How to get a teacher to notice your upset about something?
Weird question I know but I have been going through alot and in the beginning my favorite teacher noticed I was sad and reached out to me and Im going through stuff again and I really want to talk to her but Im too stupid and shy to just go ask her for help plus I dont want to bother her I just want her to ask me whats wrong again so I can talk to her so my question is how can I do this? I sit in the front and I just sit there looking down like the whole time for the last few days and nothing has happened... any advice on how I can get her to notice im sad??? thanks
Why do I get so upset when teachers tell me off?
I'm 15 (girl) and for some reason, whenever I get told off I feel really upset, like I'm going to cry. Its not a teenage thing, because its happened all my life. My stomach goes all shaky and I feel like I'm going to cry. I don't get told off very often and when I do, its not like the teachers are even very cross at me. For example, today I was handing in a form late. It was due yesterday (I was applying to a leadership role at school) but I didn't get the form. I spoke to my year level coordinator and she gave me a form and told me I could hand it in at lunchtime. So, I filled it out but I couldn't find her at lunchtime so I handed it in to another coordinator, who was kind of co-in charge, I guess of the leadership thing (if that makes sense.) Anyway, she started asking me all these questions, like, why didn't I hand it in yesterday? When I said I didn't get a form and I didn't know about it and stuff, she just kept asking, why? why? Then she told me I had to be more orgnaized and this didn't look good and stuff. I was getting pretty upset, but I hid it. Finally she let me go, but I had to walk really fast to the bathroom and lock myself in the stall so I could calm down. I counted backwards from 100 and even cried a bit, quietly. I seriously don't know why I got so upset! She probably forgot all about me by now but I'm still so sad over it. It gave me a shock because I really wasn't expecting her to get mad. What can I do? Why do I get so upset? Don't be mean about this, because I already get really mad at myself for being so sensitive about it. I know I should be stronger, I just can't be. Please give me some advice!
What do teachers think when students get upset because the teacher shouted at them?
“And I’m not allowed to get upset when you shout, chat, and giggle so much during the lesson that it is literally impossible to teach you anything, in which case you are wasting not only your time but.. mine”I do as you do. Ideally, we’d both enter the classroom, take out our materials, stand up, greet each other, sit down, and begin working. We’d discuss the topic at hand, I’d show you what it’s all about, then we’d solve some problems, discuss it some more.The only reason I would ever have for shouting at any student, would be their repeated ignoring of remarks to talk more quietly, or to pass notes instead of talking, to stop harassing or insulting their classmate, or cease otherwise inappropriate behavior (swearing, burping loudly, making lewd comments or gestures - behavior unbecoming of student).However, shouting doesn’t help. Most often, I presume, the kids who don’t stop unless shouted at, get regularly shouted at when home, so they’re used to it, and it changes nothing. But that’s as much as I can do, so… no solution.You’re upset? Well, allow me to be upset then too. I am also a human being with feelings and self-respect, and the need to feel appreciated, not spat at. I do not deserve to be treated as second-rate only because you or your parents don’t see the value in your education. In any case, even if you won’t change your ways, I will still have my two degrees and knowledge of the world 10 years from now when you will have education enough to roll carts and pack groceries, unless you change your ways.
My teacher lost a baby. She's so upset. How can I make her feel better?
Give her a very simple card expressing your condolences.You can include your name and personal contact information if you like - this will let her know you are available to her if SHE chooses to reach out to you, and it lets her know you care.You cannot take her sorrow or Grieg away from her, or anyone for that matter.People heal in their own way and their own time.She also needs the space and respect to regain her sense of closure and forward movement. This is a tragic experience for her, but it does not define her.You are very kind and compassionate for reaching out to someone you respect when they are grieving. You are also mature and conscientious for reaching out for advise on how to handle this matter.Their may be City, County, and / or State resources that can also help you understand and cope with grief. You might contact and get assistance from your local Hospital - Talk with an OB or Hospice Nurse. Talk with your clergy or spiritual advisor. Planned Parenthood may also have a lot of pertinent information.I am sorry for your teachers loss and that it has also impacted you.Let your self feel the emotions that come up. Give yourself a few days — then be kind and take care of YOU!For me, I frequently remind myself that some things are just bigger than me - I have absolutely no power or control over how others feel, think, or behave. This is my Practice of accepting life on life’s terms. Notice I said Practice. ;-)Best wishes and Pease be with you.
My teacher got mad at me and i cant get over it?
my teacher got mad at me in class today,and im a good student,i think i let him down.And i just cant get over and i have tried crying but i cant i just feel like im about to cry and i feel really upset and stressed and sad
My teacher got mad at me for no reason!?
