My friend is mad at me, what should I do?
Ask them why they are mad at you. (If they refuse to tell you, it is apparently their problem. Nothing will get resolved if they just ignore you)If it is something you did wrong, you can either apologize or explain yourself. Do whatever works in the situation, but be sure if you are explaining yourself to explain the situation/misunderstanding/etc. in a logical, convincing way. Don’t just spew/yell/scream pathetic shit.If they continue acting like they are mad at you even after you apologize (or explain yourself) than just walk away. Wait for them to leave their state of self pity.Above all, just stay calm as another human being that is “mad” at you should be nothing to lose any sleep over (unless they are going to murder you, to which I say, if you know they are going to murder you either get far away or know how to protect yourself. Surely it is not that bad though)
My friend is mad at me and won't tell me why, what do I do?
Ask somebody else whom he is close to as to what the reason is .Evaluate what you did or don't do over the past few weeks that may have made him.and at you.Did you say something that you haven't told him that he has got to know ?Ask any common friends
My best friend is mad at me and won't tell me why?
Don't worry...friends can be a royal pain sometimes. I use to have a "so-called-best-friend" but one day she got mad at me for no reason. And I asked her why are you mad at me, and she just rolled her eyes and went with other girls. I kept on asking her why was she mad at me, but she never did give me a reason. So I got so pis*ed and I stoped talkin to her. And then I found another girl that was really nice, and she became MY ONLY best friend forever. And my ex-best friend is now trying to talk to me. I just talk to her but she already knows she isn't my best friend. So I don't rilly care bout her now :) Try looking for another best friend if your other best friend wont talk tou. I dont think you should beg anybody! :) GOOD LUCK!
My husband is mad at me because I won’t go to his best friends wedding. How do I convince him to get over it?
My husband is mad at me because I won’t go to his best friends wedding. How do I make him get over it?It must be embarrassing for your husband to be forced to attend a formal event alone as a married man. The fact that it’s a wedding makes it doubly so because wedding are seen as romantic and attending alone is a poor reflection on his own romantic entanglement.If I were him, I’d be humiliated to go alone since every other married man will attend with a loving wife who respects him enough to set aside her own wants and needs to be at his side. They are acting as a marital unit, accepting the good withe the bad in life.Regardless of how you feel about his best friend or weddings in general, you are using this moment to disrespect your husband in a very public way. It really does not matter what this best friend has done to you or how much it hurt, NOW is not the time grind on that particular ax. All relatively civilized people know there is a proper time and place for everything. Funerals and weddings are considered sacred events in a person’s life and therefore not to be used to make some kind of statement about your feelings for the best friend. It is simply not done.Whether you realize it or not, failing to be gracious about attending his best friend’s wedding is communicating to your husband how you feel about him as a man. You are not only showing a lack of respect for the best friend during a pivotal event in his life but you are telling your husband that you will always come first, no matter how much it hurts him. Is that the message you wish to send, because regardless of what you think you’re communicating with words, giving him grief over this is driving home a different point?The fact that you seem so clueless about appropriate social behavior and the fact that you used the term “make him get over it” speaks volumes about your upbringing, or lack thereof. Some of us who didn’t learn social graces growing up, must struggle to learn them through trial and error. We don’t ‘make’ people get over being publicly disrespected, but we do occasionally show our true colors.
My friends always get mad at me because I dont like to go out drinking with them.?
