How to help my toddler talk?
You describe him as only having a few words, so he is definitely behind. Here's a list of milestones: http://www.asha.org/public/speech/develo... Some kids, boys especially, do wait to speak. This happens quite often when there is an older sibling, especially a sister, in the home who talks for the younger child. In these cases, putting the child in playgroups with his own age where he has to communicate without the sibling around will help motivate him to speak. Also, encourage the sibling to allow the younger one the chance to say something. Try to keep it relaxed, but still be consistent in providing him the opportunity to be heard and even to repeat what you're saying. Here's some activities you might try: http://www.asha.org/public/speech/develo... You don't mention if he has other risk factors for speech/language delays, such as premature birth, chronic ear infections or other medical or developmental issues. Even if none are obvious, I recommend getting his hearing tested to ensure that he is able to hear all the parts of speech needed in order to repeat what he hears accurately. A speech/language evaluation should then be done to determine where he is developmentally, and what you can do to help him. It won't hurt to have the testing done. If they find that he needs extra help, then the sooner you get started, the better. If they find he's progressing pretty well, then you've got peace of mind. Either way, you won't regret it. If your insurance pays, find a Speech/Language Pathologist that's in their network; if they don't, contact your local Early Intervention Program, which is a government-funded service for kids from birth-3 years of age that need therapy services. They'll evaluate your son for free and determine if his deficit is significant enough to warrant enrollment in their program or if he is truly a "late-bloomer". FYI- once a child with special needs turns 3 years old, the local school district becomes responsible for providing therapy services in their Preschool Child Study Team programs. Good Luck!
What can I do to help my toddler get over his fear of getting his face wet?
Agree with previous two responses. It's all about helping child maintain the feeling of control. My 3yo daughter hates getting her face, ears, head wet (especially during swimming lessons) but if I give her something to use to make herself feel protected, it helps. I recently found her a hat she can wear in the swimming pool and while it doesn't work perfectly, it seems to help her feel less vulnerable. We also spend a lot of time blowing bubbles (with a wand, on the surface of the bath/pool water, in a cup) to help her control her breathing--and thus, anxiety--around water near her face.
My toddler is out of control what can i do?
I would try to pick my battles carefully. Pick a few important rules and just stick to them (like no hitting or biting), but don't have too many rules which could become confusing to a child. Also try to keep him busy. A toddler is able to help you out around your house, and most kids love to help mom out. My daughter loves to help me with laundry and cooking. The more you can keep him busy the less he will get into trouble. An activity list might also be helpful. Such as Play doh after breakfast, crayons after play doh, then help make lunch, next finger painting, next running around outside with a ball, after that help pick out a snack, etc. Really plan out his day that works for my 3 year old daughter anyway. You will probably be just as tired, but it will be more of a happy tired, I think.
What are some tips for taming an out of control toddler?
I have 2 daughters, the oldest is 5, and the youngest is 3. My oldest is your typical first child; smart, listens, has a great sense of wrong and right, and is truely very loving and attentive towards others. My youngest on the other hand, has always been very headstrong, marches to her own beat, is a true free spirit, and rarely listensto anyone. When the youngest gets to the point of spiraling out of control, it's very hard to bring her back down. There have been countless times that I have cried and felt hopeless about her behavior, and how to correct it. We put her in preschool this year, hoping that the structure and socialization would help some. One day she came home from school and started to throw a fit. The next thing I knew, I heard her say, "just breath." This happened a few more times before I caught on that she was calming herself down. I called the school and inquired about what I had been seeing. Her teacher explained to me that she would easily get frustrated and upset, and get somewhat out of control and when that would happen, the teacher would get down to my youngest's level and say the following: "(Name), look at me." And the teacher would point to her own eyes. She would repeat, "Look at me and just breathe. Deep breath in, and out. In, and out." And they would do this together a few times. Then once my little was calm, the teacher would ask her if she could try again to explain what was bothering her in a calm voice. I was (and still am) surprised at how well this continues to work and calm her down. I read somewhere that difficult children need extra patience and love. I really believe this to be true. I'm so grateful that my daughter was put in this teachers class, as I know this method has made all of the difference in bringing her back down.Good luck on finding something that works and hang in there!
My 2 year old is out of control it is bad I really need help so plz plz read!! PLz i know its long srry!?