Okay, so today in English, our teacher told us to get out our grammar books because we were having a pop quiz. I forgot my grammar book because he had only told us once at the beginning of the year that we needed our grammar book every Monday and Thursday (even though we really don't) and it is a Thursday. So then I told him that I forgot it, and he tapped on my desk and motioned me to come outside with him. I began to feel my face getting redder by the second (I have never really gotten in trouble before)! When I got outside he asked, "Have you ever played Monopoly?" Confused, I nodded my head. "Then you know you only get one free card, right?" I shook my head "yes" once more although I hadn't played that game in a while and didn't remember that part of it. "Well'" he continued, "this is your free card. I'm letting you do the quiz at home and you can show it to me tomorrow. Just make sure this NEVER happens again." I don't know why but I just feel so embarrassed about it now and feel like I don't want to go to school tomorrow because I don't want to see my teacher again! Also, I don't get why he got so mad at me for forgetting my book at home. Maybe it's because now I'm in Honors English and they expect more...I don't know, will someone please just tell me how to deal?
My teacher is really mad at me?
So I took a mini break from school to go on a trip out of country to meet my relative s. Anyways, although I haven't been going to school I had to do my work from here through a school website. One of my teachers asked me to email her images of the completed work I missed, since it's near the end of third quarter, so she could add it to the grade book. So, I figured one of my other teachers might want that as well. I sent her quite a few images of the work I missed, but didn't realize it was over the MB amount limit. She sent me an email (she seemed really pissed) saying how I blocked her email, and she didn't REQUEST that I email her work. And repeated "please don't send anymore" twice. At the end she wrote "I'll see you when you get back." She seems reaaally pissed and I'm going back in two days. She's definitely going to yell at me as she is super strict and uptight. And I have no idea what to do? Or say when I get back? Should I email her back saying something? Am I making too big a deal out of this? Please help. :-//
What should I do if a teacher makes me sad?
Teachers that emotionally bully students should be dealt with severely. I made it quite clear with school administrators that when it happened to my kids I would take care of it myself if they didn't. They knew I would! My son had ADHD and was covered under a very specific Ed Plan. I expected it to be followed and that was my right per the law. In fifth grade he had a notoriously nasty teacher who berated and bullied kids in class. She did it to my son. When I found out about it I asked the Plan admin if it was true. She nervously said that it was but the teacher didn't mean anything by it. I told her that it wouldn't happen again and if it did I would walk into her classroom stand up in front of the class and tell her she was ugly and fat! (she was). I can tell you that it didn't happen again and both the teacher and the Plan admin retired at the end of the year though.I should add that in the twelve years that my son had an Ed Plan I never had a problem with any other teacher. School administrators another thing. Most teachers were helpful and positive. The ones that were not were neutral. I used to tell the kids that teachers are like bosses some of them are good or just ok. The good news is that every fall you get a new one. I also told them unless your teacher is a nut job they have to handle it themselves. Nut jobs are few and far between but when they poped up I would take care of it.I did!
I'm really angry with my teacher? ?
I was in religion class and the teachers so annoying. She kept saying the same thing over and over again that was on the paper she gave us. I was just looking at my paper trying to figure out where she webt because she kept skipping all over and back on the page. So she calls on me and was like "what did I just ask", but I told her I didn't know. She got all pissy and and was like "so what were you thinking about?" "was it sad?" I said no. "was it mean?" no -_- and she kept going and I was getting really annoyed. Then she asked if I wanted to tell the class. Like wtf. I was just looking to see what part we were on and so was everyone else. If anything I was paying more attention than others nexus most kids had their heads down and eyes closed. I'm really tired of it already. Even the first day of school she kept staring at me when I do nothing to make her upset. All my life I've been that nice shy girl who never has a problem with any teachers but I don't know what's made her so annoyed at me. What's wrong and what did I even do?
I think my teacher is very angry with me?
So my teacher is kinda ghetto, hes not all proper like the other teachers hes kinda like a high school kid which is why alot of people like him. i personally think hes okay. but anyway today i accidently knockeed over his guitar clock thingie that he likes to put on his desk and it broke. he then got kinda mad and at first i didnt even know that i knocked it down so i was jut staring at it in shock, and then he bent over and picked it up himself. and i was like but i didnt even touch it...and he told me "well it didnt jump off by itself thats for dam sure" and he looked kinda mad and my friend told me he was mad even in his 6th period ( i have him 1st) so im kinda scared to go to school tomorrow. do u think he will do something bad to me like dropping my grade? what should i do?