My friend asks to hang but then makes excuses?
Sounds like anxiety. I feel so guilty and bad because I do the same thing and the last thing I want people to think is that I don't want to see them. It's physically and mentally hard to hang out, even with a best friend, when you have anxiety. Please don't take it personally, maybe offer some support and just be patient, your friend will come around when they are ready. :)
Why does she always make excuses not to hang out?
there is two possible reasons for this. 1) she is leading you on, she may just want you to think she likes you then suddenly shes like nah dont wanna hang round with him i'm gonna turn him down again. and she is just playing games with you. if this is the case you need to move on, stop texting, and find someone else. 2)she's just nervous, she likes you and enjoys talking to you over text, she wants to meet up with you and that but she is just nervous worrying that you might not like her if you meet up in person. and also as you haven't seen her in a long time then she might not know how to act around you, or what to say to you. if this is the case you should tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way. either way I think you need to tell her how you feel and then see if she feels the same way and if she says she doesn't then she was just leading you on and playing games with your head and heart. if she does feel the same way then you need to tell her you wanna make up with her, and that she can't keep turning you now and if you both feel the same that you do need to see each other and not just text each other all the time. good luck.
My friend always makes excuses to why she can't hangout?
okay so I am in 8th grade,and a girl. I have been friends with my friend for a while. for a long time. my sister is also friends with my friend. but the thing is: she always seems to not want to hangout or makes up excuses. For example, I asked her 20 minutes ago if she wanted to go to the library and hangout and do homework. She said " i can't because I have to eat dinner and I have some things to type" and I said "well there's computers and printers at the library and we'd go at 6:00 so you can eat dinner before we go" and she said "I'd prefer to do it at home.."but we haven't been to the library in over a month and I feel like she's just using that as an excuse to not hangout with me. I think friendship is a 2 way street- if you don't have a serious reason why you can't hangout and you just make excuses- then what's the point of being friends. also, whenever we DO hangout, it's always at MY house. or whenever we want to go out or have a sleepover, my mom always has to pick her up. When I asked if her parents could drop me back home after the library, they said they didn't have enough room. but I've been in their car only about 2 times, and there was tons of room, it is a huge VAN. Whenever we want to have a sleepover, we always sleep at my house. she's like : well we should sleep @ your house. and i mentioned polietely that maybe we could sleep @ her house. & she said "oh it's boring.." well my house isn't any more fun.she lies often and is also very moody. Advice?
Is my best friend making excuses to not hang out with me or am I overreacting?
This is a tricky one. A feeling I'm all too familiar with and a situation I'm all too familiar with as well. It can be one of 2 things:she genuinely has too much going onshe doesn't find hanging out with you to be enjoyable anymore.if you can, try to sit her down and talk about this. I don't think you are overreacting, just concerned about the friendship. Tell her you want to have an honest conversation. Be ready to hear something you won't like as well! In my experience, it was a bit of both. You can't make people want to be around you…constantly asking only makes things worse…I learned that the hard way, it annoyed my friend and drove him away to a point where we aren't friends anymore ( though the situation was a lot more complicated than simply "hanging out" and the break was due to both of us).good luck…contact her, get to the bottom of it. If she tells you she doesn't really enjoy hanging out with you anymore…take it as a sign to move on. I know you are afraid of losing a friend and being lonely but don't let fear of loneliness stop you from being treated better.if she does just have too much on her plate, understand that and give her space, ask to do something maybe in a couple weeks or so…if still too busy, ask her when a good time would be to do something but realize she probably isn't going to be as available as you may want.
Friend keeps making excuses about hanging out?
Hmmm. the only ingredient i will likely think of of is which you have extra money than she does at your disposal and he or she's embarrassed with tips from her loss of it? (hiya, if i became embarrassed sufficient approximately something, i'd make any excuse i'd desire to think of of). I additionally believe Anon. with tips from bringing this up in a non-aggressive way, you may placed across which you're feeling ignored and while you're real looking sufficient, she would desire to comprehend what you're attempting to assert. do not accuse her of arising excuses; *ask* her why she would be able to by no potential do issues with you and clarify the way it hurts your thoughts how she turns you down generally. I agree that it particularly is somewhat fishy to maintain saying stuff like that, however the only ingredient i will think of of is that she's keeping off a topic a approach or the different and the awkward feeling approximately money became the 1st ingredient that got here to me. perhaps her mom and father do in comparison to you 2 putting out? Are you allowed at her domicile whenever you prefer? in case you reported to her mom/dad/whoever which you 2 circulate someplace exciting with tips from yourselves, would the placement be distinctive? perhaps she thinks she *can not* circulate? particularly, you are going to would desire to ask her what's incorrect because of the fact it sounds like she will maintain keeping off going out in public with you someplace till you particularly take a seat and communicate together with her approximately it.
My friend is constantly making excuses not to hang out with me?
