Is it weird that me and my friend never fight?
Me and my best friend are practically soul sisters! We have never had a fight before! We never argue. If there is ever a sticky situation we are in, we handle in a mature way. We don't yell at each other and we always listen to what we have to say! My other friend Stephanie says that its weird that me and my best friend never fight. Stephanie says that all friends are suppose to fight because it's "normal". Do any of you agree with her????
Me and my best friend got into a huge fight?
ya so me and my friend got into a big fight because friday we were suppose to go to the game and she got of work at 7 and i was waiting and calling ( after 7) and no answers. obviously im ganna get mad. so she finally texts me back at 8:30 and we go to a football game. she tells me i cant stay over her house tonight coz she has to work in the morning to and we cant hangout after the game either. were there for about 30 mins and she says shes going to go home with this girl that lives right by her and drop her off at home and ditches me at the game.( i drove so she didnt totally leave me there) but i later find out that she went to a party with this girl when she was " dropping her of" of course i was furious and she thinks im just being a *****.... so today i said sorry( even tho i didnt do anything) and she goes to another parrty with this girl after work again! when she also told me friday she couldnt hangout either... so wtf do i have the right to be mad at her? and she thinks she did nothing wrong i dont wanna lose her as a friend but she needs to stop doing this to me and apologize. how do i get her to do this??
Why do best friends fight a lot?
Well, according to me in any kind of relationship that we make with others be it a love relationship or that of a friend, we end up fighting a lot. It is very normal and is a fact.I had this best friend of mine in my boarding school. We used to fight like cats and dogs. We've even slapped each other and believe me this is a sign of a very good bond. We fight because we expect something and then we console because we can't even stay away, so we try to adjust. When we try and fit in some chothes which are not of our sizes, we struggle, the same way when we adjust with someone in life, we need to struggle as we get nothing in our hands so easily.Now what happens when you stop fighting is that you stop caring and you stop thinking about each other and ultimately you stop expecting anything.When we were in 10th grade, my best friend had to leave the school coz of some reasons. It somewhere broke our hearts but we managed to stay the same kind of friends for 2 good years but after that maybe she found new people and a new enviornment so she stopped giving me her time and the fights stopped because she had nothing to give and nothing to ask for from me. That was when i realized how much i loved her and how much i was missing the fights with her. I tried to ask her several times and sort things out but i soon realised that she had gone a lot more ahead in life and she didn't choose to take me in her company. Even today she comes back i wouldn't mind and I'd still ask her to join me for a drink or so!So, my friends if you are troubled with the fights you are going through, please dont be! Just take it as a friendship test. You are very lucky to have someone who's spending his/her time fighting with you, expecting from you, consoling you, and being there for you. Respect what you have and dont let it go.Edit: We are now again in talking terms as we understood each other and have accepted life the way it comes.
How do I solve a fight with my guy best friend? I had a fight with him.
First red flag to your ‘ best guy friend’. If both of you argue (ever) and he never contacts you back (it’s always you to him), he seems like he may be a controlling prick. It may not even be you as a person, but rather him and his childhood and/or who he is now. He may be a self-absorbed narcissist. This unfortunately is very common.I don’t know that anyone is important to that type of person, other than themselves.How to solve a fight over something big or small with such a person? You personally can’t. You can’t. Not really. You can beg for his forgiveness, grovel at his feet, etc..Do you really want to though? What are you getting out of this ‘friendship’ other than the constant notion that you are no where near the totem pole of importance in his self-proclaimed reality of life.
Why do best friends fight alot?
well...that's what is happening to me and my friend i think that when people fight they get a closer friendship... so i think that fighting is just normal in friendships!! i hope that made sense to you!!
My best friend and I got in a big fight. What should I do?
First you must decide whether figuring out who was right and who was wrong is worth losing your best friend over. If it isn't worth losing her/him then you must go ahead and apologize no matter who started it. Hopefully, it was just some stupid fight that wasn't about anything important, so that you can say your sorry, and move past it. If it was over something big, then you may need to re-examine your friendship and decide if she/he is really worth being rated as your best friend. If you really don't want to lose your friend, then just tell her/him that you are really sorry, and don't want to lose them no matter what. Offer to take them to lunch, or go hang out at the mall, whatever you two do for fun, and pay for it, or buy them something that they love. Kiss and make up, it's that simple. I've had my best friend basically my whole life, and I would walk barefoot across flaming hot coals to save our friendship. I couldn't imagine this world without her in it. So I do know what the heck I'm talking about. Don't lose your best friend over something petty, or even pretty major stuff. Who will be there for you, when everyone else deserts you? If your best friend is not someone who you can trust to be there for you through thick and thin, no matter what, then you need a new best friend.
My friend had an erection as we where fighting?
Well here is the deal,my 20 years old best friend (I'm 21,boy) had a huge erection as we where fighting just for fun,I could see it,I mean its not I was looking at it,but it was so obvious that anyone's eye could see it,so I wanna know,is my friend gay?or its normal to get erections while you fight?he doesn't seems gay to me though.