My friend grosses me out?
When you go to her house go through her cloths and pick something cute for her to wear that covers her grossness. As for her arm and back acne, just talk to her about it. There are ways to do it without her getting mad like saying ... "My moms friend used to have that on her arms and she went to her doctor and they gave her this amazing cream that cleared it all up!" Or "You know what works really good for your arms and your back? CLEARASIL ULTRA OVER NIGHT SCRUB! Just use it on your arms back and face everynight in the shower and it makes your skin soooo soft!" As for her legs say something like ... "Omg, so I was at walmart the other day and found this AMAZING spray called Sally Hansen Airbrush Legs and it seriously makes your legs look airbrushed, and they have some that is water resistant. You can use it on your arms and body too. We should go get a bottle to use for swimming and summer!" You can also offer to do her make up or straighten her hair for her. Also tell her you want to go on a diet but you dont want to do it alone and that you need a workout partner. Once she is doing all these things and is less gross tell her how good she looks frequently! Also, these people are wrong to say you are not a true friend because you are an amazing friend! The fact that you never stopped being friends with her, you still want to hang out with her, and you care about her weight and looks makes you an amazing friend. You cant help the way you feel about her appearance. You turned to us to give you answers and to help better your friends appearance and health, not only that but her self esteem will go up the better she looks and feels! I think real friend care enough about their friends to want the best for them, including health, weight, and appearance. Real friends want their friends to look better and be cute, healthy, and confident and last of all real friends ask questions like this! So to all the people who posted that BS about how she is not real friend how about you stop posting BS, SHE ASKED FOR HELP NOT BS!!!!!!
Male friend likes me, now im grossed out. help?
We are both adults, however I haven't had the opportunity of having guys I'm attracted to interested in me. I've never dated in my life, I've been rejected so many times I literally gave up on dating. I have a male friend who confessed he liked me. But - He's overweight, and even if he lost weight, he'd still be a husky guy. And I'm attracted to slimmer to average body guys. - I'm not facially attracted to him. - Although nice, he's a bit awkward. I'm a nerd, and so is he, but its a different level of nerdiness. So our interests are different, and his seem boring to me :( He texts me a lot, and always wants me to hang out, and since I'm not the social type, I never want to. He's always trying to get close to me, and hug, and it makes me feel more grossed out. I don't know what to do, I'm inexperienced. Help?!
HELP! My best friend's uncle has a crush on me and wants to have sex with me! What should I do?
Ok so I am 19 years old and my best friend's uncle is 30 and he told my best friend that likes me and thinks I'm hot and that I'm exactly his type and that if I wasn't her best friend then he would wanna have sex with me. When she told me this I pretended to be grossed out because she was grossed out too, but I secretly am attracted to her uncle. I don't know what to do! The pros is that I think he's hot, he's nice, he's single, and he's funny. The cons is that he is way older, has a 6 year old kid, used to be a drug addict, and he's been to jail before. Also what happens if I do sleep with him and start to get stronger feelings and actually like him alot? That would be too weird for my best friend and I would be my best friend's aunt! When I asked one of my other friend's what to do she said I should have sex with him but secretly and not tell my best friend. So what should I do?? p.s I have had sex many times before so this isnt a situation where I would lose my virginity to him.
A guy likes me and he's gross...?!?
Well, i have this friend, that I have really only had for a week or two. In band one day he was sitting next to me and we just started talking and stuff. he thinks that we are way better friends than we actually are. It turns out that since that day in band, he has had this huge crush on me! But he is totally weird an disgusting, and to be quite honest, he scares me! I don't know what to do, because on Valentines day, he came out and told me that he likes me a lot, and he was being really really weird, and now he expects me to like him back or something, and I really don't like him, and he is gross and weird and scary and he has bad hygiene, and I barely even like him as a friend!! But I don't want to give him the cold shoulder, because that would be really mean and he doesn't deserve that, but he just won't stop talking and talking to me bout pointless stuff, and it's really awkward for me, and weird, and I just don't know what to do about it! D:
What should you do when your best friend likes you but you don't like him back?
The best thing you can really do is not go after him. I've been in this situation as the guy who walked away from someone's life, and looking back I know now that it was because I was a weak hearted human being when it came to love ( as many are, I suppose) and when I was told that she did not feel the same way, I needed time to myself, to understand the feelings I was experiencing, to see whether there was something in me I needed to fix, and in general get to understand myself better. I knew this person very well, and her reaction, and my reaction to it were startling to me, and I felt like I'd misunderstood myself.We've kept at a distance from each other. She has a boyfriend now. I know I miss her sometimes, but some things just can't be salvaged. We would have needed to become friends anew from the strangers we'd become, and the emotional weight of such an act was too much for me to bear. Would I want to be back in her life now, now that I've had time to think about it? I don't know, but I'd rather not find out.I fell in love after a few years of friendship. It wasn't premeditated. If this person became your friend with the intention of intimacy, it's better to stay away from them for your own sake. Dishonesty is, obviously, not to be trusted.
I get grossed out after I find out someone likes me?
You start out liking them, and then when they like you in return you get grossed out, the grossed out part is probably due to what do two people sometimes do when they like each other ?? maybe they have a relationship that turns into a sexual nature...and maybe right now, you just are not ready for anything like that in your life...which is fine ! :) there is no rush to get into any form of relationship. but maybe this is the cause... once you find out they like you, it kind of grosses you out,because in the back of your mind, you know where it all could lead...even something as innocent as a kiss can be scary in your mind, if you simply aren't ready for it.
My friend likes to pick his nose and touch my things without cleaning his hand, and when I get angry he says I am overreacting. What do you think?
I'm with you. That's really gross and would bug me too. As with anything else, if your values don't align with the company you keep, rethink your values or rethink your company.For people I really, really like, I bend my own rules. I was raised to remove shoes at the front door and never wear “outside” clothes on your bed. For a dude I was infatuated with, I let him waltz in with his dirty shoes and jump under my covers in his jeans after a long day's work as a chef. In this case, my infatuation outweighed my values. He also snored — which I normally get irritated by. But with him, it was like music to my ears, proof that this beautiful creature was alive.On the flip side, I had a neighbor who in general I kind of thought was annoying. We were good drinking buddies but I dunno why, some things he did just irritated me. Once he touched something in my kitchen with his foot and I never touched that thing ever again. I think I actually even threw it out. Lol.Especially when it comes to boogers — I yelled at an old dude on a train in NYC once for picking his nose and examining his booger. But, in the privacy of my own home I do enjoy mining for gold (granted I keep a tissue in hand.)So yeah, just ask yourself if this friend is worth it to you. If not, just stop inviting them over. The fact that this person won't listen to a boundary you've set in your own home doesn't sound fair to me.