Had sex with my sister/I feel constant guilt?
Anonymous because my identity is displayed on here, but from the time I was 15 to 16 my half sister (a year younger) and I would have sex whenever I visited our father. I must start by saying that my father is not a good man and I never wanted to visit him because before the events with my half sister occurred, my father was the only person who touched me sexually. My mother made me visit him because she was on drugs and needed to drop her kid off on someone so she didn t have to feel guilty. I never told anyone about my father, but I know he touched my half sister in the same way and we even shared a room when I was over and I honestly feel that my father, being a sick person, actually wanted something to happen. So one night my sister and I were feeling angsty and sexually repressed, so we had sex. We did it every time I was out for almost a year and we did it hard and angry and it was so unhealthy. I feel sick because I still get aroused when I think about it, and I cringe at the thought of opening up to anyone about this, even though I probably should. Well, we finally got caught one night by my then-stepmother/her mom, and she threw me out, told my mother, and threatened to contact the authorities. My father got arrested sometime later for beating his wife and they found child porn, so I feel nothing over that. But I m 21 now and I haven t talked to my half sister since and don t honestly want to see or talk to her and I haven t had a healthy relationship since then.
My brother wants to marry my step-daughter?
I am 20 and my wife is 43 and has a 24 year old daughter. My brother is 31 and he wants to marry my step-daughter. They both love each other a lot and just told me and my wife yesterday that they've liked each other for 2 years already. They told us they kept it a secret from everyone for 2 years because they thought the idea of it was embarressing. They thought it out and they both want to get married. They plan on getting married in two months. Is that even legal?, even if they're not related to one another they are still family. It's like an uncle marrying his niece. They can do whatever they want because they're old enough to make they're own choices but should I try to talk them out of getting married or let them do it?
Why do step moms hate their step children? I’m 14 and my stepmom and I are close and I told her that she’s my real mom as far as I’m concerned.
In my case, it's simply because I'm very much like my mother - looks, mannerisms, personality, etc. When I was young, after 15 years of marriage my mom divorced my dad so she could be with another man. My dad was devastated and willing to try anything to save the marriage because he saw my mother as his soul mate. After several years of being alone, dad remarried. While he loved my stepmother, it wasn't the same great passionate relationship for him that it was for my stepmother. Dad was always asking me how my mom was doing. When mom lost her job, he even tried to send me home with extra money to help her out with her bills. Not fully understanding adult relationships and the family dynamics at the time, I didn't see how jealous my stepmother was of my mom. She was nice to me only when my dad was with us. I kept trying to be helpful, upbeat and complimentary of my stepmom. One day after she once again treated me like crap, I cried and asked her directly, "Why don't you like me?" She looked me straight in the eye and said, "I don't like you and I never will because you remind me of your mother. I HATE your mother." At that moment I realized there was nothing I could do and quit trying. All of the pieces of the puzzle I'd been trying to figure out for the past few years came together. Sadly, my dad was killed in a car accident shortly after. I haven't seen my stepmother since and have no desire to do so.
Do your stepkids go to church with you?
My brother and I are from our dads first marriage. He and our mom divorced when we were both small and we weren't brought up with a religion. Our dad got married 4 years ago and started going to church and turned into a completely different person. Now he has issues with people he never had issues with before (gay friends and family) and has even become a lot stricter with us to the point of being mean at times. He especially doesn't like that we don't go to church with his new family. And it's frustrating. We're 16 (my brother) and 15 (me) and we have no interest in becoming religious or going to church. Thankfully, our mom has custody of us and says we don't have to go. But yesterday my stepmother called me and said we were extremely rude for not going to church with them and said most non-religious stepkids go to please and obey their parents. Is this true? Do your stepkids go? Would you want them to go if you know they'll be bored/uninterested?
What do you call your grandma's sisters's daughter's daughter?
Your grandma's sister's your second aunt or great aunt her daughter is your second cousin and I assume that your second cousin daughter is your third cousin.
Step mom treats me differently?
This is unfortunatley quite common. Try to ignore her as best you can until you grow alittle older and can think of a solution-the problem is that things arent so clear to you at the moment (and theres not NEARLY enough information here for ANYONE to make a truthful answer). Try to ride it out and ignore her as best you can-perhaps shes jealous becuase you get attention from your dad. Shell come around. Maybe you ought to talk to your dad about it-see what he can do. Good luck and hope eveyrhting works out :) x
Why does my dad care more about his step kids then his own biological ones?
I'm 17. I live with my dad and step mom. They've been married for a year. She has 3 kids that are in their 20's. My 20 yr. old sister decided to visit us (she lives in a different state) for a week. The entire week, she only spends it with me. My dad and his wife just go out every night with her step son and his girlfriend. Like last night, they all went out to a bar to drink. They didn't even want to spend time with us and money isn't an issue. My dad didn't want to spend time with my sister. He just leaves with his wife and spends time with her or her kids. My dad hasn't seen her in almost 2 years. Apparently, listening to his step daughter whine and complain about her exboyfriend and new dating life is more important than spending time with his own biological daughter that he hasn't seen in 2 years. Why does my dad care more about his step kids then his own biological ones?