My friend told me to leave her alone?
It's been a week and a half since she told me to leave her alone. She was my best friend and I just don't want this to be the end forever. In the beginning of summer we were talking on facebook and then out of nowhere she just stopped talking to me in mid June. She ignored my messages. I ran into her once around town and asked if I could talk to her and she said yeah but that she had to go though, so I messaged her afterwards but she still ignores me, a couple of my guy friends tried asking her why she was mad but never gives a answer. Then last Monday she texted me saying "Leave me alone." and she never gave a reason why she was mad at me. My friends are telling me she is gone for gone and never coming back around to me and I actually know it's true but I can't accept the fact she's gone. I miss her so much, I really this feeling, I feel so alone. She failed all her classes last year so she won't be in any of mine, she doesn't have a phone (it was her sisters phone, they share it sort of but she didn't have my # saved), she isn't my facebook friend anymore, etc. so she will never come back around to me. I hate this so much. I don't want our friendship to be over, it just can't be. I sit around all day every day waiting for a text or message that's never gonna come and if I try to talk to her she'll just ignore me. I really hate this. Any advice?
How to get an ex-friend to leave me the hell alone?
There is this girl that I used to be friends with but her personality was just too messed up for me and I stopped talking to her but now it seems every time I go out with my friends she is always there and she always tries to talk to me or take a picture of me. I've tried every insult I could find but this ***** won't leave me the hell alone!! Please give me some advice on how to get her to leave alone.
My ex best friend won't leave me alone?
I recently ended a friendship with someone I was close to for over 10 years. I considered her my best friend. Toward the end of our friendship, I noticed she dictated me a lot. I should have stopped her ages ago but I'm glad I gained the courage now. She told me who I can and can't be friends with, who I can and can't hang out with, and eventually told me she had feelings for me about a month ago. When I told her I didn't feel the same way, she completely lost her mind and threatened me. After her episode, I walked away. Now she's trying to talk to me through my friends. Meaning she'll text them and say "tell him I said ____ and ____" Today is my birthday and I got a text from the girl I really like (who is also best friends with my ex best friend I'm talking about right now) that said "Tell him I said happy birthday." I got really upset because she's jealous and trying to use our mutual friend as a messenger. She knows I like her and I feel like she's trying to intervene. I didn't lash out but I politely told her to back off and yet again, she freaked out. Do you think she's trying to control me? She really doesn't understand how much she's bothering me and thinks I'm overreacting.
My 'Best Friend' Never Leaves Me Alone! HELP!?
okay, so like every second she either calls for me or rings me. if i say no to her face she wont talk to me for ages .. and thats good but i feel guilty. It REALLY annoys me. I dont wanna be with her EVERY second of every day. AND she copies me ; SHE TRULY PISSES ME OFF! shes never off my back. When she calls for me and i go out, theres nothing to do. She calls my phone probably about every 2 hours? I like her though. but shes not (nowhere near) my bestfriend :) PLEASE HELP ME IM SICK OF THIS!
My ex girlfriend won't leave me alone?
She's been texting and calling me a lot lately. We agreed to be friends again after 8 months of being broken up. We aren't really friends, we're just civil. She asks about my current boyfriend a lot, and she never stops. I told her that we need to stop talking. And that it's not a good idea to keep texting each other, because it bothers my boyfriend. She doesn't like that, it hurts her or whatever. I just want her to treat me like an ex, she never does. She treats me like a friend. She's nosy, rude, and always wants to know about my boyfriend. She's persistent. I don't reply to her a lot. Only on days where I'm not busy. Today I said "I can't talk to you because my boyfriend doesn't approve of you and I associating. It was nice trying to rekindle our friendship back while it lasted. I'll miss you. Hopefully we can talk soon without it upsetting him." And she replied with "K b*tch." I don't understand why she's so upset? Her and I hardly talk anyway. Being friends would be pointless, in my honest opinion. I'm afraid of getting close to her again, investing feelings again, which is another reason why I don't want to talk to her anymore. Advice? I just don't know what I should do.
Former friend with benefits won't leave me alone?
Blah. He keeps calling and talking to me when I already told him I wanted him to stop calling me. he keeps trying to convince me that hes a good guy and basicly saying that I haven't given him a chance when I've given him pleanty of chances. I ended things because I wanted a relationship and he didn't. He still doesn't. Says he can't because of working part time and going to school full time. Whatever. I told him I'm not going to have sex with him again. Hes not a very good listener. I really do like him, but this is getting annoying. I told him what I want, so why can't he just accept that I won't be his booty call anymore?
I feel alone and left out by my friends in a group; what should I do?
When I was in middle school, I felt the same way about one of my friend groups. I noticed that they always seemed to have an easier time talking amongst themselves. They had inside jokes I wasn’t weighing in on, their humor seemed to become more and more foreign to me, and they seemed to not care at all when I wasn’t there with them. I felt like an outsider looking through the glass.About a year later, I looked back on this, and realized that I simply didn’t fit in with them. I had different interests, different perspectives, different humor, different philosophy, different lifestyle, different everything. I wanted to be in a group that I wasn’t meant to be in.Going further into this, I also understood the group dynamics that caused me to drift from them.I’m an introvert. When I hang out with friends, I started noticing that I start burning out after around an hour. I simply got tired of socializing and went back to my awkward self. I always preferred doing things by myself rather than with other people. Now the group I was in seemed to care more about how well you can socialize to make each other happy. I obviously lost when it came to that factor.I matured. I also realized that I matured at a much faster rate than the friend group I was in at the time. I was going through a rough time, and I had a lot of time to contemplate morals, values, ethics, as well as my beliefs, desires, and insecurities. I gained multiple new perspectives, while my friend group stayed in their middle school teenager mindset.I had different friendship values. The friend group that I was in during middle school, had different friendship values than me. I valued acceptance, tolerance, listening to each other, and cherishing each other, while they valued having a good time together, enjoying the now, and relating to each others’ interests. So from those principles, we naturally drifted. To be honest, I don’t really think they truly cared about me as a human being.That was my experience with being pushed out of a friend group.I can’t speak for you, but my suggestion to you would be to simply see how things go. You’ll want to be more communicative with them, and maybe it’s due to other factors for why you felt more distant. Eventually, you’ll know whether or not to stick with them. At the same time, go out of your comfort zone. Be open-minded and make some friends with other people.