Okay, so I want to hang out with one of my friends really badly but it seems like it's impossible. I've been asking her on facebook, like one day I was like "hey did you want to hang out this weekend?" and she put "idk" and she kept saying "idk" without an excuse, and then the weekend before that she invited a couple of my other friends over to her house when I was standing right next to them, and later she told me she couldn't invite me cuz it would be "too many people" She always avoids the question and if I ask her why she doesn't want to hang out or if something's wrong with me she says "no nothing's wrong with you" I don't know what I'm doing to make her act like this and it hurts a lot because I feel like there's a forcefield around her and we can't ever hang out.
My girlfriend keeps making excuses not to see me,what should I do?
If she has family visiting from abroad, she is probably under family pressure to be there and do things with them. In a few days, fhey’ll be gone but you’ll still be here. The priority right now is probably to spend time with them.You don’t say how old you two are or whether this is your first holiday season with a girlfriend, so indulge me if I address this as though this is a new situation for you.The two of you are new to being a couple. Family may still have control over at least her situation. Customs and rituals die hard. Her family’s expectation may be that she does what they want or have always done. With the added bonus of extra family, that expectation is intensified. “Running off” to be with you, who will be there next week, as opposed from spending time with the family from Albania or Nigeria or Peru or wherever isn’t likely to sit well and may be seen as disrespectful. After all, the visitors spent all that money, time, came that distance, will only be here a short time, etc.A suggestion: ask whether you could come over and meet the extended family. Bring them a gift, something representative of your area, not necessarily expensive. Be supremely charming. Ask them about their country. Don’t overstay your welcome. You will not get alone time with your girlfriend but it could pay off big time in the family’s opinion of you.Don’t be too quick to think the worst.
What are some good excuses not to hang out?
Two ways to interpret your ask.if your life is full of close friends, family and one or two solid romantic pursuits, and the inviting party is someone you really can’t fit into your life, then simply say you have another romantic interest or truly are too busy to absorb anothe friendship. But perhaps I’d he /sh is good Company, then invite that person to a group outing rather than cultivate a personal relarionship that yuh don’t have room for. I am assuming that people in your life are top tier and Best for Your social, professional and personal life. Make sure you gauge the pedal you are rejecting or incirowring him her in a way that won’t impact your time and the other relarionships thag are more worth dosterknd2. If it’s simlly because you have no interest in what “hanging out” may lead to, then put yourself in the mindset above and be happy with your full plate of worthy persuits and put it to that person straight. Keep to you full plate of important people in your life that take up your time and say maybe one day Yong will hit him/her up with a group. It sends a message that a one on one intimate relationship is not in the cards.
What's a good excuse for not hanging out with a friend?
You have a lot of homework to do and study for a test and can't hang out with you. You are sick and running a fever. You are grounded until 2020. You would hang out with her but you have to help your mom. You and your family are going out of town. But the best one to tell her is this: I do not want to offend you but the truth is I don't want to hang out with you because sometimes you get on my nerves. I don't like having to compete with you over chest size and height. It really bugs me when you do this. Don't tell her a lie. Don't break your friendship up with a lie. Be up front with her and tell her you would like to make new friends. She will be upset but she will eventually get over it. The truth is always the best. I met a girl in 3rd grade and we were friends until 7th grade. In 7th grade my friend suddenly began ignoring me and never said why. I just assumed she was pretty and wore nice clothes and was popular and I wasn't pretty and wore old clothes so she didn't want to be my friend anymore, so I left it at that. I don't think your friend would just let it go like I did but I was very shy and didn't think anyone wanted to be my friend back then, so it was no surprise she didn't want to hang out with me anymore.
My friend keeps making excuses that she can't hang out with me...could she be making it up?
I have this close friend of mine.. We hung out once and that's it and I initiated it . Like always. Every time I ask her she says stuff like "I can't I have to stay home because ___ is coming over" or "I can't Saturday I'm going to a baby shower and Sunday I'm going to Palm Springs" ...it's getting to a point where it's getting ridiculous and I'm getting tired of it. Who goes to Palm Springs for a day and comes back?? It's May and that girl is taking AP classes and the tests are this month..another reason why would she go to Palm Springs? Is she seriously telling the truth or could she be making it up? She doesn't have a problem with me she loves hanging out with me in school.. I know for a fact that she does do a lot of stuff and she even tells me "I'm never home" I don't think she's making excuses because she is "anti social" she is actually VERY social and VERY outgoing. Maybe she has a lot of friends up her sleeve that she is not in the mood to hang out ? And I told her that she should come to my graduation and she answers "I don't feel like it..." Then she adds "oh yeah I'm going to Las Vegas with my mom and her friends..." "On the last day if school?" "Ya I'm leaving early" WTF. She does have a huge family and she says how her mom has so many friends that she associates with.. (She even told me one of her mom's friends with one of the actors in Grease! ...amazing!) Part of me wants to believe her because she is good(friend) to me but another part of me smells something fishy. Do you ever have experiences like I do? Did their excuses end up being true? Can a person be THIS busy