My friend always ditches me!?
I always make plans with her every week and she always says that "I'm for sure going this week!" Then the end of the week comes, and I call her when I'm about to leave and she always says "Oh I can't go, I have something else to go to, next week for sure!" And she does this to me every week. Then this week she said, "Since I can't go with you this week, why don't we meet this weekend instead?" I agreed to it and she said she'd pick me up at 1:00 today. Never heard a thing from her. What do you think I should do? I'm feeling like I must be her last resort or something....... But maybe she's just that busy? Maybe I should just keep trying? Or just forget trying to make things happen? I mean she's done this like 30 million gazillion times now, it's hard for me to believe that she's actually gonna really hold up to her word one week......
My friends always ditch me?
making new friends would probably be the best thing. not everybody has to be popular. try to talk more with the less popular crowd, and when you think you guys have at least a semi- friendship, ask them to hang out.
My friend always ditches me for boys... friend or not?
Its been going on for ages now. She will come sit next to me and then all of a sudden, bye bye friend. Any sign of a guy and she ditches me. She sleeps around but she is 15. She flirts with the guy she knows I fancy. Her name is Abby btw. She only ever talks about guys and I am getting really bored of it. I have to hear about all her gorey stories and she just tries to impress me. Luckily we are leaving school in 2 weeks but she wants to see me in the holidays and she goes to a weekend class I go to and love. I don't know what to do. It really gets me down when she ditches me and im sick of being used, all my lad friends no longer talk to me because they are all too busy trying to get her into bed :( None of the girls want to hang round with me because of her attitude, she is so vain and thinks everyone loves her. Abbies fave saying is "he wants me" because she is so far up herself. It stresses me out! She smokes and gets drunk just to look cool. don't know what to do. help me and give advice please :/
Why do my friends always ditch me?
I do not want to sound dramatic, but this is my real life. No lies. Ever since I moved to a new school, I've had a one friend and life was okay. Now, she met other people, and they ditch me for them. I make plans with my friend, and she calls it off last minute. Later, I see her status as "At the mall with _" I've tried getting to know her new friends, but they seem to think I'm weird and give me dirty looks and whisper to each other when my friend isn't looking. My friend doesn't know, so she can't tell them to stop. If I tell them to stop, my friend might think I'm rude and trying to get rid of them. I want to tell my friend about how she's ditching me, but, honestly, if she took it the wrong way, I would have no friends left. Do not tell me to tell her about it. The only true friend I have left lives in another state, and I only see her once a week. I try to stay positive and go about my life normally, but it kills me every time my friend ditches me. Please help. The fact that I've turned to the internet for help just shows how pathetic I am.
I have always stood for my friends and they have always ditched me. I feel so miserable and alone. How should I make myself better?
Being miserable and alone are not the same thing. You can be by yourself and be strong, happy, independent and self-reliant (emotionally). You can make yourself better by investing in yourself, paying yourself first and maximizing your many talents.Understand that the one person you will be spending the most of your time with is staring at you in the mirror. You and you alone are responsible for your happiness and sense of fulfillment. Enjoying the company of friends and family bring extra levity to life. But don’t depend on others to make you feel whole, because they won’t always be around to help you.It is good that you stand up for your friends. But don’t expect them to feel obligated to stand up for you too. Don’t take it personally if they don’t. Who knows what troubles and problems they are also experiencing in their personal lives. At the end of the day, we are all human beings dealing with our own personal problems that only we ourselves can solve/fix.We are only humans. We are social creatures who thrive off of interactions and emotional connections. It is perfectly understandable for us to seek help, guidance and acceptance from others. But due to various circumstances, they won’t always be there for us. If they are there, great! If they are not, who needs them anyway? In time, you will become so confident and independent to the point where task and challenges are better dealt with alone.
My boyfriend always ditches me for his friends?
I'd be furious at him. But I need more background information. Does he often ditch you for his friends or was this a one time thing? And, are you one of those people that seems to have one meltdown after another? If you are, he's probably fed up with it and doesn't really take you seriously when you are having a melt down. Now if you are usually a even tempered and sane person and you just had a really down day and needed him, then I would be absolutely livid that he pushed me off for other people. I'd tell him how it makes me feel and if he can't make you a priority in his life than give him his walking papers.
My best friend always ditches me for her boyfriend!!?
uhhhh. you think 2 weeks of it is bad? try 6 months were both 14 and the past 6 months all she cares about is her boyfriend. Every recess and lunch i dont talk to her because her and her boyfriend are like feeding eachother food and kissing. She only talks to me when her boyfriend goes somewhere else or calls me when its about school work. I always used to be the third wheel when they would go to hang out and it pissed me off so much so now i don hang out with them outside of school. And when i have my best frend over for the day or sleepover all she does is text him or use my home fone to talk to him. So now i all i do is invite other friends over to sleep over and i dont invite her hehehe. All you have to do is ditch her in the same way she ditches you.
Best friend ALWAYS ditches me for his girlfriend, what should I do?
My friend tells me on monday I should come over friday and play poker with some guys. We continue to talk about the plans for the rest of week. Flash foward to Friday the day of and he texts me that he has to take his girlfriend to see dumb twilight. I feel like if he really wanted to hang out he would take her sat or sun but no its gotta be friday it has to be the day it comes out. Not to mention he hangs out with her every moment of everyday and only hangs out with me maybe once a week. It probably doesn't sound like it from what I've told you but we are BEST friends. I consider him my brother we know everything about each other and before he got a girlfriend we'd hang out all the time. Any advice on what I should do? I don't really wan't to confront him and get into a big fight over it, but I also don't want to take an emotional beating for however long this chick stays around.
Why does my friend always ditch me at the last minute?
I only have a few friends that I hang out with outside of school. One of them, we'll call her "M", always makes plans with me but cancels at the last minute. Every weekend she goes to her cousins house and hangs out with her friends. I'm cool with that, but sometimes I wanna hang out too...and she always makes plans but then cancels. This is literally the 3rd weekend in a row she's canceled. And I know it's because she's still hanging out at her cousins house. And it's not just me she's canceling on, she does it to everyone. People have stopped inviting her places, because they know she won't come, but she gets mad at them when they don't?!?!?! I'm just fed up with this, I could be doing something better than waiting all day for her to hang out, only to have her cancel on me. And I can't really be friends with her cousin and her friends...we don't have a lot in common, and well, they do things that I'm not interested in... if you know what I mean.......... Anyways, why does my friend keep blowing me off? Does anyone do this to you? What should I do??? Thanks.