Oh My God, Thank you!!! I'm going to copy this and send it to my friends, that aren't talking to me, because I refuse to go out drinking with them, and I refuse to drink if i'm driving and I always tell them if they're going to drink to call me so I can come get them. We live in a town where they'res only two things you can do drink or watch the grass grow (i mean this, theres lots of sod farms around) and every year at least one if not more students from Southern loses a life due to drunk driving or alchol posioning. I have already lost 4 people I considered close friends before I was even 15 and then a couple more after that to drunk driving, and so I have no desire to do it. So instead I try to get my friends to go out to concerts, plays, shows, movies, or if I go to the bar with them, I order a coke and set a time limit to be there and don't drink. Your friends are being ridiculous for the way they are acting, people have lots of different reasons for not drinking and its not right to force that on to someone they care about. Why not tell them that you will accompany them out to dinner and they can have a few casusal drinks there, if you go to like a fridays, applebys or red robin or soemthing and then you'd be drinking with them, but in a setting your more comfy with, and if they want the bar like atomsphere suggest going to a club to see a show, then they can drink you can make sure they're safe and you can ignore the slezzeballs and tell them you're just there for the band. that would work i think, but i'm still showing my friends and gonna be like, see i'm not the only person in our twenties that doesnt find drinking appealling, especially when all they want to do is play "Beer Pong" which is the stupidist thing i've ever seen, honestly it is.
My friend is mad at me for smoking weed.?
its ur life there4 there ur choices 2 make
My best friend is mad at me for cutting?
I've been cutting for 2 months = 47 cuts, i'm 13. I don't live a happy life at all, but i'm not gonna get into that. Before i told my friend that i was cutting and he told me to stop but i didn't so he told my best friend. & She told me to STOP constantly, but i didn't. I cut like every week, and i messaged the wrong person telling them i'm cutting and i sent a picture of my cuts to that person but it was actually sent to my best friend. & the reason why i sent the picture and stuff is a long story, shes like my therapist lol. Then my best friend went very bizarre and told me to stop, and started getting angry cause i wouldn't. She kept telling me to stop, then i said "im sorry" and she never replied back. I think shes so mad at me, but i can't stop cutting. It makes me feel SOOO MUCHH BETTERR when i'm saddd
My guy friend is mad at me just because I won't date him?
Stop spamming your question. Thats why they get deleted. Some guys have flirtatious personalities. Me included. So if you cant deal with it, then don't. Has he been flirting with you? If not, it means he make like you a lot. I cant flirt with girls i really like compared to girls I'm just friends with
How do I deal with a friend who is mad at me for a stupid reason and isn't willing to forgive?
Is this a valued good friend? Or one you can easily live without? That bases how you should respond here.Firstly, dig deep inside yourself to see this from their point of view. Empathize with your friend..explain to them and paraphrase the situation to them as if you were saying from their point of view to show you understand.Say “I know you feel xxx, and are xxx..however..then state your side kindly and diplomatically. Think through what you are going to say first and the potential impact. If they are unreasonable, then Set your boundaries. Tell your friend ‘I am sorry you feel this way and I am here for you ‘ then if needed, be willing to take a step back to allow them to think it through or perhaps ask them if you can agree to disagree . Ask them if your friendship is worth more to them than this incident and that you'd like to take steps together to be the great friends you've always been. That your friendship means alot and not worth risking over this.If they are truly your friend and value the friendship more than the incident, then they will come around. Remember though, to your friend this incident is not stupid, but a very valid reason to them. Give them that respect even if you don't agree or it may turn into an argument. The discussion should be solution focused. A friends opinion while it may be misguided, is never stupid. You are there to support each other. If they need more facts or correction of facts, provide what they need. If they are truly unreasonable, consider if this is where you want your energy, time and focus going forward or not. How close you are and how they make you feel majority of the time are critical factors to your decsion as well. Good luck !
My best friend is mad at me for talking to her ex. What do I do?
My best friend is mad because I started talking to her ex. She broke up with him over a month ago and says she doesn't like him anymore. She's also dated 2 other guys since him, and i've supported her through it all. Her ex texted me one day and we started talking. Well a few days later he told me he liked me and I like him too. When my friend found out she told me that she would be extremely mad if we went out. Well she found out that I was going to his baseball game today and we were going to hang out. She texted me and told me that if I was a true friend I wouldn't have even talked to him... And I was thinking but why would you care if we were going to hang out or not, because you don't like him and he doesn't like you anymore. They don't even talk anymore either... I just really don't want this to come between our friendship... Is there anyway that she will understand and everything will go back to normal again?