My mom keeps lying to me, what can i do?
2 months ago my mom kicked me out of the house i was alright with it i was planing to move out anyway....i grew up with my dad till i was 15 and than i moved with my mom for the next 4 years. i really dont blame her for telling me to move out, i wasn't her favorite kid. My sister was and my brother. The only thing that bothers me is that she lies to me every time i talk to her. It hurts so bad that after every conversation we have i start crying. Don't get me wrong i am not a bad kid i dont drink or do drugs i was raised with different aspects of life and she didnt like that. She didn't like that fact that i didn't want to have sax till i was getting married or that i have a great guy that loved me. She hated that i had a boyfriend and that he helped me with everything. I still want to be friends with her but if she keeps lying to me like that i don't think i can keep my calm and i don't think i can respect her anymore. The bible tells us to respect our parents but i dont know for how long i can do that.
My dad keeps lying to me .?
I'm Jesus in a play for school and it's a big part. It's the day before spring break. Well, my dad promised up and down we were going to keywest for spring break, and like always he let me down. I asked him if we were leaving the day before or after the play and told me we aren't going now. He's always done that, and this time I trusted him. He's a doctor. What should I do?
My sister keeps lying to my mom and when she finds out, my mom is hurt. My sister is lying again and its just a matter of time before she finds out again. I don't want to see mom hurt. I hate my sister for doing this. What would one do in my situation?
You don't mention how old you and your sister are, but I'm assuming under the age of 18, and that you both still live under your mother's roof. It's a tough situation to watch happening. I hate seeing my mother hurt too. I'm also assuming that you've already tried to talk to your sister about how this affects you. Your sister needs to realize that trust is an easy thing to lose, and a very difficult thing to gain. She can also be putting herself in danger if she's lying about where she goes, who she is hanging around with, or what she is doing. If your sister is doing things that she's knows are wrong, she lies to not get caught. If your mother has unrealistic or unreasonable expectations, then perhaps your sister is lying about doing "normal" things that for whatever reasons, your mother objects to. Either way, not knowing the full story, it's affecting YOU. This might be a situation where family counseling might be helpful. There is a family dynamic going on that none of us here are privy to, and would be impossible to comment upon without knowing more details. Your ages, your mother's age, your background, living situation, the scope of the lies, etc. But that doesn't help you now. Your sister needs to lie, your mother needs to trust, and you need peace. Try talking to your sister, and tell her that you love her and worry about her well being. Lay out how her lying might be a short term fix, but how it hurts everyone in the long run. Be there for your mom. And try to cultivate your own peace and interests, so that you can disengage and recharge when YOU feel like it's getting too much. I hope this helps a little. Best of luck--I'm rooting for you.
How can I forgive my mother for lying to me?
You shouldn’t.Your mother not only lied to you but stole from you. She’s showing she has no real respect for you as a person a views your money as something she can use and access whenever she wants.And please don’t listen to the people bleating about she’s your mother and that magically makes everything right. If she truly needed the money she could’ve asked you. That she didn’t just shows that she believes what you earn is hers and I’ll guarantee she’ll do it again and again.You need to do two things. First cut off your mother’s access to your account. The only person who gets in there is you.Second plan on moving out. You can’t stay with her anymore.
My mom lied to me about smoking, what should I do?
She was outside by the car smoking with her cousin. I had to ride home with the awful smell. She refused to roll down the windows or try to turn on the AC. And she isn't trying to quit. When you are trying to quit, you don't smoke 4-5 times a day. She uses the gum when I'm in the hospital so she doesn't have to leave. I've done my homework, ppl. I know the details. I am trying to be mature, but anger issues kind of has its limits. I can't control when I get angry or upset, and if i do, its hard to reverse it. I try to mature but it never works out that way because she ends up pissing me off again. I cant go to realtives. Only the household and her cousin know about this habit.
My mom always thinks I'm lying?
Everything I say, my mom says is a lie, even when it's not. She has no reason to accuse me of lying because I almost NEVER lie. Like she posted a video on my Facebook wall, and the next day, she said " so I guess you didn't like the video huh?" I told her I didn't even get to watch it yet, and she said I deleted it. Even if I did, I didn't mean to, and she said I was lying about not watching it. It drives me crazy because I did nothing to make her think I'm a liar. Sometimes she makes me cry about it because she just keeps harassing me and saying that she will never be able to trust me. What can I do to gain her trust and prove to her I'm not a lair? Thanks for reading, and thanks for the help!
My mom always keeps on shouting on me, and does not trust me at all. What do I do?
I presume you are a teenager. Mom shouting all the time sounds familiar. Growing up my mom did shout often. I was so dumb I would take the bate and argue.My suggestion do not engage keep cool. When she is done respond quietly in a very neutral fashion. Here is an example “ yes I did forget the garbage. When you make it a huge issue by screaming I get stressed. Next time if you need to remind me do in a quiet fashion I will do it ASAP. If I do not it is on me and you have a reason to shout”.Take a lesson from the shouting. If it is ineffective and disagreeable do not practice it with others especially your future lover and children.
My mom has a drinking & lying problem & I can't take it anymore!!! HELP!?
First off- Yoour mother does NOT love ALCOHOL morethan you, believe me! She just has a very bad addiction to alcohol. Please don't take the lying personally it is something all alcoholics do because deep down they want to please you but the alcohol takes over and it becomes yet another lie! I do believe your father is just as bad! An alcoholic is an alcoholic no matter how they may behave! Maybe your mom got sick of living with an alcoholic and now she has thrown the towel in herself no excuse but it may have something to do with it! There is help!!! Brandon and Debbie Knauss (off of Dr. Phil) have a company called VIP- Vital intervention Professionals website is www.viprecovery.com they will help you and your family. The phone number to get in touch with them is 1-800-536-7847. Hang in there God will bless you for helping them! Good Luck!
My mom lies to me. What should I do?
*disclaimer: I am only writing from my own personal experience…I am not a doctor/this is not medical advice, pls seek professional help always!*I lived with a mom who had very different views on life…that included lying. She was manic depressive…but I have to say…..when I made a personal decision to not allow her to have “power” over me, my world opened up in a way I would have never imagined. I understand you are Bipolar…..that is a label you/others have placed. You are still a Being on this world….gather the strength to know YOU CAN MOVE/LIVE beyond the label! Don’t allow a diagnosis to keep you from being a greater you, that includes gaining complete independence :)