What should I do if my older sister is annoying?
Did you ever consider she is paying it forward for what she tolerated as the older child? I am the eldest child and only daughter and I was a single child for over 9 years before my first brother was born - I had the sole concentration of both parents for 9 YEARS! I was very relieved to finally have a sibling and effectively escaping the concentrated eagle eyes of my parents some of the time. However, being the eldest, it fell to me to help reinforce the level of parenting I had received and seemingly, my two much younger brothers were being denied...My mother vowed she would quit with three because each one got more able to "drive her crazy" so I was elected to fill in as "second" mother and I took the role seriously. I was more strict than she and more vigilant and drove my brothers crazy with being on top of every action they did. Maybe your sister is simply filling a void she accepts is not being handled and in her need to do well, she is over-doing it.Give her a little leeway and step back before you threaten, scream or take action. Annoying is synonymous with sibling. Accept your fate and inwardly smile. Unless your sister is doing you physical or severe mental harm, it actually comes from a place of love and concern (in 99% of cases) and she just may not realize how annoying she is. Try to talk to her in a non-threatening tone and, if need be, take the higher moral ground and be more mature than she. If that goes awry, you should be able to talk to your parents about your feelings and again - be mature, don't whine or scream at them but rather talk quietly and honestly and try to make your point calmly and openly. It might not work but what have you lost if you try? Humans are born to annoy unless helped to curb the instinct so try diplomacy before declaring war or "freezing" them out.
My Sister is a Tattle-Tale and i need some help?
well, im in highschool and i have a sister the same age of me. She is always tries to get me in trouble and is super annoying and is a snitch. im not allowed to take my ipod to school and one day it was dead and so i tried to charge it at knight and me sister made a big fuss saying that i could charge it in the morning and said in GIANT SARCASTIC TONES, its not like ur going to take it to school tommorow and then i charged it anyways and the next day i went to find it to find that it was gone and i found it in my sisters room under some toys and i put it in my room later after school she came up to me and said i know u took it cuz i looked all over ur room and i couldnt find it and im telling mom can someone tell me how to deal with her cuz shes such a nosy person and in my house, we dont swear and stuff like that and its super annoying\ thanx
How can I deal with my tattle tale older sister?
My sister is in her twenties, lives at home at really doesn't have that much of a life. When ever I say something she doesn't approve of she has to run and tell my parents what I said. How can I deal with her?
What do you think of "Tattle Tales,"?
Nobody likes a tattletale. We don't allow it. I don't tolerate, "mommmm cooper looked at me funny. he crossed his eyes at me! tell him to stop it!" me: Cate, he's 5 months old...he doesn't even know what he's doing...you are tattling. She was getting mad because her baby brother was staring at her! He was probably passing gas, not trying to make you mad! That's obnoxious and silly and i won't have it. Now if someone is hitting you, saying rude things to you, bullying you...then they need to be told on. I am not going to have my 13 year old niece beating on my 4 year old daughter(or my 4 year old daughter beating on my 1 year old son, etc...older hitting on younger either way) and i think that kids should always be taught when to tell and when to not tell and to not be afraid to tell. There was a little girl at my pre-k that i didn't teach but this little kid kept biting her and her mom kept finding these bite marks and told her to tell the teacher but she wouldn't because the teacher told her to not tattle and she thought telling on a kid was tattling...so i think you definitely have to be careful with how you classify the two to kids.
How Do I Deal With My Stupid Little Sister?
My little sister is annoying my brother can control her with punches because he's 16 and shes 10. When i push even a little she thinks i punched her with ground smashing force although she knows it isnt because she'll just lie about it. My sister is a tattle tale, a liar, a brat(crys for stuff while no one else gets it),stupid ( im 2 years older and shes says right into my face that shes smarter)(also im in gifted & talented)(not bragging),doesent know when to quit, a sabotuer(destroys my stuff) favored by parents so that she gets away in every situation, likes to play neopets, and a big jerk she hits me and runs when she gets to mom she lies and says i punched her. HELP WANTED