Should I let my boyfriend go clubbing with his mates?
Should you?! That’s funny.In a healthy relationship, each of you should have time to hang out with your friends, have alone time and of course have time together. There shouldn’t be any ‘allow him to’ anything, you are not his mother nor his wife. Even my wife cant tell me what I can and cannot do. All she can share is any displeasure if I go somewhere she doesnt like. Like Brazil, my wife does not want me to go there with my mates because the chance of getting in trouble is high. I can go if I want but for her (and my sanity) I wont.So, you should let your man do what he wants because you trust him and he will not do you wrong. IF anything in this sentence is incorrect, you have a bigger issue.
I'm not invited to my soon-to-be-step mom's bachelorette trips and party & I'm v hurt. Am I over reacting?
I'm going to assume she didn't intend to hurt you by not including you - she is an adult, whether she is younger than you parents or not, and does have a responsibility to protect you from things that are for adults only. As another answer already stated, Vegas is no fun if your under 21 anyway. While you may have enjoyed a spa treatment for a few hours, you'd be in the room a lot, and stuck with drunk old ladies the rest of the time. All that being said, even if she didn't intend to hurt you or mislead you, I can see how she did. I can certainly see how you thought you would be invited, and how it must feel to suddenly realize you are not. I hope you tell her this - not just your dad - and give her a chance to at least make you feel less hurt. She probably didn't even realize she was being insensitive with all the excitement of planning. Hopefully the other trip is a better fit and she can include you. But, if she can't, just remember - you probably won't want her along for your bachelorette party either ... She'll be to OLD!
Person aways mysteriously forgetting to invite me?
All my friends decided this year to join student gov in my college, but I can't because I already have a position in my own club and the school madates that you can only hold one position. But anyway I still go into the office to hang out with them and their new friends often. But there's one girl who always starts facebook events like movie nights and daytrips and whatnot with my entire group. But the thing is, she never invites me. The last time she made a labor day celebration event and didn't invite me I decided to make one of my own and invite HER (which she didn't come to because "her dog had burs in his fur". After that I got an invitation to hers. But now she's hosting a halloween party and invited over 20 people. She obviously doesn't like me, but in my opinion they were MY friends for three years before she even met them and she just needs to understand that I come with the package and she can't just pick and choose who is in the group, ESPECIALLY since she's the newest member. Of course, I haven't said a word to anyone about this because they all seem to really like her, and I'm thinking about bringing this up with my best friend. Agree? Disagree? Opinions?
I don't like clubbing!!!?
I absolutely do NOT like clubbing, I never go to night clubs. -.- Firstly I dont like seeing ******* half naked bitches rolling on the floor & ******* drunk dudes flirting w/ every girl in the room, Secondly, I dont like the knd of music thats playing in most night clubs ( i mostly listen to metal), & lastly, I HATE dancing. By the way im 18, female & about to go to college.. so my quastion is~ how the hell am i going to make friends in college if im not willing to go out w/ them? I'm basically looking for friends that will wanna hang out at the park or something, or someone i can go to gigs with, but the problem is tht the majority of people are into clubbing & stuff like that so what **** do i do :|
Friends forgetting you exist?
It's a bummer when your considered best friends turn back on you (and sometimes stab you also) for no apparent reason. In your statement, you feel hurt because your friends opted to go without even considering your feelings. Your feelings are understandable. But the question still remains - would you still consider them friends and forget this episode or end your relationship with them? Whatever you chose, you should have spend some time thinking about it. It is also best if you ask your friend's side of the story and make your decision. About the second statement - if you have no apparent friend or companion in school - maybe its best to find some time alone and reflect on your life, considering your last statement that you hated your life. Find some happy moments that occured to you during this period and at the same time think some ways to find some interesting things to do.
I've been invited to a party. I want to go, but I'm afraid. I'm a shy introvert and can't talk to people. What should I do? Apparently I should do things that scare me in order to cure myself of my introversion.
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My mom thinks I'm weird for not liking clubs?
I'm 22 female and I hate clubbing. I hate the loud music, the sleezy guys trying to get with you, feeling you up all night, everyone dancing so close that it gets so hot you feel like you're going to pass out. Everyone gets drunk and acts so stupid. I'd rather spend my saturday night at the movies or a friends house or something. My mom told me I should go out tonight with some friends. When I told her I'd rather go to see a movie with them, she rolled her eyes and sniggered at me for not going to a bar or club. Just because she considers it "normal" for someone my age and probably thinks I'm being a loser for not doing that stuff. Now I'm almost afraid to ask my friends to go to the movies tonight because I don't want my mom thinking of me as a loser as I'm going out the door. What should I do?