I'm surrounded by very stupid people. How can I cope with the frustration I feel every day?
When you are truly smarter than everyone around you things can be really difficult. If you are not a good person, then you could play and toy with them, as other suggested. But then why would you ask the question you asked? If you (as you say) are smart enough you probably already came to this conclusion and is both morally and intellectually capable of doing it. But if you are smart and a good person, life gets really tough. Because caring about them and trying to relate with them can lead to disagreements, they don't understand your actions and you don't understand why they can't see something that is clearly reasonable for you.If it's your family, they think you're wrong. If it's someone you really care and love, they get hurt and think you are to blame. And by the end you can be feeling hurt, lonely and becoming frustrated and resentful.As time goes, maybe someday you will think that it's better for you and for them to not relate with people anymore. To create distance between you and people; it will hurt less if you care less.But I think, everyone who is smart (and was in the past) go through this, some more intensively than others. Remember that Caring and Love is, maybe, your best virtue and not a burden. This experience will make you more mature, more wise, smarter. Eventually your life, if you keep effort, will lead you to be surrounded by smart people too. And those who didn't understand back then, most of them would be capable of understanding now and those who stopped maturing, well, by the time even you would accept that not everyone make it in life and is their fault only. For now, you should be patient. Be reserved too. Don't stop caring, time will make things right if you keep on track. If you are young, study what you love and be good at it, so in the future you can be surrounded by smart people that are good in the subject. If you're not, join a club that shares your uniques interests, probably it would be full of smart people too. By the end of the day, do something immersive that you like, maybe watch series, read a book or do cooking. Remember, you are smart, you can make it. Wish you the best.
I can't stop eating the skin around my nails and inside my mouth. What can I do to stop?
I will tell you what worked for me: disgust. I used to be an epic nail-biter, to the point that my nails and cuticles were all chewed down about as far as it was possible to chew, and my mother entreated me to “at least give your nails a chance to grow past the cuticle.” I did not, and I remained oblivious to all attempts to change my nail-biting until one day, in my fifth grade classroom, I took my saliva-soaked, chewed-ragged, bleeding fingers out of my mouth and happened to catch a good look at them, and I was so disgusted by the sight that it struck me like a lightning bolt: “I will never bite my nails again.” And I never have. So my advice would be: get disgusted.
You humans disgust me?
It came to me when I tried to classify your species and I realized that you aren’t actually mammals. Every mammal on this planet instinctively develops a natural equilibrium with its surrounding environment, but you humans do not. You move to an area and you multiply, and multiply until every natural resource is consumed. The only way you can survive is to spread to another area. There is another organism on this planet that follows the same pattern. Do you know what it is? A virus. Human beings are a disease, a cancer of this planet. You are a plague, and we... are the cure.
My boyfriend is disgusted by my period?
So I've been with this guy for four years now and we have sex often, but he's got issues with my period. I understand that many guys would prefer to not have sex with a girl when she's on her period but my boyfriend seems to be on a whole other level. First off we can't even call it my period - it has to be referred to as "my friend." Secondly, even the sight of a wrapped tampon freaks him out. Then tonight we were going to have sex - it was the first night I was finished with my period and he asked "is your friend gone?" and knowing how the last day of your period can be (sometimes you think it's gone and it's not) I sorta hesitated to say "yes" and he freaked out and got mad at me. Said I was lying to him and trying to talk him into having sex while I was on my period. I just feel like its almost offensive and definitely immature how grossed out he is by it. I was just wondering if anyone has ever been with a guy that was this bad about their period? P.S. We are both around 22 years old - I just feel like at this age he should be a little bit more comfortable with the whole period thing. Makes me nervous about what he'll be like if we ever decide to have kids and he's gotta be in the delivery room...
Why does the thought of a penis disgust me?
I'm bisexual, but not a lesbian. I'm attracted to guys almost as much as I'm attracted to girls, but when I think about a penis, and having sex with any guys; I gag. I would rather have a boyfriend to kiss and cuddle with, and I would also rather have a girlfriend to have sex with, but I don't know why.
I had gay sex with my cousin. Now, I'm disgusted with myself. I lost my virginity to my cousin, but I would do it again. What should I do?
I'm a 16 year old boy and my cousin is a 15 year old boy. Two days ago, me and my cousin were talking about porn and sex. Then both of us got naked to see who's penis was bigger. Then we sat next to each other while we watched porn on the computer. He told me not to make fun of him for asking this and he asked if we could cuddle. We were already sitting shoulder to shoulder naked so I didn't see anything wrong with it and I said yes. We were extremely close to each other now and we were both hard. Without asking he started stroking my penis. It felt good so I didn't stop him in fact I started stroking his penis. At this point he admitted to being bi. I admitted that I'm bi curious. He asked me to have gay sex with him and without even thinking I said yes. He got really close to me and started hugging and kissing me and his penis was rubbing against mine. Then I got on my hands and knees and I told him to have his way with me. He put his penis in my butt and he started thrusting and he grabbed my penis and jetted it off until I ***. He continued for a long time then he *** in my butt. Then he put his penis in my mouth for a while and he *** in my mouth and I swallowed every bit of it. Then we started making out and his penis rubbed mine again. I lost my virginity to my guy cousin. Now I'm disgusted with myself but at the same time I would let him do it again and again. My cousin is the only thing I can think about. What should I do? Please help
I feel disgusted when guys touch me?
Yesterday I was hanging out with my guy friend when he decided to find my ticklish spot, he tickled me, but couldnt find my ticklish spot so he decided to feel my neck by touching it, like at the back of my neck, he touched it with his bare fingers slowly and pressed hardly. I wonder what the sh*t was that? But most of all, I felt so irritated and disgusted, just when he tickled me, I just want to get far away from him. He was touching my neck and I told him to stop it, but he didn't, he was like violating my personal space. I felt so disgusted, i covered my neck and just want to kill this guy even though hes my friend. Not just that, even when I'm among guys, like im in a room and there are four guys in each corner, I would feel this weird feeling like disgusted feel and I would normally get out of the room to get some frsh air and never go back. something did happen in the past; my grandfather, auntie and a strange molested me.... nobody knew but my auntie, she told my parents. my parents never believed that my grandfather would do such thing. He would touch my breast, vagaygay and legs........when I was around 8.