Should I confront my friend about lying?
What do you want to come from confronting him about this? Change his behavior and get him to stop lying to you or at least be more careful about covering it up? What business of your is that he is lying? How did you even catching him in the lie? Were you spying on him and invading his privacy? If he is a friend, why should he be accountable to you for his time off? The answers to these questions will lead you to your answer as well as consider the seriousness of the lying. There are such things as white lies, so if you don't have any real reason to know what he was doing last night, but you still ask him, he might just say the first thing that came into his mind. This might not be the honest answer, but he figures you wouldn't know the difference (or at least he has no reason to be accountable to you for his time) and you might have caught him off guard by asking. Since he likely has no obligation to tell you the truth, he's done nothing wrong. This may not make sense to you but this is the way guy's think, at least the way it was described to me by multiple men. You are not going to "nip" anything in the bud by confronting him about lying about these situations right now, nor will you be able to control his behavior or encourage him to be more honest. Instead let it go, forget about it. This is not as serious a situation as a husband in a committed relationship lying about an affair to his wife. Ask him again sometime if he wants to play that game with you and if he says "no", then move on, he may not want to play the game you. If he does other things that indicate he may not want to be your friend, then you will need to accept that too and move on. He might not be trustworthy, if he does lie all the time. So just take note of his behavior and don't try to correct it, eventually you will have the information you need to decide if he wants to be your friend, if he wants to spend quality time doing something you both enjoy, and if he can be honest with you or not.
Is my Best Friend Lying to Me about my Crush?
We've been friends for about 2 years and we always hang out during school and sometimes after. But lately i've been having a feeling that she is lying to me. She told me that the boy i really like, likes me, but i know for a fact that he has a girlfriend at another school. Then she told me that he texts her and calls her and he mostly talks about me. One time she told me she was at the park and i didn't go and she told me he was with her and they were talking so i call her, she don't answer, i call again and she does and i told her to tell him i said hi and she says he just left and at school he don't talk to me as much as he used to and I texted her and asked her if she was lying to me, then she gets defensive and tells me I'm your best friend why would i lie to you, i wouldn't play with your feelings like that! so i stop asking her because she tells me the same thing over and over. is she lying to me Please Help
My best friend keeps lying to me?
Her names Nina, and shes lied to me alot. We've been friends for over 3 years, and hang alot. But the thing is she always lies to me, she told me that a guy friend of mine thought I hated him, but when I asked him about it, he never said anything like that, I know he didn't lie because Nina has lied to me before. Like for instance, she always says that at school over 10 guys would ask her to prom, and she would turn them down because she cant date, but then she'd turn around and say that she was forced to go out with this guy from school because of her friends there, BUT then again just before that, she was all like 'yea I stand up for myself' I dont know what to do, she lies, and I know it, but she acts like she never did, she has no conscience at all. Her mom thinks shes the perfect angel, and that she does nothing wrong... I already asked her about her lying and she denied it, said she had a headache and that she had to go, but I dont believe her because I know shes lying, I want to slap her but I dont want to lose her as a friend, but maybe I should....shes the only good friend I got...well kind of...anyways, what should I do?!?!
My Best friend is lying to me and ditching me!?
My best friend and I have been close for years. We promised each other we would be each other's MOH, etc. Well, now we go to different schools (but live across the street from eachother) and she keeps lying to me and not calling me back. example: I called her on friday and she said that I should stay the night at her house monday night (veterans eve). Well, when I called her last night to find out if we were still on, she told me her mom had said that I couldn't spend the night, b/c she "wanted to spend time with her." but my bff said we should go to a movie today. So I called and her gma answered, and told me that my friend wasn't there b/c she had spent the night at a girl's house! She's ditched me for this girl a bunch of times, and i'm really pissed. But we were such good friends, I don't want to stop being friends with her -- plus I transferred schools so I don't know many people at my school, and this girl is the only friend I'm close to. what should I do?!
My friend always accuses me of lying, help!?
ok my friend is always accusing me of lying...i lied to her ONCE about a guy and i said i didnt like him even tho i did. but i knew if i told her she would spread it around school, even if i made her swear not to tell. shes just like that. so eventually she found out and sure enough, it was around school. ever since then all she does is accuse me of lying. like i will seriously say "*scratches head*" on chat and she will be like "Y DID U WRITE THAT?!?!" and i will be like "cause i felt like writing that...im thinking" and she will be like "i know ur lying but i guess im used to it" and then she will ask me at like 11pm for a sleepover and i will be like "my moms sleeping" and she will be like "ya right, i know shes awake u LIAR" and im like wtf come over to my house if u dont believe me. she accuses me of such stupid things and she even made a youtube video about my "lies". i dont lie to her she just never beleives me. she tries to annoy me and it does. please help!!!!!
My friend lied to me about her age?
A good friend lied to me about her age. I've known her for about a year and we instantly became close. She said she was 6 years older than me, which didn't bother me- she could have been 20 years older than me and I wouldn't have cared. So today she told me how long she had been married, which couldn't be possible if she was the age she told me. So I caught her in the lie, and she has to be at least an additional 10 years older than she first told me. I just feel so hurt, why would she lie to me, she knows I don't care about age! Am I overreacting? Would that bother you too?
My friend lied to me what should i do?
my best friend blamed me on something i didn't do and she knew she lied about bt i dont want to tell her that i am still alil upset about it but i dont want any drama right now. i have an idea for letting this slide and next time she lies i call her out and then i have backup from the last time is that a good idea .........yesss or no tell me help me!!!!!!!