My boyfriend spends all his free time on the computer...?
Been in your situation EXACTLY... he and I broke up. He has a problem, I did internet research... and there are many people addicted to the online gaming thing right now. I could not take it. I hated being second in his life. We never talked and when we did it turned into an argument about that stupid game. What broke us up though was when I email his guild master... and told him that he ha signed up for some instance run or something... but it was my birthday and we made plans so he would not be on that night. Well, his guild master talked to him about it... and long story short COMPLETELY twisted my words. I even showed my boyfriend the email I sent... and he still took their side. It was over. If you are willing to hang in there, then remember it only gets really bad before it gets better. My ex and I dated for 3 1/2 years. I have come to realize that life is too short to waste like that, if you don't see it getting better move on. It took my ex a year to finally say he made a mistake... and at that point it was too late for me. I had moved on to someone who treated me like I deserve.
I hate my life, myself and I'm severely depressed. I thank you for even considering reading this.?
You have a co-dependent personality, you fall for someone and you need them to fall back for you to determine your own worth. You have to be careful or you'll just keep going through them left and right. For now just forget about relationships, give yourself a few years break if not more, at least decide that in your head, so the stress isn't there. Spend your time doing your school work, and focusing on that and your personal health, exercise on a regular basis and eat healthy. Everyone has heartbreak stories in their lives, it's totally just the way it goes, if you don't believe me go to the singles and dating section, non-stop "OH they don't love me, I must end it ". I know it hurts, I too have many heartbreak stories, but decide you don't need another person to feel good about yourself and chances are you are very young, and so this stuff plays even more on your mind because of your hormones and just being young in general, it's hard to see how long life really is and how many chances you will get from a young person's point of view. Your not missing anything by not having a relationship, they look all fun, but they aren't, you got good sample of that! Don't let your mind fool you, just wait until you are older and you'll know what you want out of a mate and your chances for long-term success will go up.
I have 14 backlogs in engineering. Should I give up my life?
Well. I had 37 backlogs in my B.Tech (Most of them I grabbed due to my low internal marks). A very few of my college mates (like me ) believed that I could pass. I had a good academic records till my Engineering. But from the 1st day it self during the course, I lacked the path. I don't want to blame my teachers alone for my internals because I had my own part in lowering it :). Many of my friends said me to give up and join any other diploma/course. Some of the papers I wrote more than 3 times and just fail. It was a turning point when my S7 results came. Most of the back benchers passed because it is going to be the end of the Course, but I got most number of backlogs in S7. Even in our farewell meeting teachers were busy asking our class toppers what's next, do this course like that. I sadly thought , “I don't know if I complete my course or not”Till that time I didn't reveal parents about my backlog history. My hall ticket has caught red handed by my Parents. They didn't scolded me, instead motivated by stories inside BIBLE as well as of other great personalities in the world. I really started my course then and with GODs grace and confidence I passed all papers as 37–21, 21–18, 18–2 and 2–0. I passed…….. magical moment for our family and I believed it is one among the best in my life.I was in a computer course by HCL at that time which changed me a lot in terms of personality and technical domain. I tried for many jobs and then I went for servicing PCs at home.At that time one of my friend said that there is some opening in Sutherland Cochin, Kerala, a bpo mnc. I went for an interview there and surprisingly I cleared all the rounds and got job as Technical Consultant.I stayed there for less that one year. After that I have done some certifications, got a job in another company, Admin-ahead. Then I moved to EY (it is hard for me to believe that I got job in Ernst and Young) and then after 4.5 years of experience, moved to IBM as a Technical specialist, stayed there for 2 years and now working with Eurofins, a product based company with decent package and good profileI worked in four MNC, learned many technologies and taken certifications, Earned many best performer awards and created multiple innovative tool sets which is now being used in EY and IBM around the globe.So go forward trusting in GOD (I believe there is only ONE which has no religion), confidence and try, try and try. You will definitely succeed.No one is stopping you from doing things