Going to start making new friends need help!?!?
So I got advice in what should I do about switch friends. But know that I decided to switch to new people how do I fit in with them?? Their very funny! :) and make random statements like hello kitty gangster sista (one of them created that nickname for me) lol but how do I start acting more crazy and FUN. My other friends were always so serious and when ever I acted werid around them they would stare at me like this o_o. So how can I be more like them???? ;)
I need a poem about making friends?!?
As suggested first write what Friend, or Friendships mean to you, Are they tried, are they true, are they in the moment, or for a lifetime, might they be your lifeline? Making friends is a process, and shouldn't be forced, of course two or more should feel a coinnection, but be mindful of rejection. Friendships are somewhat like ships, some come, and go, some stay, some don't. Those that last need not be an every day thing, and like seasons, you may see or hear from a friend once a year. Friends can be like Spring. You asked for ideas, and I offered some in a type of rhyming way, but a poem need not rhyme.
I need help on being social and making friends which i find difficult because am shy !!?
I really need help on being social, the problem is iam really shy and am afraid to look like an idiot in front of the rest. when i speak i mostly speak like i fear something. another issue iam going through is that i dont find anybody interesting to make friends with most of the people who sorroubd me on the dayly basis have no interestss on anything cool or are really ignorant due to their conversations and the way they think. this really causes me to feel lonely and depressed sometimes because the only person i have interesting conversations with and do interesting things such as read books, play an instrument , do a sport, or practice photography is with my boyfriend who shares all the same interests as me. my friends which i really dont consider my friends think iam weird because i dress differently meaning i dont wear miniskirts and show my boobs all the time and because i dont talk to 20 guys who have nice cars but dont have a brain. i know i hang around with people who have nothing to do with me but i find it hard to speak to those who i think that i might fit in with altho i havnt fount any what can i do ?? i really feel bad and sometimes jelous because my boyfriend is very social and makes friends easily and i dont please heeelllppp i dont want to be shy and i want to be accepted for who iam ... please do not suggest facebook that is the worst place ever ITS FULL OF GOZZIP :)
I didn't make friends at my company and now I need help with something. What should I do?
Take away the akwardness of it, and lob it in the trash.The easiest method to talking to someone without being nervous, is to to place them as complete strangers.Think about it, the last time you asked someone for directions did you start thinking about how you sound, or what the intentions of that person are.No, you just asked with no hesitation.1st option, ask the coworker closest to you.(office wise)You: Hey do you have a quick minute, Him: yeah sure( if hesitant or agitated, move on to next coworker)You: I was having an issue with ______You: oh I am (your name) by the way, im next door.Him: nice to meet you man, i am ____You:( do not forget his name, as soon as you go back to your office, right memo like bill helped me out)You: I really appreciate it bill, thanks again.Him: no problemYou: If you think you vibed well, ask if he had lunch yet, or what's a good place to eat around here.You: soon as you get comfortable talking to bill, others will come, and it will be almost a reaction to introduce yourself, or greet and get to know someone.In my case, my closest friends have came from work.It will take time do not rush things, and best of luck.
I need help making a bat-mitzvah speech for my best friend...any ideas?
Look I can't give you ready made because: 1.They have to be from your heart 2.If I tell you whats the point in doing it? 3.You will be cheating You can write her achievements and then congratulate for the task she has reached!! Best of luck :)
Help! I need to know before school starts! How to make friends?
Ugh, I'm sorry. Breakups are horrible and they're doubly horrible when it means losing friends in the process. My best friend had a breakup similar to yours last year. His friends turned really immature and gross and started following her around and calling her a sl** etc. It was awful. But you know what helped her get through it? Pitying HIM not herself. He was the maniac for unleashing all that hate upon her. HE was the nutcase who couldn't handle a breakup so he had to turn everyone against and try to "get back" at her. So don't feel bad for yourself, feel bad for HIM. You're going to have new friends and they're going to be cooler and more awesome than him. As for actually making friends, it sounds like you did it before, so you're going to be able to do it again. Going to a new school will be exciting and since you're not a freshman (right?) you'll actually get to be The New Girl. You can totally reinvent yourself if you want. Talk to everyone in your classes, join some clubs (even if they don't seem that interesting) and maybe a team. Just put yourself out there. I'm not saying you have to be a total extrovert if that's not your personality, but try to put yourself in slightly uncomfortable situations and see what happens. You'll be fine. Add everyone you meet to Facebook and chat them on Video Chat Rounds on Facebook when you see them online after school. If you act like you are self-assured then I guarantee that eventually you will actually feel that way. :)