My mom forgot my birthday.?
You have every right to be upset!! Just say to your mum when she comes back, 'Oh by the way I just wanted to say thankyou so much for the birthday card you gave me yesterday, I had such a good day, everyone made such a fuss and It made me feel so special' And then walk off to ur bedroom. Hopefully if it gets the right effect, ur mum will be so embarresed and feel really bad that she forgot it and didnt bother. Its worth a try anyway! Hope ur ok, and Happy Birthday for yesterday!!
Would you be mad if your spouse forgot your birthday?
Yes my husband did forget my birthday this year. I was at my mothers house with my baby for 6 weeks taking care of her after she had a stroke. My husband was coming down on the weekends as we live about an hour and a half away from my mother. My birthday was on a Saturday and he came down to see me and the baby and never mentioned my birthday, completely forgot. I was very upset because I was exhausted from taking care of my mother and the baby and my father and I just needed to have a special day. Maybe next year.
Today is my birthday and no one wished me "Happy birthday." I feel really sad and unimportant. What can I do to make myself feel better?
First of all, Happy birthday, Dear….!!!!Hope you had thanked god to give you another precious year.As come to your question, Birthday is a thing that makes us excited and happy. But it is not necessary that all have to wish you. Sometimes people forgot the day even I forgot my best friend’s birthday. But that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t important in my life. Even we had spend the entire day of her birthday together and I couldn’t remember that this is the day of her birthday. Still, whenever I am in trouble, my mind recall her name first and same for her’s. This happens sometimes, all have not the great power of mind to remember things.Secondly, others are just temporary in your life. Only your parents will stand besides you whenever you are in trouble. So, why we feel sad for not getting wishes from temporary person.Thirdly, our happiness shouldn’t depends on others. If you want to celebrate your happiness you can celebrate by your own. You can do whatever you want to do by your self from dancing to going alone to restaurant.According to me, One should take a blesses from their own parents by touching their legs on their birthday. Because they gives blesses from their heart. One should thanked god for everything what he/she achieved till now. And make a promise to yourself which you want to change in your life. For instance, If u think you are getting angry easily then you can make promise to yourself of not to get angry easily. This things are more important than fake friends.And if you still feel that the person who are important to you doesn’t wish you then you can simply message them and talk with them as usual. Because its your birthday, do whatever which makes you happy.But don’t be dependent on others for anything. Others are just fake. There are rarely people who will stand by you whenever you want them most except parents and siblings. Never feel shy to do things which makes you happy.And you shouldn't worry about the wishes on social media. If you feel bad that no one had wish you on social media, you can erase your birthday from social media. But you shouldn't affect your happiness by such a little things.
I did not call my daughter on her birthday - is this bad?
Yes, that is bad. You know it is. There may be some clueless people on here that may tell you what you want to hear, but its not going to rid you of the guilt you should be feeling. No matter the circumstances, whether you live in a different country, you have a terribe relationship with the mother, I dont care if its a situation in which you and the ex had agreed to get an abortion, and instead she kept the baby.. you are responsible for your children period. Even if you dont have a close relationship with your 5 yr old daughter, whose fault is that. She shouldnt have to suffer the consequences of you and your ex's decision of you not having visitation. Child support is not enough. Yes it helps the mother with providing for her sometimes, but oftentimes it will go to other things, unfortunately.. the only evidence a child has of whether or not their father really does care, is by the actions their father does. Call every once in a while. Send her a card. Send her a goody basket - ( this is what my biological father did for me who lived 3000 miles away and I never saw).. so no matter what my own mother said, and sometimes she would say some pretty bad things, I always knew that yes, my father did care.
I gave my 16 year old daughter a car for her birthday and she got angry! Anyway on getting her to talk to me?
Change all the locks on all the doors to your house. Make sure no one can get into any of the windows. Then, call your phone carrier and disconnect your daughter's phone. Take her car keys and return the car. Box up all the stuff in her bedroom and stick it in the basement or garage or whatever. Make plans to turn her bedroom into your own private media room or craft room or rent it out for extra income, whatever. Let as many of her friends as possible know you are doing these things so you know the word gets to your daughter. She will probably try to come home while you are at work, which is why you changed the locks. When she can't get in the house she will see that you are serious. Then she will talk to you. YOU ARE THE ADULT she is the child! You are not doing her ANY favors by allowing her to act like this. You need to lay down the law and if she wants to run off to her boyfriend's house you need to report her as a runaway and let the cops know where she is staying. If her boyfriend still lives at home with his parents these people need to understand that your daughter is NOT their child and it is NOT their decision to let her stay at their house and do whatever she wants, by not contacting you and allowing her to stay there they are doing something illegal and seriously messed up. If the boyfriend has his own place then he is too old to be messing around with a 16 year old girl and he needs a lesson in right behavior versus wrong behavior. See that he gets it. Tame your brat or she is going to cause you and herself misery for many years to come. Maybe you ought to send her to live with her grandmother for a bit.
