Why does my guy friend ignore me all of a sudden?
Ok so I have a guy friend. I've been hanging out with him for a while now. Were kinda really close. We've known eachother for 3 months now and he sends me a text almost every day asking for homework. Ever since he found out about me and another guy going to homecoming for school (I also kissed this guy which I told him too since we talk about things alot) hes been all of a sudden talking to me less. He's actually avoiding me now and I asked him why he won't talk to me or if he's mad but he just says that nothing is wrong. I know something is wrong for sure. Then I texted him why he's ignoring me and he said that he has to for no reason. What should I do?? He's a great friend and I can't lose him because he's one of my besties. I've also asked him If he likes me but he just says no although his friends say he's madly in love with me.he's pretty good at hiding now. So what should I do???
This gemini man so angry at me.. so sudden?
well, we're chatting online earlier. he was also chatting with a few of his friends besides me. i see that he replied late so i guess maybe he's buzy with his friends. so i said to him that i wanted to sign off saying that he's might be buzy so i don't want to disturb him at all since i also lost idea what to talk to him. he ask me what i want to do after signing off... i just said nothing. maybe just play some games. then he ask don't me don't go assuming i'm jealous he's chatting with another girl but i said i'm not. then he suddenly got mad and said to me let he sign off. now everyone won't chat with him. then he just sign off, without a word. i am so lost right now... what did i do that makes him so upset?
What should I do if my friend is mad at me for no reason?
There is always a reason. Sit down and write a list of the things that happened around the time your friend became angry. At the same time do not attempt to contact that person. Let them contact you. Don't talk about them to anyone and if asked simply answer “Nothing is wrong that I know of.”That puts the ball in their court. If they are really your friend they will eventually cool down and come talk to you.If they show you anger tell them you care about them and wish to resolve the conflict. If they persist then walk away. Sometimes people are only your friend for a purpose and once the purpose is served they hurt you in order to not feel guilty about moving on.Express your gratitude for their friendship and let them know you are still their friend even if they aren't yours.People will respect your behavior and yes I did this so I know that the new friends that I made were absolutely loyal and 20 years later still have my back.
Why is my best guy friend suddenly acting aloof and distant? He doesn't want to hang out with me alone like we used to. What am I supposed to do?
Probably this …Probably that…One answer is, start cooking up stories in your mindWhat if, he’s got a girlfriend and that girlfriend wants him to sever all relations that he had with other girls?What if, he started to find you boring?What if, he developed feelings for you and not interested to go to the next level or confess or commit?What if, he started to find you high maintenance?What if, he saw your broken tooth?What if, he saw a mole on your skin?What if, he saw your hairy under arms ? LOLKeep thinking and cook up a huge mess…Second answer isGo and ask.Simple. Clear up. Ask him. Be smart enough to judge if it’s the truth or not.I really believe in communication. It settles unnecessary storms.Best of luck, communicating. God Bless.
What should I do? Friend is mad cuz I don't like him back?
I know you have already told him that you don't like him, but obviously he is having some difficulty accepting what you have to say. I think you should talk to him again to clear things up. He should really be accepting of your answer. Just because you don't have those feelings back doesn't give him the right to be mad at you. You have to realize that you haven't done anything wrong. Tell him that you really like being his friend and that you hope that your relationship can remain the same. Also, you have just met this guy and its unreasonable for him to expect that you can like him that quickly. Talk to him and see how he reacts. If he remains mad, honestly, he's not worth it either way. Anyone who likes you, more than a friend or not, would respect you. It's his ultimate loss if he doesn't accept what you have to say. Hopefully everything will work out though (:
My friend suddenly stopped talking to me. I've tried talking to her, but she ignores me and talks with my other friends instead. What should I do?
