My parents hate me....?
i have a 13 yr old son and life is hard for you at that age ..but what your parents are doing to you is wrong so wrong that i think you should report it to someone in school like a teacher coz you dont deserve it they are your family and when a woman as children she should treat them all the same you need love and understanding at this tender age all whats going on is not right get help please if you dont you will grow up in to a adult very angry look until you deside what to do treat them real nice make them drinks clean the house trust me theirs a meaning to my madness it gets them thinking brains working im a mum my son done it to me when he was 12 and it worked got me thinking wish you could live with us but to be realistic you deserve better talk to some one about this dont be treated bad by any one takecare of yourself respect yourself get outside help you takecare im here if you need to talk mlodge65@yahoo.com send me a email but allso be safe on line please xxxxxxx
Nothing new or surprising for a teenage. I know it must be hard for you to understand but believe me dear, I have been through that phase and I felt no different (though not exactly same since we lived in different era). This is the time when negativity surrounds you and you start sensing everything against you. That's the teenage, most difficult time for a teenager and parents as well. Let me try to put my views over this. I won't blame you if you make up your mind before even reading my answer and don't try to understand what I intend to say, because that's natural and happens. Nothing's wrong with you. Anyway, teenage is the age of changes. Hormonal changes, school-college transformation, legal rights change, and a foundation to build your career. Believe me, that's not an easy phase. You make your life, you destroy your life or simply keep on living an average life, everything is founded at this phase only i.e the teenage. And you are never unaware of these facts. Thus, without even knowing, a kind of negativity comes around. Have you ever wondered why do your parents keep a watch over? Why don't they let you use phone late nights? Why do they always advise you? Yes, you do wonder but partially in a wrong manner.What if you get into bad company and get some kind of addicted? Your education is not completed yet, so they want you to focus and remain alert. A good and sound sleep is necessary for that and late night surfing won't only disturb your life style but also shift your focus to not so needed stuff. You're 18. I believe you are going to some college. You must have friends there. What do they say? Did you talk to them? Or you feel you're the exception?? Did you ever try to talk to your mother and sort out the things? Probably they are having similar thoughts. Do that once, twice and again. Now coming to you part, you ain't wrong either. Yes personal space is required and all the restrictions are never good if you don't understand them. There is nothing is asking questions. Ask them politely what's wrong and if they are worried for you for any reason, clear it. You surely need a separate room. But you got to ask for it. So get up, keep your head clear, talk to your parents. Explain them your situation. So, you NEED TO TALK.
My parents hate me!?!?!?!?
i don't want to tell much, but i was very depressed and even suicidal at the time i lived with my grandparents while my family (mom,dad and brother) lived in berlin, they didn't knew about me being depressive. My friends helped me at the time, because noone else was there for me. Now 1 year later, i'm living with my family, but my parents yell at me, really often, more than they did ever!!! And my mom and i were shopping recently and she saw my scars (from cutting veins) and asked me, what are those all about? I ended up telling her, that i went through a hard time a year ago and still haven't got completely over it, i hoped she'd understand, but she only started telling me i'm obviously stupid, that if i really would cut one of my veins and if i'd faint, they couldn't afford medical help, she told me "do you know how much that all costs, are you obviously that dumb and immature? " I nearly started crying in the store, i thought that if i tell her, she would be there for me, and would do everything she can to help me, but instead she said "if you ever start cutting again, we'll send you to live with your grandparents" I'm sorry if my english seems bad, i just wrote as fast as i could, cause i'm really upset with my moms reaction. And if they really will send me back to my grandparents to my hometown, then i'll probably commit suicide, i just don't want to go back there. :'( noone cares.
Do my parents hate me?
Over the course of the past several years I noticed that my parents often treated me way differently than my other brothers. For instance, I would get punished harshly for something my other brothers wouldn't get punished at all for. I cant talk to them about it because whenever I bring it up they brush it off as me trying to manipulate. Recently I had been accused of using the answer key for my homework at school, they just said they wanted to clear things up by having a meeting after school. When my Mom heard of this she instantly was almost siding with the side of I cheated, but I hadn't cheated at all. She looked through my graded homework and checked the answer key and found that a few were similar. Every time I attempt to talk to them or share my feelings they literally don't give a ****. I cant do anything, I starting to think they actually hate me. They always think I'm manipulating in every circumstance when I bring up this matter, and it frustrates me. How do I even talk to them? I try to talk to my dad too, but he is practically impossible to talk to due to his high temper. IT eventually leads to him getting pissed, or just punishing me. They both always side with each other, and always think their right and I'm wrong. I literally don't get a single opinion in anything. It's annoying and I don't know how much more of this I can handle.
