What is so wrong with a girl having male friends?
I'd like to play devils advocate to say the opposite, rather than yell into the echo-chamber and say there is no problem.Disclaimer, I don't think there is really a problem, just stereotypes.I think that one of the reasons why people think there is a problem with one or the other is the implications with a female only having male friends or the opposite.I'm gonna start with Male with only Female friends.When you see a guy with only female friends, there are several things that come to mind.The guy is desperate for female attentionThe guy cannot make friends with males and instead only talks to females.The guy wants to get into 1 or all of their pants.When we look at this list, there are some problems. 1 and 3 are sad (in the sense that they can't balance having male and female friends) and 2 just means they have some social problems with making friends.I think In this case 2 is the least sad and 3 is the most sad. In case 2 though, I think that if you can have female friends, you should be able to have male friends too. Maybe you have gotten bored of guys and just stopped talking to them. I think that happened to me in high school, I just got bored of guys because girls were just better at talking and that's pretty much what I wanted to do.For females there are different set of “social rules” and possible stereotypical explanations.The girl wants male attention.The girl can't make friends with other girls.The girl want's the get into one of all of their pants.I think someone already mentioned in theirs answers that one of the things that comes to mind is with girls being drama queens and starting so many fights that others reject that girl and she can only hang out with guys. I know some people like this and it happens. Sometimes it isn't their fault because I know sometimes especially younger groups of people choose something really stupid to defriend someone for and them rumor are garbage.Honestly we can say there are no problems and maybe there aren't but there are stereotypes for a reason. Are they fair? No but neither is assuming a bear will attack you for petting her cub. We have evolved to be stereotypical and it works.Basically, there are stereotypes that are looked down upon and humans, even if they don't look down on them, will have a slight bias against it.
I like a guy but i can't imagine myself kissing him or doing anything sexual with him ?
Lofo, getting over shyness isn't as easy as you think! Trust me, I know. ok, back you your question :) well you might not know him well enough, so you should try to hang out with him more. then you'll most likely start talking to him more and get less shy around him. He might start liking you, too, and ask you out! I mean since you said you've kissed guys before and you loved it, you probably knew them more then your crush, so I think you should talk to your crush more so you get to know him!
My boyfriend does not like me going to nightclubs and says he is going to break up with me if i keep going?
i like going out with my girl friends for a few drinks and some laughs..but my boyfriend has recently told me that he doesnt like me going to nightclubs because he doesnt like the thought of other men flirting with me.. any time any man does flirt with me i tell them straight away that i am with somebody and that i am commited.. my boyfriend is now telling me that he is going to break up with me if i dont stop going to nightclubs beacuse he hates the feeling of knowing other men flirt.. how can we come to a comprimise ?
What do guys “never” tell girls?
We also get upset sometimes (not too often) and most of time we are just like “koi ni chohd” but sometimes we really want you to say at least a sorry.We are emotional too but our tolerance level is much higher.Don’t try to check our whatsApp photos, It will always contain so many non-veg pictures.Unlike you, we can’t share so many things about you with our friends. Because we know that they will use those things to make fun of us.Too much make up can be a turn off thing (it applies for me). Your soft lips especially with light shades lipstick can be too much seducing.We respect your individuality and freedom. But If you give someone more attention especially in front of us. Then really it makes us angry a bit.Please don’t ruin our match. We love sports.Don’t say veg biryani a biryani. I hate to say it biryani without meat. You must say it just pulao or rice.We have so many problems to look after, So we expect you to not make it more difficult with senseless arguments and fights.Never assume anything, Please ask us, We will tell you honestly.Yes we stalk your profile regularly on social networking sites.We even save some pictures of you for forever. Even we makes double back up in case of any data lost.You can’t even imagine our loyalty.We even ignore some hot girls around us in front of you. Too avoid jealousy.If we say we care about you. Then we means it. Otherwise we hate to agree on everything.We loves to be sorted in our life and sometimes (not too much) expect the same from you.Yes we do watch porn.We don’t promise everything but we always care about your happiness.I would like to share one thing on the behalf of my friend. His girlfriend broke with him after 10 months by just saying “I don’t feel that way now”. So be sure before committing to us.Don’t hurt us to the extent at which we don’t even want to see your face. Yes of course, we can be so rude.Last One: It can be easy for you to move on. But for me It would be the most difficult thing because I can’t even share my pain with anyone. But If you really want to move on then please let me know. I promise you that I will never see your face again.
When men/guys say yr a wife material ..means?
This is a good thing. Women are either wife material or fling material. Your friend doesn't want to see you get hurt by his friends who are only looking for sex & fun.
My friend is insecure about his height how can I help him?
Tell him to try imagine being 4'9 everyday of his life for the past three and a half years. I'm turning 16 in three days (Happy Birthday to me!!!), which means I'm going to learn to drive, and I'm going to have to sit on a pillow when I do. In a concert once, a few years ago, the short people were made to stand on Yellow Pages books. I had to stand on TWO of them. I have a few friends who are over 6'4 and my head comes up somewhere in the middle of their chests. They have to bend down heaps to hug me without their belts sticking into my chest. I keep worrying that I'm going to stick out my elbow and accidentally hit their crotch. But still, it would serve them right because they're always "accidentally" sticking out their elbows and hitting my head, walking straight into me as if they can't see me (which sometimes they actually can't), picking me up as if I weigh nothing at all (that part's ok - the weighing nothing at all bit), and resting their arms on my head. They're good guys though. So tell your friend he's lucky and to be glad that he's not me.
Girls night out/boys night out?
My man and I have rules when it comes to this. We both do the night out thing because we have a basis of trust in our relationship. Without trust, which it sounds like your man is having an issue with, a relationship can't be healthy.