Today is.my birthday and im.crying?????:'(?
I am a very lucky person. And god watches over me. But Idk. This birthday isnt what I wanted it to be. My friends wabted to take me out but my mom said no so they came over my house and surprised me. But then my mom started yelling at me for no reason. Then she cursed me off and said I don't do chores .. I mean its my birthday....my 17th birthday only happens once. Then the guy I love yelled at me bc I Hung up the phone bc he was saying immature things and I was getting hurt. he called me and yelled at me and then Hung up on me. And then I didn't tell anyone of my friends. But since my parents are a little tight on money...actually a lot. My mom said we can't go to red lobster. My dad always charges so he would take me. But i dont want tht to happen so I simply said ok. I really wanted to go. My mom bought me ballons and cake instead. I thknk she's just stressed. It's ok. Then after tht my family is going somewhere to family's. And im home alone. My parents and frienda really do love me. But I'm crying right now. Anything to say.
Would you feel sad if you don't get a cake on your birthday?
Cake??I even cried while cutting cake with mom dad sitting in front of me casting a despair look! !Story. .Actually it was Sept 4 , 2016 when I had one of my NEET patternized exam for which I didn't getta study so far. So when I checked my performance it was just 70% which ofcourse my mom dad couldn't resist to scold me! HELL!!Finally in the evening I got a soothing call from my bestie and she insisted me not to cry or atleast be happy for my upcoming b'day.Finally morning Sept 5 , I was laying in my new when I heard some voices . I could see dad in blurry vision doing something with my phone.“No papa!!” I freaked out. I saved my phone and dad got to work and i kept ignoring him and mom for all the day just to compound the situation! Little did I know that such stupid circumstances may fall upon me!While I was reading about TUTANKHAMUN , I nearly ignited them for the worst of all. My dad started shouting at me.“What will you do of this phone if you don't have manners?”He began choking me by that clumsy device. Mom was just lying down and hell she came in action too.“Kay kehto ho tum ki sadhika ki mummy acche chole banati hain?”Dad- “Dharna de bethke. Ki tu bhi apni mummy ko doctor bana” I was just listening to those creepy persons bursting into tears that even made me cry during cutting the cake! Hell it was!P.S. My mom is a Gynae and Obs. surgeon and dad is an Orthopaedic surgeon. I just love them;)
My parents didn't get me anything for my 16th birthday ... :(?
Yesterday was my bday and I told them that it was my bday so let's go buy something for me and they agreed ... Then we went to this mall and I saw these pair of headphones and told that I want those ... It was like 150$ and they were like that's too expensive buy something for 50$ or something ... + they didn't get a b day cake too ... :( I feel sad And today I asked my dad about the present He scolded me for asking it again ... And told that he won't buy me anything They are not poor they spend money for unnecessary things It's just not fair I don't ask for much ... I don't have any headphones compared to my cousins and friends ...
Parents don't buy me presents for my birthday?
I turned 18 today and to be honest it's been a less than banner day for me. First, my parents never buy me gifts fOr my birthday but usually I see money on the counter or something for me. Last year, I got $60. But this year, I got a hug from my dad and then an acknowledgement from my mom. That's it. Nothing more. I thought I'd get something later but it's night now and all Ive gotten was that hug. By no means am I spoiled either. I've never asked for anything really. I have never had a computer and my dad won't buy me a laptop until I graduate. I don't have a tv or a nice phone. I know my parents are in financial strain right now (my mom is draining money) but they still make a total of over 130,000$ a year. It's frustrating because I didnt want anything big. A card or even a candy bar would've sufficed. It just makes me upset that I didn't get anything. Like it makes me feel as if I'm not really worth anything. I dunno I'm sorry if this sounds so stupid I was just wondering what I should do. I'm thinking about buying myself my own gift and trying to be happy with that. My friends brought me tons of baked goods today and even a cake or something from my mom would've been nice. Plus it's my 18th and I thought that deserved at least some special recognition.