My mom makes me feel worthless?
My mom abuses me & makes me honestly want to kill my self as horrible as it sounds. I'm already beyond depressed for 2 years now and she's the only reason why, crazy right? I'm only 15 so I can't leave and I have no where else to go. Everyday is a battle honestly. She physically abuses me to a limit and verbally abuses me beyond belief. Everyday I'm getting called a slut and whore, worthless, no good, lazy and every curse you could possibly think of. I don't do anything to be called these names. I don't leave the house. I don't have friends because she controls my life, all I do is help her around the house. She tells me I'll never get anywhere in life and no one will ever love me. She makes me feel like I'm nothing. I basically raise my little sister, like I'm 15 I have my own life ahead of me to raise my own children. Its like I'm the adult and she's the child! My dad isn't involved, so like I said before I have NO where to go. I've thought about calling CPS but I don't want to do that only because they'll take my little sister away & I don't want that to happen because my mom treates her fine, it's only me she acts insane towards. Anyways, I literally sit in my room and cry my eyes out because of what she does to me. As pathetic as it sounds, my mother causes me to cut myself and have thoughts of killing myself to end it all, and she even encourages it which is sick. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm so done with it all.
My mom makes me feel worthless?
I m 16 and I m pretty sure my mom wishes I wasn t alive. She always picks on me and points out my flaws. I have 4 sisters and she seems to praise every single one of them (even one who steals from her). She constantly has to remind me of everything I do wrong and it doesn t help the fact that I m failing 2 of my classes. There s only a few things that make me truly happy and she doesn t even see it and she tries to keep them from me. The only hope I had was knowing that one day I would move out and not have to see her anymore but school is so hard and no matter how hard I try I never do well so I m scared that I ll never be accepted into college or get a good job and I ll have to be with her for the rest of my life. I m not suicidal or anything so please don t mention anything about that. I just need help what do I do to make her not hate me
My mom is making me feel worthless?
I'm 16(and turn 17 in July). My mom has always yelled at me, but not as frequently and bad since this year. This year just isn't my year. I've been making bad grades, and my mom calls me stupid, a b*tch, an a**hole, and some of everything else you can think of. I seriously am trying my best, but I don't have much motivation since she puts me down all the time. And she always finds a way to bring up my grades, and laughs at me. I try my best to shrug it off, but it kills me inside each time, because I know I'm capable of doing so much better in school.(I'm in honor classes btw) So this morning, I woke up and before I could get in the shower, my mom is like "Are you going to do an extra year of high school?" I told her no, and where did she get that from. She said that I'm not going to graduate, and that I'll never make it into college. So we started arguing(well not really) and I kept telling her I'm a hopeful person, and that I'll get into college one way or another. Even if I have to apply to every college in the US(an exaggeration of course) I'm going to get in. So she tells me no college wants someone stupid, and that I'm going to be working at McDonald's and she's going to kick me out when I'm 18. She also calls me a failure and told me that she's ashamed of me. I tried cutting, and I think about killing myself, even though I won't do it. I also tried to talk to her about it, but she says don't blame her. I don't know what to do :( I'm just so depressed and hurt.
My mom makes me feel worthless please help?
i would never thought i would meet someone like you because my mom say that to me to like no lie what i do is i just listen to eminem :) i would recommend some of his comedy or just listen to mocking bird when im gone Haily's song my mom just anything with eminem it helps me alot and also talk with your mom i ddon'ttalk with mine because i think she would not care :|
How do I get my mom to stop making me feel worthless?
Your case is a perfectly valid reason why adult children move out once they are financially stable enough. You should try it, some time.Even then, mothers can be depressing creatures. In their attempt to take control of you and "improve" you as if you were a piece of craft, most of them end up making you feel depressed and fail as mothers to make you feel confident instead. Maybe if your mom is open minded enough, you can point out everything you feel and what she can do, to improve your mood. Otherwise, you have no choice but to abandon your mother and make your fortune on your own. That means, getting a better job, getting married and having kids on your own.
My mother makes me feel worthless and constantly dominates me. If I object, she starts fighting. It affects my confidence. What do I do?
Never loose your confidence on yourself!Work hard and show how worthy you are.I understand your problem,but let me tell you, a mother is very good heartthough it sounds harsh in her words.Don't find mistakes of her like dominating..fighting..etcDo you ever asked her about what's going on in her head?? Never mind. Just as an example,why do we pour ghee whenever we do yagnas...? because it acts just like a fuel and brings out the fire within.Even your mother is doing it in the same way,trying to bring on the fire withinyou. why don't you look at the things, differently rather than mourning and loosing your confidence focusing on unnecessary things.Try not to loose your hope.Don't fill up your head with the words list like demoralised,dominated,demeaned etc.Have a look at thisI think,you know very well,what to do and what not to (i appreciate you, for asking it over here) still, as you have reached marriageable age,so find yourself what makes you the worthiest and a better person, to be supportive to your family in all aspects.Thanks for the A2A.All the best!
