I need advice on friend problems..?
Ok.. Hey my names Faith. I don't think you friend has any say in when you do your homework or not. Do you get better grades when you do it with her or do you goof off an not do it... Is the reason she's mad is that when you do you homework do you copy off of each other? I'm in middle school and I still have to do my homework I get home at three and I'm usually not done untill around nine or eight. I know that when I do my homework with my friends and I have to wait for them to catch up and it takes alot longer! I hope that you can work thisbig thing out with your friend and just tell her she's acting silly and that your sorry and tell her you forgot... lol Its not the best but Hopefully it works! bye!! good luck!! =D
Defaintely in need of advice for my friend!?
I think is i'ts great that she is committed in supporting her guy to change. If I were in the same situation, I would ask myself " Why do I want to be in this realtionship in the first place ? I found this article that talks about a woman's role in maintaining a good relationship. It says : "But most importantly, she should do this with love. A man desires to hear this all the time, because men really are like children, and they often see a woman as a mother. And even though this kind of a relationship may seem "imbalanced," it will become balanced out because it will make the man want to "rise up," to show how great he is. It will awaken his desire to become greater in a positive way, rather than in an overbearing, negative way. Here's the link: http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=1#the-woman-e2-80-99s-role-in-maintaining-a-good-relationship
Friend's Dad is hurting her! Need advice!!?
There in lies the beauty of abuse ( just a figure of speech), the abuser can wrap their victim around their little finger by threatening harm to those the victim cares about so that pretty soon the victim start to believe they 'deserve' what the abuser is doing. Please go to an adult that you trust...parent, teacher and tell them what is happening and your 'speculations'..make sure you do it in a way that doesn't make you seem hysterical or a troublemaker. Her fear of losing her father to jail is only because she is rationalizing and is trying to make him into the Dad who will protect his little girl. Do NOT tell her what you plan to do as she may distance herself from you---just do it. After it is done and she has been confronted, let her know that she is too dear to you as a friend and you would rather endure her anger than stand quietly by and watch her get hurt. Your friend may be angry with you for a while, but at least she will be safe. An SATC (sexual assault treatment center) can have her take a special test to check for assault. You are showing that you are a TRUE friend and I wish you the best and hope your friend gets the help she needs. Just remember to be supportive no matter what.
Should we listen to our friends' advice?
When taking advice from others, listen to yourself first!You are not the same person so it is not necessary what made your friend happy will make you happy as well.Because maybe you don’t have the same dreams for your futures. So, your advice giver’s experience could have some other factors too behind their success which even they aren't aware of. So, listen your friend's advice but do not follow blindly. Believe in yourself before believing in others. And, even I am here giving you advice, so don't follow blindly. Believe in yourself first.Hope this helps. Thankyou!
I have a friend who doesn't listen to my advice?
i don't think she should go out with him, not anymore, but she really liked him and she wouldn't ask him out, now i'm pretty sure he's just a player, he wouldn't even ask her out. and i'm a really good friend to her, but she's a spoiled brat. her dad is rich, so she gets what she wants, she's never been grounded, even though she almost set her house on fire when i was over and she was playing with matches while i was working on our project, she thinks that because her parents let her have whatever she wants, then she should get whatever she wants from everyone. she also thinks that all of her problems are worse than all of the problems that you have or had... she's just a brat
Help my friend wants to join a gang i need advice to give to him?
simple - give a reply yes or no gangs generally are folks whose personalities have made them outcast by their own doings gangs offer no real benefit to anyone .... you are offering to risk your health or life for a "leader" who simply wants backups to his own ideas gangs are also against the law, so any activity there can bring you a permanent record or jailtime gangs also bring heartbreak and harm - offer nothing to the persons involved or society if he wants to stand for something - stand for something that betters him as a person and society! thanks for your concern - that is a sign of a true friend best wishes to you both!
What is the best advice you have ever given your best friend?
One advice I give to my friends or anybody for that matter who are going through few crappy days, goes like this:An answer to this simple question may lead you to a great and a happy life.Question (what I ask my friends to answer): Choose one of the following option, the one which interests you more and I am going to explain the significance of only the option you choose! Think & decide well. (Please don’t scroll down without making a choice.)Answer/Advice (this is what I always have to bring a smile on their face): As you must have chosen Option 2 for sure, it represents our Life driven with Ups & Downs encountered by us. Life without these bends becomes monotonous and unattractive. Embrace both the good and the bad life offers you. Enjoy the roller coaster ride! “Only know you’ve been high, when you’re feeling low . . . “ - by PASSENGER - Let Her Go.Thanks. :-)
My girlfriend left me for my best friend and i need advice?
im 18 and last summer I finnaly got my first girlfriend and my best friend stole her from me...now i hate them both and am extremely depressed and angry...no matter how hard i tried to explain to him after she broke my heart that i didnt want him to date her he would just lie to me and tell me he wouldnt date her. i found out about them wanting to date 20 days after she broke up with me...and he says he didnt steal her from me even tho when i was dating her she would flirt with him and i was jealous but she would cry and tell me she liked me alot and not him at all. Me and my best friend were really close and i trusted him but he lied ALOT right to me and i feel so betrayed and hurt. now they date and they both know i hate it but dont care. They think im overeacting and shouldnt care at all. i told them i would be their friend still because im trying to be happy again. but im hurt so bad and so angry and feel like it was so wrong. I dont no wat to do to feel better...any suggrestions?
I have a friend who constantly asks for advice. How can I get the message across that it's becoming annoying without hurting her feelings?
Sometimes, it's because the person was excessively sheltered or neglected growing up. If your friend grew up in such circumstances you have to decide if you are up for giving her a crash course on independence or if you need to take a pass. If you cannot honestly rise to the task, take that pass. Sometimes, it's simply attention-seeking behavior on her behalf, or, a tendency to be a life coach on your behalf. Either way leads to the same result. You find yourself managing two lives...Yours and hers. Yours will be the one short-changed. To head her off, start asking her to come up with suggestions to fix her problems on her own. Show her how and where to access resources that will provide her with knowledge and means to fix said issues. Start small and simple. Show her how to fix a problem and encourage her to take real measures to fix it herself next time. If she bugs you, you can always be unavailable. If she's really in a bad way, help her, but act impersonally and do the minimum amount of work you realistically can. When she makes real efforts to solve her own problems, and especially, if she succeeds at fixing them solo, be genuinely happy for her and give her encouragement and praise. If you are the problem, you'll know because when she goes solo, you'll be haunted by an unshakable sense of dissatisfaction no matter how much or how well she accomplishes her steps to independence. You'll find yourself finding ways to continue your supervisory role. If you find yourself feeling this way now or down the road, it should be you who seeks *professional* advice from a *qualified* therapist.