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I need advice on friend problems..?

Ok.. Hey my names Faith. I don't think you friend has any say in when you do your homework or not. Do you get better grades when you do it with her or do you goof off an not do it... Is the reason she's mad is that when you do you homework do you copy off of each other? I'm in middle school and I still have to do my homework I get home at three and I'm usually not done untill around nine or eight. I know that when I do my homework with my friends and I have to wait for them to catch up and it takes alot longer! I hope that you can work thisbig thing out with your friend and just tell her she's acting silly and that your sorry and tell her you forgot... lol Its not the best but Hopefully it works! bye!! good luck!! =D

Defaintely in need of advice for my friend!?

I think is i'ts great that she is committed in supporting her guy to change. If I were in the same situation, I would ask myself " Why do I want to be in this realtionship in the first place ?

I found this article that talks about a woman's role in maintaining a good relationship. It says :

"But most importantly, she should do this with love. A man desires to hear this all the time, because men really are like children, and they often see a woman as a mother. And even though this kind of a relationship may seem "imbalanced," it will become balanced out because it will make the man want to "rise up," to show how great he is. It will awaken his desire to become greater in a positive way, rather than in an overbearing, negative way.
Here's the link:

http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=1#the-woman-e2-80-99s-role-in-maintaining-a-good-relationship

Friend's Dad is hurting her! Need advice!!?

There in lies the beauty of abuse ( just a figure of speech), the abuser can wrap their victim around their little finger by threatening harm to those the victim cares about so that pretty soon the victim start to believe they 'deserve' what the abuser is doing.
Please go to an adult that you trust...parent, teacher and tell them what is happening and your 'speculations'..make sure you do it in a way that doesn't make you seem hysterical or a troublemaker. Her fear of losing her father to jail is only because she is rationalizing and is trying to make him into the Dad who will protect his little girl.
Do NOT tell her what you plan to do as she may distance herself from you---just do it. After it is done and she has been confronted, let her know that she is too dear to you as a friend and you would rather endure her anger than stand quietly by and watch her get hurt. Your friend may be angry with you for a while, but at least she will be safe. An SATC (sexual assault treatment center) can have her take a special test to check for assault.

You are showing that you are a TRUE friend and I wish you the best and hope your friend gets the help she needs. Just remember to be supportive no matter what.

Help. Need advice on a friend ghosting me?

Complicated, but I'll be brief:

Friend called me to develop tech product. He's a patent lawyer and I'm an engineer.

Took too long working full time, so quit my job and thought I could live in an office space and do freelance. But paid terrible, wasted even more time and got kicked out of office space because...you can't live there/

Friend put me up in one of his rental homes. Still takes too long (marketing plans and product specs changed dramatically)

Now after 1.5 years looks like we are very close. My friend seems very excited, but he has cutoff all communication except dropping by for demo updates. He used to call regularly but now goes out of his way to avoid me.

I feel bad as a free loader. I have told him many times it's no problem if he wants to quit and have me leave, even encouraged the idea. But he wouldn't have it.

He's a very good guy, but the ghosting makes me think he wants to quit but is afraid it will hurt me. Should I take the responsibility upon myself to quit? The financial payoff is also very questionable.

I have a friend who doesn't listen to my advice?

i don't think she should go out with him, not anymore, but she really liked him and she wouldn't ask him out, now i'm pretty sure he's just a player, he wouldn't even ask her out. and i'm a really good friend to her, but she's a spoiled brat. her dad is rich, so she gets what she wants, she's never been grounded, even though she almost set her house on fire when i was over and she was playing with matches while i was working on our project, she thinks that because her parents let her have whatever she wants, then she should get whatever she wants from everyone. she also thinks that all of her problems are worse than all of the problems that you have or had... she's just a brat

What is the best advice you have ever given your best friend?

One advice I give to my friends or anybody for that matter who are going through few crappy days, goes like this:An answer to this simple question may lead you to a great and a happy life.Question (what I ask my friends to answer): Choose one of the following option, the one which interests you more and I am going to explain the significance of only the option you choose! Think & decide well. (Please don’t scroll down without making a choice.)Answer/Advice (this is what I always have to bring a smile on their face): As you must have chosen Option 2 for sure, it represents our Life driven with Ups & Downs encountered by us. Life without these bends becomes monotonous and unattractive. Embrace both the good and the bad life offers you. Enjoy the roller coaster ride!   “Only know you’ve been high, when you’re feeling low . . . “ - by PASSENGER - Let Her Go.Thanks. :-)

How can I politely say to a friend that I don't need his/her "garbage advice"? I never ask for help from them, especially about money.

What you say does not make sense. If you do not need advice about things then do not tell people you have a problem. But in my experience people who do not need advice do not have problems. They have already made the right choices and decisions to prevent problems or get rid of them quickly.Money problems tend to come from over spending, so it does not follow that you know what to do about it when you could have prevented it by being smarter about your spending.How do you know that your friend gives garbage advice? Has he got less problems than you, are his finances in a worse state than yours?The fact that you need to come on here and ask strangers for advice here proves you are not really a problem solver.

I need advice please, the girl I have always love friend zoned me and I don't know what to do.?

I’m going to give you my honest opinion. It sounds to me as if it’s over between the two of you. Your ex sounds like a confused girl who may not be totally sure of what she wants. Maybe she’ll be happy with her ex, and maybe she won’t. Sometimes people break up again and again. I believe that at some point in time, what drove them apart in the first place might drive them apart again, if they aren’t willing to change.

If she truly wants to return to her ex, let her go. This sounds like a too-painful relationship to maintain, so I’m recommending that you stop seeing her and contacting her altogether. Yes, it is painful to lose a friend, but it’s even more painful not to bring closure to this relationship. Talking with her, following her on social media, texting her, and keeping memories of her around your living space will only keep the wounds of your emotional hurt from healing. Please do find a new girlfriend. I know there is another one out there who can be a great new friend for you and help you move past this relationship you have just ended.

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