My dad hit me really hard. And he left a mark, but do you think he meant to?
So i got into trouble for knocking a glass off of the counter, so my dad hit me really hard on my arm. I know i got in trouble, but he left a mark on my arm because right now its purplish. Do you think he meant to hit me that hard? Would you tell your mom about it? PS: I'm 13
My brother hits me and parents dont care?
my brother is 14 and i am 12. he bossses me around and when i say know to something he hits me. It really really hurts he also swears at me but this a only when my parents aren't around. Every time they go out or when we come home from school. i try not to cry or walk away because then he will case me and hit my door as hard as he can he also yells to try to scare me and it works. About 4 days ago he hit my shoulder and there was a small bruise and i told my mom and showed her the bruise and she said nice try but i know you do stuff too. All i do is tell him no and not do things he wants me to. Whenever i try to tell my parents and they ask him about it he says he didn't do it and they believe him because he is older. I really need some help to make this stop. Thank you so much
Hi I’m a 13 year old girl and my parents still hit me with the belt multiple times really hard that it give me welts on my legs. They always hit me for the littlest things. What should I do?
I am so sorry this is happening to you. But you have some choices and are not alone!Have a plan.Work on having your exit strategies. You need at least 3:24 hour strategy (Is there a friend who will let you stay with them if things get difficult?Long term strategy (Can you stay with cousins or Aunts until graduation?)Permanent move strategy( Can you get authorities to get you into protective housing, or even can you sue for independence?)If you have access to a cell phone, you have a way to build a case for law enforcement to protect you and get you into a safe environment if needed. Whenever they call you into the room, turn your cell phone on near the floor by the door or somewhere not on you. You don’t want it to fall out during the beating. Keep a diary of the incidents.Back these up elsewhere and have other people have copies just in case the take your phone from you! Don’t have a jump drive? No problem. Send an e mail to your self of the videos or send them to Google Drive. Just have them scattered so you can get to them somewhere else from your usual phones and computers.Get in touch with someone asap in town you can talk to. There is a crisis line that is very helpful. The number is below.Child Abuse - Youth Yellow Pages - TEEN LINEChild Abuse Resource CenterMy mother was just as violent, and it is no where near as effective in the span of your life, than people in society have been trained to think, especially in ethnic communities.As soon as you can, start stashing cash. More importantly, have a record of where that cash came from! Babysat? Make a notebook and have receipts signed by the parents so you avoid questions of where you got it from.Be prepared for anything!I don’t know what it is with our culture with teenagers struggling and reaching out for help, but sometimes they will try to paint you as the villain.YOU ARE NOT THE BAD GUY!!!!! The days of hitting children in a world that is asking for more peace is no longer acceptable.I wish you peace and blessings, honey, and I will spread the word to have people pray for you!
My mom hit me on my head Hard?
i am 13 and my b**ch A** Mom started screaming and hit me in the head i always obey her at all time but she kept screaming and hitting me i told her one more time she hit me i will call cops and she said go ahead you dirty boy ( i am not) so i try to get the phone i dial 9-1-1 but didn't not call i just got nervous and put the phone down Any way instead calling the cops note:( if some of you think i am a troll i am not!
My dad just hit me, what do I do?
Unfortunately, your question is very generic without possible extenuating details, working with that, watch for triggers that anger him and always have an exit strategy, do not get cornered, if your mother is in the picture, where is she in all this? If it is bad enough, are you prepared to go into foster care? Is there another family member you can reach out to and possibly reside with? If you are female, do not make the mistake of leaving with the first man that will have you. Try finding activities outside the home, like volunteering or sports, maybe church to help lessen time there. It is a very difficult situation, and you will live with the repercussions the rest of your life, let it shape you into a better person, do not follow in his footsteps, and realize that you can not control another’s anger, only your own. Work on making yourself a better, self sufficient person to get out of this situation in a good way..
My dad just hit me what do i do?
do i call the non emergency police # or what do u think i should do he always say im not his daughter anymore im a little fckin ***** and all this other bull crap i dont derve im tired of it and my mom is like that as well.. ive tried running away and i dont know what to do at this poing.. is it illegal to hit a 13 year old girl with a broom 3 times he hit my very hard at my arm hurts really bad his he hit my elbow and my stomache and stuff.. what should i do.. or i mean.. wut would u do if u were me??
My mom just hit me?????