First of all your child is not bad no child is bad.They are all innocent gifts so try not to think of her that way.She sounds strong willed but normal.Some toddlers are more of a challenge and it can be a difficult time for parent and child but once past the toddler stage things will settle down.She needs to get out a lot and given a lot of attention and you need to be confident with her not harsh or strict just a confident tone of voice and posture,don't let her see your frustration or upset help her feel secure by being confident when you are dealing with her.If she sees you are stressed intimidated and frustrated she she will feed from those emotions and get upset herself.Although tantrums are normal and should be dealt with gentle loving care.Offer a hug,empathise with what she can't have and if she wants to cry don't make her feel bad for that but wait until she is calm enough to hug and comfort.When she gets well into the tantrum there is little you can do but wait it out.Toddlers have strong emotions that scare them so just be there ina quiet and supporting way. As for the putting the broom in the fridge when situations come up like that you need to say confidently "No ice creams at the moment we will have them later."then ask her if she would like to do a painting,play in the garden,play a game with you as a way of distraction.If she goes for the broom you remove the broom,put it outside don't go on about the ice cream if you have told her once but if she gets upset empathise with how frustrated she must be.Put her feelings into words.An understanding parent is worth a lot to a toddler.And pick your battles,stay calm and in control if she can't have something then she can't but you can still offer sympathy until she s calmed and then you can go about playing something fun with her. There is no point watching TV with a toddler around wait until she has gone to bed.Your time comes then she will naturally want your attention during her daytime hours and she should recieve it.There is little chance for breaks focus on her as much as you can.If she's playing with her toys on her own take your chance for a sit down and a drink.Your child sounds normal I just think you need more confidence in your parenting.I knwo it is stressful and feels never ending like there is a battle all the time but things will get better she is just at that age.
HELP! My 3 year old nephew is OUT OF CONTROL!?
SUPER NANNY!!! It sounds like he is a perfect candidate for that show. Record his behavior and send it to the show!!! <-only with his parents' permission, of course! ;) *Really, it sounds like he just needs good -effective- discipline and maybe more sleep as well. Children crave boundaries. When they are given none, or if the ones they have are mixed and confusing, they behave badly.Taking him to see his pediatrician is a good idea. His mom needs to find out what she needs to do to get his behavior under control, even if she has to go to a counselor.
I can't take my toddler anywhere by myself?
He's a good kid but he's overly independent and just wants to walk and run everywhere by himself. He refuses to sit in a stroller so I'll let him out but he just wants to wonder off. I let him do that in open spaces like the park or an indoor playground but I can't let him do that in crowds.. I took him to the zoo by myself and it was a nightmare. He screamed and kicked when I tried putting him in the stroller. I let him out in the toddler area but when it was time to leave he made a scene and everyone stared. I never go out alone with him anymore. I only take him places when his dad is able to come along. I can't handle him by myself. He's fine at home and an angel but when he's out, he thinks he's a big kid. I even try holding his hand so he can walk with me and give him some independence but he will throw himself on the ground when I try holding his hand. I live near disneyland and want to get a pass but I'm afraid of wasting money knowing how he is... I want to do things with him and hate keeping him in the house.. how can I change this?
My three year old is OUT OF CONTROL!?
First of all, that is not behaviour that should /ever/ come out of your son, no matter what age. What you need to do is let him know what he's doing is wrong and that there will be and are consequences for his actions. When he hits you, let him know he's wrong in doing that with a verbal command. Don't scream at him, just let him know that it's a bad thing to do and give him some sort of punishment. Making him stand in the corner is a good one for kids of that age, as to them, it's a huge deal. Any time he walks away from the corner to antagonize you or others, put him back in without a word. Eventually, he'll give up and realize he needs to accept his punishment. Now, young kids don't just magically start being that way. I'm guessing you let him get his way any time he threw tantrums, or you let him get progressively worse as he got older? I know you wanted help from the "ladies", but at least keep what I said in mind. Just whatever you do, don't return his violent behaviour, that will make him worse off in his life in the long run.
What is the best way for a snowboarding adult to help a toddler learn to ski?
For your first few days, don't even worry about your equipment. For the average three year old one hour out in the snow on skis is a huge amount of work. Get out have some fun, come inside have some cocoa and a snack, then see if there is interest in getting out again... The goal should be to teach a wedge to control speed and stopping... Quick plan of learning:Spend the first day playing and learning how to slide on the snow, focusing on stopping via the ever classic "Pizza". You wont need your equipment for this, walk them up the hill, play on the magic carpet, etc. [Simon Says, red light/green light, games, stories, etc...]Day two, you might find yourself repeating day one... If you're lucky you might be able to start playing on the beginner terrain with just your stop that you've taught. You can just tag along on your board.The question you should ask yourself, is do you want to take your child to terrain where they run the risk of being out of control and you need to have a way to stop them... If you can keep things slow and easy you have the advantage of building confidence and skills. From the wedge your child will readily discover turns and other bits of control.The hardest part is that young kids learn a lot of things by seeing then doing, so your snowboard will throw them off. If you feel at all comfortable on skis you could use those for some of the primary learning days on the green terrain to help them "see pizza do pizza".As a final parting thought : Leashes allow a child to avoid learning, they can pretty much rely on a parent holding them back. Typically it indicates that the child is on terrain above their skill level ... think about all of those flying wedge children screaming down the mountain, barely avoiding people on the hill... they're missing many basic skills that they should have spent time really "owning".