Ex girlfriend/ borderline personality disorder/ want her back?
for the record.. i am still in love with my ex.. even though she has bpd.. i did research and read books alas it was after she left me.. however i was talking with some of her friends, and even though she is dating a new guy now she still "likes me". The last thing i heard from her straight her was "i hate you, your a loser, i wasted a year and half with you, i'm embarrassed, don't ever talk to me again or i'll place a restraining order on you." The day before she broke up with me she was telling me how she wanted to get engaged for christmas and get pregnant this summer? anyhow... anyone have experience with a bpd ex girlfriend? will she come back? I am not talking to her it's been over a month but i plan to contact her by the time summer rolls around (4 months from now).. I still love her and even though she is dating a new guy i don't think it will work out.. any suggestions or ideas? we dated for a year and a half and her longest bf before that was like 5 months
My girlfriend expects me to be able to read her mind?
My girlfriend is sometimes in a bad mood or show some attitude, because of something I did. Or something I should have done (in her mind) but I did not do. When I ask what's wrong she won't communicate it to me. After she's finished being moody she'll tell me. Its driving me crazy. I've told her to communicate because I can't read her mind but she says I miss obvious things. I don't want to dump her because of this but I would prefer to have a more laid back relationship.
Does my girlfriend have learning disability?(very long, but I need help badly)?
Thanks to you all. I honestly don't think I'm an amazing bf as I give her problems as well. I don't think her problems are as severe as I made them out to be. sometimes she feels as if shes of average intelligence and others she does not so well. I do get angry with her at times which usually leads to arguments which is bad, but one can only take so much, but I'm trying to stop that. i know she can succeed in this world, but I feel like she needs to be a lot more prepared before she starts college. Thank you all for the advice. I appreciate it. Also again I'm not that amazing lol
My friends like my girlfriend more than they like me?
I've recently moved to a new town for school and met a lot of new people as well. i put a lot of effort in building relationships with my friends but whenever i bring my girlfriend around, they seem to be all about her. Shes from the city and whenever she comes to visit me, my friends click with her just like that. My girlfriend is very outgoing and loves to have fun. everyone loves her. when shes not here, all they do is ask where she is, how she is. even if they only met her twice. i see these people at school everyday and at events/parties. They don't ask me how i am. they cant even have a casual conversation with me. its always, wheres your girlfriend? and then walks away like they want nothing to do with me. Being my so called friends, they don't give me the time of day when shes not there and it makes me feel like crap...like complete crap. living in a new town by myself, how am i suppose to live like this? in an environment where i cant fit in with anyone. its like when my girlfriend isn't there, i'm not worth talking to anymore. yeah, maybe they're not my real friends, maybe i should go find better ones....but being in a fraternity, its hard. i'm going to be around these people for a long time. i broke up with my girlfriend recently because this has been eating at me for god knows how long...i really wish i could find a solution where i don't have to feel like **** all the time. i love her more than anything, but if we don't find a solution, idk how things are going to work between us...so can you guys helppp? what can i do to not get angry and stress under these situations?
What should I do I think my girlfriend is asexual?
I am 24 and my girlfriend is 21 we have been dating for 3 years. But we have never lived together. She lost her virginity to me. I have had sex with other women and they definitely enjoyed it and regularly achieved orgasm. My girlfriend has never had an orgasm on her own or with me. She also never masturbates. My girlfriend and me have sex once every three weeks or less (five weeks is not uncommon) and normally my girlfriend is doing it just to please me. She gets no pleasure from sex. Both her and me have tried many things to try and get her to enjoy sex - her on the pill, lube, sex toys, bdsm, dom/sub both ways, trips away to other cities, romantic dinners etc - you name it we have tried it seriously... I am now starting to get convinced she is asexual (http://www.asexuality.org/home/index.php?option=com_content&task=section&id=6&Itemid=28 ). We both love each other and she regularly kisses and cuddles me. She reads articles on the internet on female sexual dysfunction. She Cries after sex sometimes as she can’t enjoy it. At the moment my life has little privacy (i live with flat mates) and she also has little privacy as well (she lives with parents). I am saving up to buy a house so I will be on my own in a year – two years. My girlfriend would come and live with me. I am hoping this space will allow her to express her sexuality more, as I worry she is just concerned about privacy. However she also does not want sex in hotels when we are alone so I doubt this will help. How can I approach her to talk about her being asexual? She hates talking about sex as she wants to pretend we don’t have sexual problems in our relationship. She refuses to go to the Dr or Gynaecologist as she is scared. I don’t know what to do to help her and our relationship as we both love each other.
Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have anal sex with me?
A recent survey showed that 48% of the women had at least tried anal sex.... but when men were asked if they had done this with the woman only 21% said yes. So statistically a lot of guys are not interested. It seems the most common reason was they were a bit homophobic about the idea. (Some guys fear they might like it too much and then gender wouldn't matter) There are some women find they really like it however it does take them some practice and am getting used to it. Some women can even climax this way although that is a small percentage. Good for you wanting to try it.... another guy might jump at the opportunity so to speak.... but I think you need to ask your guy weighed seriously what does he find unappealing about it. If he thinks his dirty wear a condom.... if these homophobic about it.... try to explain to him that you are a woman. Keep in mind guys never read a map when they're lost..... when their sexually loss are not likely to read the signs to go in the right direction either.... better to go down well known path then to go down a back road if you know what I mean AdviceMan
Girlfriend had sex with another guy while blackout drunk, need advice?
Alright, to start this off we're both 19 and have been dating for almost a year, I'm out of state for a few months for business purposes. 4 weeks ago she gets blackout drunk at a party full of girls (after I tell her to never drink so much without me). And some guy later shows up and takes advantage of her and has sex with her. She calls me up the next morning bawling her eyes out saying she's sorry and how much she loves me and how she can't lose me and how she only has like 30 seconds of memory from it. But I'm basically like "too bad whore" and ended it. So I do the unthinkable, the next day I have sex with a girl I know here and honestly it felt great. My now ex kept calling me throughout the day, leaving me voicemails of her crying, begging for me to take her back. But I ignore all of them. I was so hurt and heartbroken by what she did. But in all honesty, as much as I hate to say it, I still love her. I understand that being drunk is not an excuse to be a whore and **** some random guy, and the fact that it came from the last person I would have ever thought is just mind boggling and heartbreaking. So I talked to her that night and told her everything how I had willing sex with another girl and she starts crying. Saying how I'm her first and only true love and how sorry she is, and how if I don't take her back she'll quit dating forever because I'm her perfect match. We really were inseparable, we had EVERYTHING in common. (More in details)