She flirts with me but likes someone else?
So this girl and I are pretty good friends, so I know who she likes and other things about her past. She claims to like this other guy and talks about him all the time, but she flirts with me all the time, not just lightly either, like hardcore flirting (haha). Also my friend was high yesterday and we were talking about her and he said she liked me. I said no she likes this other guy but he said "she likes him, but is sexually attracted to you" is that even possible?
I found out the guy I like likes someone else but he flirts with me?
So I like my best guy friend. Like I like him a lot. He acts like he likes me too, so much that everyone else notices too. Even his best friends! He even talks recently about us getting married one day and our future kids! But then last night I was joking about being a good matchmaker and since we are both single he was like asking me to find him someone and I said well any suggestions? Cause I didn't know that many people in his grade (I'm a senior he is a sophemore but he's only a year younger than me). And he said well he did kind of like someone and I found out it was this girl who we both did sports with. She's nice and one of my friends sorta but she likes someone else and he knows It. I told our mutual friend (we are all 3 best friends she's a girl too) and she was shocked because neither of us can see them together. She knows I kind of like him but she has no idea how much. What should I do? I want him to like me not her...and I was so confident he liked me. Could he still like me? I'm going to prom with him too. He told me something meaningful today too something only his parents and like one other person knew. We are very close friends and he's obviously trusting me to tell me what he told me today. I always try to be there for him and I love him, then he all of a sudden likes a random girl who never talks to him hardly? I just don't get it. He said he hasn't liked her long and he knows she likes someone else but he says that doesn't mean she won't like him if she knew he liked her. What do I do to get him to maybe like me again? It just doesn't make sense. Im sorry for ranting but I really need help. Thanks in advance, thanks so much. God bless xD
My guy friend is majorly flirting with me!?
So... what's your question?
I found out that other guys are flirting with my girlfriend, and she is allowing them to continue to do the same, even though I know she loves me a lot. What should I do?
Nothing. She is not allowing them to flirt with her.If she is in a friendly conversation with someone else, there is nothing to be worried about. They may or may not know that she has a boyfriend.The only thing she can control is her response to things they say or do.If they can not distinguish between a conversation and a full throttle flirt session, then they are suffering from some major defect in their brain. I think she is relaxed and friendly in her interaction with other guys besides you, because you are the one she goes home with. You are the one she trusts and can confide in.Even if she's flirting with someone she feels at ease with, she will always keep the boundaries in her sight. Because flirting is supposed to be fun, nothing else. She is in no way whatsoever obliged to do anything for any guy, not even after a little mutual flirting. She owns herself, no one is her boss.Yes, she is pretty and witty. No secret :-).She's also with you, she wants you to be her boyfriend. If she no longer loves you, she will tell you. These guys are irrelevant.Where ever my wife goes, she attracts attention, 'cause if I may say so, she's sexy and smart. I see guys trying to catch her attention all the time and I am not in the least interested. I know her and I know she won't let them cross any boundaries, not because she is worried about me, but because she doesn't want them to.Confidence is key, confidence in yourself and in your girl.
How do I know if a guy is flirting or just messing with me as a friend?
I have to say that most of the points mentioned by Priyadarshi are true. We boys are ourselves confused about how we feel towards a girl. Even though a boy can mess with you as a friend, he could also be flirting with you. The dufference is not alway clear, though.Like Priyadarshi said, there are a few points worth noticing, and I can add to that:The special treatment: He could prioritize you over other female friends of his.However, the best is to check this consistently because some of his ‘seemingly prioritizing’ gestures could be common among other friends too. If he takes time out for you or mentions that talking to you makes him feel way better, then that could indicate an attraction towards you.Listening to you more attentively than he doe with other friends: A clear indication that he’s onto something more than just being friends. Even if he somehow doesn’t know that himself (rare cases :P).The ‘distinguishable’ compliments: He will compliment you on anything (just not on your looks) in a different way that is easily distinguishable. Boys who flirt often wanna make their compliment stand out from the others’ such that you get the point.Making you blush or blushing when the joke’s on him: Another clear indication that he’s not just messing with you. We wanna make the girl we like blush with comments that make the girl feel special. On the other hand, when in an embarrassing situation, friends will laugh off the matter but a guy who’s into flirting with you will blush, no matter how hard he tries not to. ;)He’ll make a date, not a get together: If you’re single, the guy who is flirting with you doesn’t wanna just be a friend always. So he will seek opportunities to make ‘alone’ time together with you; just you and him. Might ask you out, even if its not an official ‘date’, he will make the day seem like one. If he’s just messing with you as a friend, the day will feel like hanging out with a friend.Hope his helps… :)
My friend is flirting with my crush?
SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! FRIENDS DONT BACKSTABB AND DO THINGS LIKE THIS TO YOU! Get over the fact that she is flirting with him. If you like him take charge and tell them. No sense in beating around the bush about it. If he likes you them he will let you know. If he likes her then you will know. Just keep it in your mind that it may not work out. But truely she really isnt your friend. Friends respect boundries like that and she should respect the fact that you really like this guy and not go after him. Tell her how you feel about her acting in such a manner and if she cant handle it then find yourself a new friend seriously b/c the backstabbing starts there.