My parents hate me. what can i do?!?
Yes! You're proper. Father and mother are the final to be taught that existence is alright to reside just as it is. They want you to excel them in employment, they sacrificed so much so that you can grow to be higher than them, but when all is claimed and executed...It is your existence. Simplest which you could be who you choose to be. Besides, janitor receives a commission just right cash. It's the popularity of the job: just much less for father and mother to brag about to their friends. If that you could help aid your family, you go for it. Keep existence easy..You'll be able to experience it extra...Your men and women will too when they have an understanding of they have got extra time to spend with their grandchildren and you. I guess, some sacrifices are valued at making. Special query! Your mum and dad will get over it...Will you?
It's possible, but unlikely.Ironically, parents who dislike their children can seem "cool" and "easy." They don't much care what you do as long as you're not immediately causing them trouble.Parents, especially more traditional and strict parents, sometimes seem to hate their kids. Sometimes, when we;re trying to make our children "good," we alienate them by going overboard: yelling, criticizing, acting dismissive. This parental behavior can develop into a rut. We may not even notice our irrational behavior.If you are experiencing this sort of problem, try this. During a quiet moment remind them of their better nature. Make them laugh and smile with you. Then explain how you feel.
My parents hate me, do you?
sometimes there are things you can't understand until your 40. this one is easy to see, but will be hard to understand. everybody is seeking attention, in some way. the brainiacs do by getting good grades, the jocks do by playing sports. you do too, except your getting negative attention. bad attention. your parents don't hate you, but they may hate you actions. i don't hate you, because you are me at that age. the good news is you can fix this, but you wont like it, here it is pick different friends, ones who don't get in trouble. just tell your old friends your busy. do homework, reread assignments, save tests and quiz's to prep for more of the same never miss or be late for school, set quiet in class, don't speak unless spoken to by teacher clean and declutter you room. when not studing school work, study something for yourself: computer programming, french, ect if you do this your reputation will soar, your parents will be proud, and you will have learned the most important things, you can accomplish anything, and how to get results you will definately have a better selection of girlfriends
Many teenagers have this illusion with them in influence of that they feel that my parents hate me. There are certain reasons of having this breach between you and your parents:YOUR DEVELOPMNT CHILD TO TEENAGERMany people talk about children perspective when they are forbidden to do something by their parents. Single no for many things leads teens to think , oh my parents are not allowing me to do what I like , may be they hate me.”In this impression of mind you need to introspect for your own asking and demands.GENERATION GAPEvery spin of time change brings new thinking and ways of approaching to things that always occurs in form of old versus new age and perspectives.This mismatched weavelenght of thoughts put two opposite directions.If you says yes probably your parents say no.You will have to bring equillibrium of perspectives. So that things could become less difficult to you.ACTING HATE TO IMPROVE YOUMany times children are very pampered and protected however when they step into teenage parents want to make them independent and strong, so they put some challenges in their way. May be they use harsh language to hit or shake you from inside that could break your intense love towards them and make you focus for new friends and world ahead.BITTERNESS IS SWEETDont rely always which is apparent as they are your parents no one can know you better than you. If they speak bitter word doesn't mean they don't love you or hate you. No parents give birth to hate their child instead they want you to craft as strong human which could be indifferent to cruel and wicked people in world, who are you going to have in your life path.Once you digest this apparent bitterness of your parents you will learn big lesson, how to deal with negative and bitter. Everything is not positive and everyone wont love you. Learn initial lesson of this from parents.WAY OF LOVING TO YOU HAS BEEN ALTEREDWhen you were a kid your parents used to cuddle you, kiss you, take you in lap though once you start growing this physical touch might be vanished that may be germinate this poisonous seed of misconception that your parents hates you.Ways of love only has changed not your parents.So before clinging to any form of thought think well.