Give the friendship a break for a while. People who value your friendship will take the time to make contact with you - you have shown you value her friendship because you have tried to make contact with her. Now it's time to step back and see if she can show the same appreciation. Use this opportunity to explore new friendships and activities, so you are enjoying yourself rather than sitting around feeling ignored. Avoid giving her opportunities to ignore you, and try to avoid talking about the situation with your mutual friends, in case things get repeated and misinterpreted. If you don't hear from your best friend after a month or so, and you still feel upset and puzzled by this, maybe send her a friendly email saying that you miss chatting to her and you hope that everything is okay. Don't worry too much about why she isn't talking to you. Again if she valued the friendship, she would tell you if you had done something to upset her, so that the two of you could resolve the issue. Maybe she needs some time before she can tell you what's wrong. Maybe she's getting a kick out of ignoring you and playing favorites with your other friends. You don't need to put up with being treated like the runner up in a popularity competition.
My guy friend suddenly stopped talking to me. We didn’t have a fight or anything. He’s just completely ignoring me and I don’t know why. I’m tempted to cut all contact. Should I do that?
Talk to him, in person.“Joe-Bob, you’ve been avoiding me. It’s rude. If I did something that hurt or bothered you, you know I wouldn’t have done it on purpose! What’s wrong? Talk to me.”Don’t take “No.” for an answer. You can go back and forth for a few minutes, but eventually, you have to give him an ultimatum;“Jehoshaphat-Robespierre !!! I deserve better than this! If you won’t talk to me today, then maybe we don’t need to talk at all? I’ll tell you what - this is me, trying to fix things. But you aren’t! So, I’ll give you til Friday. I will not call nor text you at all. If you want to continue this friendship (or raise it to another level?). then you need to make the next move. If I don’t hear from you on Friday, well, it was nice knowing you.”And walk away.Three things;IS this a matter of Friend-zoning? Does he want more from the friendship than you’re willing to commit to (or unaware of)? If possible, then you need to seriously think things out. Decide how much you want his friendship compared to perhaps more. If he’s been friend-zoned, he’s miserable. And will never be happy as just boyfriend, but leaving will take a tremendous effort on his part - and that may be exactly what’s going on.This can’t be a Bluff. If you go though with this, you have to be prepared for whatever the answer ultimately ends up being.You dating a guy named “Jehoshaphat-Robespierre” is strange. What kind of name is that anyway? Cajun maybe?
Why Does my boyfriend get mad at me when my feelings are hurt!?
may i be honest with you? after three years, my guess is your feelings have probably gotten hurt a lot. more than likely, he's feeling that you're overly sensitive. here's the solution: guys are generally dumb. they don't think how we think. they don't get things we get. CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES. he's going to mess up but if you want to be with him for the long haul, don't bring every matter to him for discussion. make the decision to let some stuff go, deal with the bigger issues. you two will enjoy each other more and spend less time arguing. so a lot of people might not agree with me, but i believe this as the truth. he's tired of hearing that you're unhappy or that you're feelings or hurt. learn to let things go when they're really not a big deal (and be honest with yourself on if it's serious or not) and only confront him with the real issues. enjoy your man. 3 years is a long time. it sounds like you've got a keeper, so don't push him away
Why is he being mean all of a sudden?
Last year a boy had a crush on me and we got along better than I do with my best friend. He used yo always call me pretty and give but this year all he wants to do is call me ugly. He gets mad with me and always mentions he doesn't know me since we don't have classes together. He keeps staring at me and smiling as if something is funny but I'm not laughing. What's his deal?
So. I miss my guy friend. But he hurt me.. ?
Ok so. I had this friend. We talked all the time and always helped eachother with our various problems. And deep down I had feelings for him all along. Then all of a sudden, we started flirting more and one thing led to another and he told me he liked me, and that he had for a while. Which made me sooooo happy. But he had a gf. I know I know I'm terrible. He had been telling me he was gonna break up with her. Anyway. 2 days later he stops talking to me altogether and never breaks up with her. I was devastated and so hurt that he would do that to me, his really good friend. But now I miss him. And I am so mad at him. But I misss being his friend. Would it be pathetic and stupid to try to talk to him? I was thinking something like "so. I'm totalllyyyyy mad at you. But I miss talking to my friend..." should I do it? I really don't know.