No one likes me nowadays, everyone has left me alone, and no one is worried whether I’m alive or dead. I don't want to live any more. What shall I do?
I feel like you were repeating a section of my life a few years ago. Back then(even now actually), I’m quite a pariah in school. People are weirded out by my antisocial(relatively) and just awful behaviour. And pretty much almost everyone were not on my side, to the point I would have considered just throwing in the towel.But I didn’t.How i managed to survived today is the result of 2 words: FIGHTING BACK. If nobody likes you, if no one cares about you, show that you are worth caring. Never stop improving yourself, develop yourself both intellectually and socially, learn new skills and gather new interests. Always think: I’ll prove it, I’LL PROVE TO YOU ALL. Prove to them all that you can be and you are better than them. Don’t ever let your fighting spirit die out.If you are like me, who alienated people because of certain social behaviour, try to constantly reflect upon yourself and see where you have gone wrong, because it can’t be others being intolerant and picking on you when more people are rejecting you. Improve yourself upon that, stop doing what people hate about you. If you are rude, if you are interrupting, if you are over controlling, if you are too arrogant, try to stop it. If you are an introvert, try to open up abit and talk to new people, easier said than done of course. But if you are shy irl you can always try talking to someone online. As long as you improve your social behaviour, people will start liking you, not necessarily the current people that you know of, but new people that will soon come into your life, and become your closest friends.Your life is precious, you only have 1 chance to make it the best you can make it. Please don’t squander it away because of how other people are treating you :(. Own your life, make sure it is the most productive and the most enjoyable before you leave this world. Good luck! Don’t get discouraged by your current situation, you have many (hopefully) joyful years to come.
I am terrified of Allah (swt) and hellfire? Please help?
Okay, firstly, I know one should respect and fear Allah (swt) more than anything, but also love him. I do love Allah so much, and I know I have done some bad things, and I ask for forgiveness daily. Recently, however, I have a very extreme fear of punishment--beyond what is natural I think, because it makes me very sad. My fear of being punished in this life and the hearafter is debilitating, I cry about it constantly. I always feel like if I make a mistake or fall into sin (for ex. I have a bad addiction to music. I try not to listen to it, but it is very difficult to me because astaghfirullah, I love it :( ) my life will be ruined and I will not be forgiven. Sometimes I feel like I have to restrict my thoughts or I will be punished. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? Or is it good for me to have this fear? I feel like it is more then a respectful fear that I have it frightens me. Is it the shaytan making me feel sad because of this fear? I am very very confused.
What is the best way to live your life, free of problems?
Being REAL is far more important than being Nice.I don't give a shit about actually being nice or even remotely appearing to be nice.Here's how I do it :Don't give a damn to anything negative, that disturbs your inner peace.Cut off toxic people from life and don't feel guilty about it.Stop feeling jealous of people who are better off than you, work hard instead.Stop having the need to impress people.Stay away from drama and negative people. They are not your circus and not your monkeys.Strictly mind your own business.Not everything needs your attention and reaction. Just ignore. Let it go.NO expectations from anyone. Be your own hero.Don't say a Yes when you mean No and vice-versaTry to be a better version of yourself than yesterday.Work on improving your skills. Stay focussed.Eat and keep healthy.Always Think positive. It makes a hell lot of difference. Trust me.Stay humble and kind.Love yourself above all!
Why am I scared of eternity?
Dear writer of this question, I hope you still check the answers to this question and will see my message.As I scrolled through the answers here, I saw that many people wanted to help you, but didn't really understand, what you are going through. Let me start with this: you are not alone. I'm a strong-believing Christian and afraid of eternity since I'm six years old. Sometimes I still have panick attacks at night. Some time ago I found out that there is a name for my fear: It's called 'apeirophobia' - the fear of infinity and there are many, many people suffering from it.Maybe you not afraid of things that are infinite - just of eternity, nonetheless I can understand you and feel deeply with you.There are some things, that help me a bit with my fear and I want to share them with you to help you. For example, there is Revelation 21,4: He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.This verse tells us that there will be no pain in heaven. My hope is therefore that even if I'm afraid now, I won't be anymore in eternity. When you are a Christian and struggling with the fear of eternity you have to learn to trust God and his promises. Go to his word and read how many times, he says: Don't be afraid! Hold fast to these promises and believe that he will take away your fear - maybe not in this life, but you won't be afraid in eternity.Maybe you think this is a weak comfort, but it's really the only thing we've got - we have to believe that God intended Good for us. Why would he create our souls for eternity - something desirable from his point of view and then let us suffer there (I'm talking about Heaven here - of course Hell is something completely different!)?I think the thought that time won't be the same as here, is helpful as well. We really don't know much about heaven, but here again - we have to trust the Lord that it will truly be beautiful and wonderful, so wonderful we won't want anything else! God is good and he wants good for you!Trust the Lord, get to know his goodness more and more. Believe his promises. He will make all things new.(Rev.21,5)I hope this was helpful.
At the beginning of Romeo & Juliet...?
Rosaline. Romeo and Juliet is one of the most celebrated romantic stories of all time, with Romeo considered to be the quintessential romantic hero. Upon closer analysis, Romeo can be characterized as a young man transformed by love. This can be seen in Romeo's initial interest in Rosaline, which is superficial and passive in comparison to the more complex and active relationship he develops with Juliet.