I was answering back to my stepdad because he was yelling at my brother for his grades and telling him he was useless and that instead of being in that old piece of crap xbox he should be working his *** off. He also called our dad a lazy a$$ and my brother started crying. I answered back saying "YOu old fatso. Stop getting in on us. You are not part of our family, and never will be. I am tired of you always mistreating my brother. Get a life already. Eff off" Please understand, my brother is the only person I feel overproctive over. There was the old dude standing yelling at him and insulting him, and he was crying looking at me with puppy eyes. I had to defend him. Im tired of him. The thing is, my mom heard and she came and slapped me. After that I walked out with my things. Right now Im at a friends. Please help.. dont know what to do. My moms been calling me on my phone leaving messages like im sorry. Im shocked. Shes never done this before. Specially sticking up for someone that was being mean to her child!
My dad hits me. Is this just/okay?
There are no circumstances where it's "just" or OK for your father to hit you. The best advice I can give under the circumstances are to do what he said—contact Childline. You (and your family) need some counseling so that issues can be worked out so that something like this never happens again.It's not you, and it's not about getting a ride to school.Warning: Upcoming anecdote!When I was in high school (USA) I had a friend whose father thought that hitting my friend was an appropriate way to get his point across. One day I was at my friend's house and he was arguing with his father. His father slapped him, and my friend fell back against some furniture.At this point I should pause to point out that my friend was 16, and had grown to be much taller and heavier than his father. The father was about 5' 8" tall (172cm) and my friend was at least 6" (15cm) taller. I don't think my friend's father considered this at the time.You might guess the rest. My friend got up and punched his father very hard in the face. His father was knocked back several feet into a wall, which he then slowly slid down to the floor. He did not immediately get back up.My friend and I left the house. Over time (not just because of this one incident) my friend's parents got divorced, and my friend didn't have much interaction with his father after that.
Why does my mom hit me so hard?
Dear OP, the answer from Ran B is a bad answer. Not everybody got hit as a child. I don't think it makes you a better person.I don't think your mom should hit you. It's true that in some cultures, people think it’s normal to hit kids as a punishment.I don't know why your mom hits you. I don't know if she loses her temper, or if she's trying to discipline you.I don't think parents should hit their kids for any reason. There are more effective ways of disciplining kids. Hitting has all kinds of bad effects on kids.That's my opinion.Since you wrote anonymously, can you tell more about what's going on? You can edit the question to explain a little more. How often does she hit you? How does it happen?It's hard to give you advice without knowing more about the situation.You can talk to your teacher or the social worker or guidance counselor at your school. If you do, they will be legally required to contact the agency called Child Protective Services.If someone at school makes a report to CPS, they will do an investigation to see what's going on in your family.EDIT: As soon as I get some sleep, I’ll share what I've read about the effects of corporal punishment on children.EDIT 2:Two big effects:It often causes kids to be more physically aggressive throughout their lives.It creates an association between love and fear.I'm sorry for not following up more thoroughly…I don't have a computer at home, and it's not a good idea to do it at work.Source: UNICEF (A report about abuse of children in India with quotes from the Indian Constitution opposing corporal punishment.)I really will research this topic more and post links.
My mom hits me a lot for no reason:(?
My mom hits me and I'm 12, she hit me very hard especially today... I don't want to send her to jail:( I don't want to break the family, I have a baby brother and he needs my mom, although he gets hit to sometimes but I get more. So I was supposed to walk to my friends house right after school. We were so excited to walk together to her house and then go to the park together after we finish homework.when we finally walk out of school I see my mom waiting in the car... My friend was right beside me. So I thought that maybe she wanted to give me like a sandwich or something to not cause any trouble for them giving me food and stuff. But I was wrong.my mom said sit down and were going home. I was like speechless! A day ago my friend was in my house and her mom came to get her and her mom said that shed love it if I would come to their house. And my mom smiled and agreed she said yes. Sh just told me to sit down and left my friend there, my friend said but she was supposed to go to my house... And my mom said well too bad because she will have to go home and do homework and study all day. how could she do that?! When we got home, I went to my room and I started crying so much and so loud because of what happened after schhool. She got tired of me.So she went in my closet, took one of th empty cloth-hangers and it was one of these hard plastic ones, threw me on the floor, lift my leg up and started hitting my butt really bad! I screamed "No no no no, I'm sorry! I'm sorry mom!" she kept doing it harder though:( then she said "Why don't you shut the front up for once!? Fag!?!?" and I cried so bad I was almost thinking of taking my blackberry and calling the police but I felt so bad that I said "no" to myself. I felt like SUICIDING:( I said sorryyyy let go please mommy ! :( I threw her on the bed, and ran to the bathroom, then I pulled my pants down and checked if I have any marks... I Had about 8 big bumps on my butt it hurt so bad! I was crying so much! What do I do!?:(