How can I make my mom feel loved and not worthless?
I went through a period like that when I was crippled and sick and felt I wasn’t worthy of love. What my son did was amazing. He talked about all my successes and celebrated every 1/4 inch of movement restored. He talked about how he admired all my hard work and how much progress I made and especially so when I would relapse and feel like giving up.When it was so painful to get dressed I could barely stand it, he would figure out what I would wear and put it together for me and then tell me how great I looked. He focused on every thing I could do and was doing and marked my progress.He also talked about all the great times we had together and how much they meant to him and what we would do when I was well again and how much he looked forward to doing those things. This gave me goals.All that he did made me feel better and touched my heart in ways I’ve never known before or since.He also did things to give me comfort like succeed in all possible ways he could. He would share his successes and struggles with me. Tell me about his day, what he was doing. He kept me involved in his life.He also helped me do things I couldn’t. I never had to ask. He would do them as well as I did before.Normally I would say there is nothing you can do to make your mother feel better and it’s not your responsibility to do so. However, because of my experience with my son, I realize that just like my life cannot be right unless his is, sometimes children feel the same way about their parents. So focus on the positive. Show her you love her. Support her emotionally, but be your own success and have fun.Remember, above all else, if your life is right, hers will be also.Best to you. <3
Why does my mom constantly make me feel worthless?
Wow yours is a bizarre story. I can't imagine why your mom would turn on you like that. If you think that the breakup with your b/f was a factor could it be that she was somehow attached to him & now resents you for breaking up with him? Maybe she had a vision of him becomming the perfect son-in-law, or something. As for your mom "making you feel worthless" she can't do that unless you give her the power to do that to you. From your information, I would describe you as a very responsible young woman. A person that any parent would be proud to call their child. As a parent myself, I can't even fathom the concept of not supporting my child getting an education, & improving her lot in life. It almost sounds to me that your mom may be suffering a mental or emotional breakdown of some kind. I recommend that you get her to her family doctor, & you go with her, & explain her personality changes to the doctor. The point is that whatever she is doing, this has nothing to do with YOU. I can't help but feel that you haven't painted the full picture here. That may even be unintentional on your part, you may be in a sort of denial, but you need to ask yourself a really hard question, & that is: IS YOUR MOM DRINKING? That could explain A LOT. I am going to leave you with one final thought. This hinges around you comming to the realization that this isn't your fault or your responsibility. Even your mom would ultimately agree with me that your 1st responsibility is to yourself. If she persists in this behaviour, & refuses treatment for her condition (whatever it is) then you have to get out of that situation. You can't concentrate on your future if you are living with a person who is acting like a lunatic. There are assistance programmes, & grants for students in bad situations like you are in. All you have to do is seek them out. Go to a councellor at your school & see if they can hook you up with some assistance. You didn't say where your Dad is in all of this, but if he's still around then consider him another resource to turn to. Go ahead, & turn to as many people you can think of for help. You will be amazed at how many will step up & offer you anything they can. Why? Because YOU ARE WORTH IT! Hope I helped! ;-)
My mom makes me feel stupid, depressed, and worthless. Please help?
it feela like my mom will do anything to put me down. I'm shaking right now writing this. I have anxiety and depression, and its getting worse because she won't take me seriously and allow me to receive treatment.if I complaing about symptoms and say anything about mentioning it to my doctor, she either rolls her eyes and sarcastically says "ok" or just dismisses it all together. I have odd coping mechanisms, and I do stuff to cope with anxiety like camp out in my closet, sleep all day, stress eat, and talk to my cat. She always makes fun of it and doesn't take me seriously on top of that, she makes me want to self harm. A couple days ago, I started scratching my arms until they bled very badly. My mom noticed, I told her what was wrong, and she screamed at me. "THATS DISGUSTING. THEY LOOK LIKE TRACK MARKS. YOU LOOK LIKE A CRACK WHORE" in front of my friends. I had to keep myself from crying but I was shaking the whole night. I'm having very bad urges ever since, I just feel horrible she also sets unreasonably high expectations for me. She expects me to participaate in extracurricular, sports, clubs, etc but I really don't feel comfortable with my anxiety. She called me worthless and a disgrace to the family because I didn't join national honors society. I really don't know what to do with myself now. She makes me feel suicidal and sad all the time. Can someone please tell me what I should do