explain this. but when it's something easy, I want to figure it out MYSELF. or by the time she tells me the answer, I've already figured it out we had this maths sheet once. and there was this really annoying question, cat + dog = toad. when I figured it out, she just went. OH YOUR DONE? and copied my answers. then she told everyone else the answer so it looked like she did it what I don't get, is how people can still feel good about themselves after copying WHOLE pages of work off someone. I only copy under dire circumstances, when I seriously don't know the answer.
My friend always copies my homework and school work?
I work really hard on my homework to get good marks, and she will always nag me to send her mine. She always has different excuses like 'I didn't get it,' or 'I left my book at home so I can't do it.' I just sent her my work about 10 minutes ago then told her I had to go - it's not finished yet so she doesn't have all my answers, but I spent the entire night writing about 2000 words and she was just on facebook. I feel like I put so much effort into getting good grades and then she gets the same marks as me for doing nothing. I tried saying no tonight but she got really mad at me and told me she would leave (the chat), so I helped her. I can't say no. Also, we recently had a test which I studied for, and she was next to me and kept whispering and writing notes on my cheat sheet we were allowed to bring in, asking me the answers, so then I had to scribble out everything on the sheet because we had to hand in the cheat sheets. I'm probably going to get in trouble for cheating now if my teacher gets suspicious. :( PLease help me! I don't want to loose her she's a really good friend, it's just when it comes to work she annoys me so much. Sorry for writing so much! Thanks! :)
My friend Copies Me With EVERYTHING. What should I do?
Yara, then you are a great role model for your friend. A GUY TOLD ME THAT - YOUR FRIEND DIANA COPIES YOU AND HE LAUGHED TELLING ME THIS (years ago) and I AM PASSING IT ON TO YOU. (He said) -YOUR FRIEND DOES NOT WANT TO COPY YOU - YOUR FRIEND WANTS TO BE YOU. You carry yourself in a manner that she adores, you have a decent look, and class about yourself, she learns from you but within all of that -you stay alert because there is a tiny sense of hidden jealousy toward you. Be a friend but stay aware. That's an honor when someone wants to be you. You can help her to build confidence.