My mom won't let me do ANYTHING !?
Ok so I'm in highschool and my mom dosent let me do anything. ! I barley have friends because when I make friends and they want me to hang out I have to say no, and I get embarrassed because my mom dosent let me do anything. She always say I don't know any of your friends but how can you meet them if you never want to let me go places. I do have a boyfriend but my mom dosent want me having a boyfriend so we just "talk" I guess but he's probably the only friend I have and the only person I talk to all the time. She dosent trust me going anywhere with him because she says I'm too young. Last night he invited me to go to a Martin Luther King parade with him and his mom and sister. I went to my moms room and talked to her and asked her and she was like you already know how I feel so ask your dad. As soon as I started talking about it with my dad he immidiatley said " the answer is no, your too young to go out places like that" and so I just went In the kitchen did my chores and went to my room. I didn't even ask why or argued I just walked away. I'm so tired of this i feel so lonely being at home by myself while my sister has all her friends over and her boyfriend. It really hurts and I really don't know what I can do to fix it.
My mom won't let me do anything. I'm 16?
She is STRICT! She won't let me hang out with none of my friends. The only "friend" she let me hang out with is my sister's friend. And that was last year when I was 15. Now all of a sudden she won't let me hang out with her or anybody else; i guess because I'm 16. Out of my whole life, I've only been to the mall or movies about 8-9 times. She tells my sister and I to make fun at home...WHAT FUN CAN WE MAKE?! We don't have nothing in the freaking house. I mean really? Starting when I was 14 years old, my dad of a sudden started say, "go ask your mama". He hadn't said that before. He always let me do whatever I want. I'm planning on to just walking out of the house whenever I please, and whenever I want to hang out with my friends because she's pi$$ing me off! When I get 18, I'm doing WHATEVER I want because guess what?...I'M GROWN! HAHA! lol. But yeah, so my "friend" wants my sister and I to go to the movies and the mall with her, while my little sister go with my "friends" sister to hang out. I'm asking her today. What do you think I should say or ask?..............JUST HELP ME, PLEASE! UPDATE: i just asked my mom can we go with my "friend". She said "yes"...but i still want you guys to help me. Thanks!
I'm 17 and my mom won't let me do ANYTHING!?
I don't get it, someone please enlighten me. My mom always makes me stay in the house. For example, three days ago she asked me if I had any plans and I said "yes, I'm gong bowling monday night with some friends." and she agreed, she's known all weekend. But when I start getting ready, she acts like she forgot about the whole thing.... "No, it's too late, go to bed..." (and it's only 8:00). When she says no it's like talking to a brick wall. Anytime she does let me go out, it take two hours of yelling and fighting to convince her for something as simple as a movie. Anytime my dad's home, he becomes the voice of reason and she lets me hang out. (After trying to make me look bad in front of him and failing.) Otherwise, I'm always stuck at home. It makes me so angry, to the point where I want to break something. My brothers never even ask to go out, they just leave, come back at 2:00 in the morning, and they get talked to, maybe yelled at. they're out of the house now, so it's just me and her. She's not overprotective, just unreasonable. I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment at all. I do okay in school, no drugs or alcohol, no friends that do that stuff either. She doesn't trust her own daughter!! Everyone knows that I make good decisions, would never put myself in a bad situation, but she always asks me if I'm smoking or having sex, and I feel so insulted. She think's I'm such a bad kid!! Hearing that from my mom...just pisses me off sooo bad. I know I have a short time until I graduate, but what am I supposed to do in the mean time? If I keep these feeling bottled in any longer... Or stay in this house any longer, I swear I'm going to explode. I feel like screaming right now... please, give me some good advice.
My mom won't let me do ANYTHING with my hair!!!!?
I've had the same hair for my whole life, and no matter how much I ask and beg my mom to let me do something different to my hair, she tells me I can't. My hair can only be one length and long. No layers, no bangs, NOTHING. I want to get bangs so badly but she won't let me. I HATE my hair and I swear I'll cut it myself if I have to keep the same hair for much longer, which is not something I'd like to resort to considering I've never cut a strand of hair off my head in my life. I want to do SOMETHING with my hair, but how do I convince her? I've been asking her for years and I'm nearly 15.
Im 13 and my parents won't let me do anything! What should I do? );?
Im 13 and my parents wont let me do anything! And its really starting to bother me, and i hate it. Throughout my whole life, i've never been able to hang out with friends or even go over to their houses, i couldnt go to the movies with them...or even the mall. I've never been to a birthday party too. Everytime i asked them, they would answer back NO, it was always like that and it will never change. I cant dye my hair, i cant go to a near by store to buy stuff, or even walk around my own nieghborhood. The only thing i can do is to stay inside the house and do nothing. I know that that they love me and the only reason there doing this to protect me and to keep me from doing bad stuff, but i already know all that stuff. And i would never do anything bad, and they know that. If im hanging with my cousins then there ok with that, but just not with my friends. There just worried that i might get kidnapped or start getting bad grades in school. Another thing they wont let me have is a phone, i mean i can wait for a year or two to be able to get one, but my dad says that i cant get one until im 18 or 19, my mom - 15.All i want is to be able to do stuff that normal teens can do. I cant get anything or do anything until i get older, but i dont want to wait that long! My parents are just too strict and protective of me D: I've been deeply depressed lately and ive been crying too, but i dont know wat to do. So what should i do?
My parents wont let me do anything?
im 14 my moms really the one that wont let me do anything my dad doesnt care -she wont let me go to ANYBODYS house -she wont let me go to the mall or anywhere with my friends i dont do ANYTHING wrong i get almost all a's a few b's i do everything she tells me to i never get in trouble she has no reason to not trust me but she wont let me go anywhere or do anything like at the first of the month my friends mom was throwing a litle halloween party and there was going to be a scavenger hunt and my m om said shell think about it and now she saying no and all this fu** ing crap im gonna do something really bad one day and she cant do anything cause there's nothing she can ground me from what do i do in this situation? it cannot keep going like this or something really bad will happen, im not over reacting im getting really pissed off even depressed but she doesnt care she even told me
My mom wont let me be anything scary for Halloween and I'm always stuck being something simple. what do i do?
You could be a "mad" scientist. Get a wild white wig (Albert Einstein style), a lab coat and big glasses. Put lots of pens in your lab coat pocket. Or, try a "handyman"- tool belt, hard hat, flannel shirt, jeans and work boots. This is an inexpensive costume. Just a few ideas. Nothing scary- just fun and practical.