My mom thinks my friend is being rude. What should I do?
Your friend is acting like a disrespectful slob. If you don't want to lay down the rules, then ask your mom to do it, and tell her you will back her up. Maybe draw up a list of what *should* be done (eg: eat only while at the kitchen table, put your dirty dishes in the kitchen sink, etc. While your friend might be upset, you'll be doing her a favor--she apparently doesn't know how to behave in public and that is going to cause problems for her wherever she goes. If she's allowed to behave like that at home, shame on her parents. It's their job to teach her how to behave. BTW, your friend needs more than "hints". If she's making a pig of herself, TELL her that (wow, you're always eating the last piece of everything, didn't anyone ever tell you that was rude?) Same with the interrupting. You can maybe soften the blow a bit by saying "my mom doesn't like it when I interrupt her, and I don't think she likes it when you do either". It's up to your mom whether or not to lay down rules about babies who won't eat proper meals. When I was little (and by that I mean 4 or 5), if I didn't eat a full meal, then I didn't get dessert. Coke is TERRIBLE for your friend. If she truly doesn't like the food (is it too spicy or heavy?), ask her what types of foods she does like and maybe your mom can accommodate her. Tell her that if she doesn't clean up her act, she'll never be invited back, and that would make you sad because you enjoy having her there. BTW, why weren't you and your mom aware of her behavior before this 2-week vacation? Seems to me that one or both of you should have anticipated this.
HELP MY FRIENDS MOM IS RUDE!?
Ok so my friends mom is REALLY rude. At first she seemed like a really nice person and I really thought she was. My mom also thought she was a nice person and liked her. Well one day my friend was at my house when her mom came over so she could hang out with my mom. My mom didn't really want to go but she wanted to do it for me so she went and hung out with my friends mom. Well that day my friends mom asked my mom to be in some business to like plan birthday parties. Well my mom said yes even though she knew she couldn't and now my friends mom ALWAYS wants to talk to my mom. Well my mom pretty much tells me everything that's going on in her life and my friends mom keeps calling my mom and my mom ignores it most of the time because she doesn't really want to talk to her. Finally my friends mom messaged my mom that she couldn't rely on her for parties and all this stuff because my mom either didn't feel like talking or felt sick because she had a cold. Well now my mom was kind of mad at her because of my friends mom and my friends mom is mad at my mom. Well now that that's happened, my friends mom is making excuses why my friend can't come to my house and stuff. I don't want to end the friendship and I don't know what to do! Please help!
Why is my friend's mom so rude to me?
Okay so I'm 16 and I have this best friend who I've known for years. I really like her and her family, but her mom is really rude to me. She always makes very mean comments for absolutely no reason. Like a few weeks ago she asked if I got my eyebrows done and when I said yes she said "They're too thin. Yuck!" Then a few days ago me and her were talking about my new dog and she cut me off mid sentance and said "You have got to do something about your hair! It's so boring!" Yesterday she asked if I had a new perfume and when I said no she said "Really? I smell something nasty!" I never say anything back to her because my mom always taught me to respect adults and all that, but it's so annoying! She always implies that I'm ugly and stuff and I know I'm not, I'm a model for God's sakes! My friend always yells at her for being rude, but it doesn't work. I don't want to have to ditch my friend, but what do I do?
My mom thinks my best friend is lesbian?
There's nothing for your mum to be jealous of if she is. If she believes your friend is a lesbian let her think it. After all it's her choice if she wants to be a lesbian and no one can differentiate her from other girls because of her sexuality. I know a lot of girls who link hands, give the occasional kiss, talk for hours on end on the phone, have a girls night in etc, but that doesn't make them lesbian. I think your friend is comfortable with you and think your mum might be over analysing just a little bit. Maybe your mum dislikes your friend because your friend has been slightly rude to her before. Talk to your mum if things get out of hand or if things start to get weird.
My mom always thinks i'm being rude?
My mom has always been overly dramatic with how i act and she claims i'm very rude. i'm 14 and I don't think i am and i dont try to be. I love her to pieces and whenever i try talking to her about it she closes herself out and ignores me.
My mom is kind of rude to my friends (not on purpose)?
Well, I really need more info on the types of things she's saying. There are so many variables here: 1. She's angry with you, and venting her anger inappropriately. 2. She has no idea that what's she's saying is inappropriate. 3. You are feeling overly sensitive or over-reacting to something most people would perceive as all right. 4. She's jealous of you. (I hope not.) 5. She feels you've forgotten about her, and is trying to get you to pay attention to you. The best thing to do is wait until your mom can sit down with you, talk in a soft voice, and use I-messages, "I feel . . . when . . ." NOT "You . . .". That sounds accusatory. Listen and maintain eye contact when she speaks. Emphasize you want to reach an agreement that works for both of you. EDIT--There's also the possibility she doesn't like your friends or your friends have been disrespectful to her or she perceives them as disrespectful.
Why is my mom always rude and mean to my friends?
So I have my friend over that I haven't seen in a couple of months, and I fell asleep while my mom was cleaning. My mom walked over and asked me to help by folding the towels, and my friend casually told her that I was asleep. My mom stomped over and woke me with her stomping, and glared at where I was waking, and snarled at my friend, "whatever!" then started throwing things around the room like she was cleaning but she was just storming around because she was angry.. That isn't the only thing she does though.. I had some friends over two days ago, and we were all riding our golf cart, and one of my friends was driving when one boy riding behind her screamed. So she turned around to see what had happened, and the golf cart went up on the curb. A couple of ours later, when we were sitting in our livingroom, my mom came in and started chewing her out and saying, "you always have to watch where you're going, you can't drive the golf cart anymore because that is unacceptable!" even though she has crashed the golf cart before several times.. I have tried to talk to her about it before, and none of my friends want to ever be around her. But my mom just says that I'm being disrespectful when I bring it up.. Just please help.
My mom hates my Best Friend?
what does your friend do to make your mom think that she is rude? If your friend is being rude, then you should talk to her about it and have your friend act the way your mom expects whenever she goes to your house. Afterall, it is your mom's house and she has the right to expect respect...and if you're not sure what it is, then you should ask your mom what it is that bugs her about your friend. Make sure you let your mom know why you love your friend so much...and whenever you get the chance slip in some positive stories about your friend, so that your mom has the opportunity to understand why this friendship is so important to you...and perhaps then she will begin to accept your friend. Good luck