Nice Things To Do For One Person

What makes a person kind to you? People can do nice things, but does that make them kind? When does their unkindness outweigh their kindness?

Kindness is about holding a space for attention on the context of any given situation- and then the ability to exhibit the highest form of care in response.It arises from living a heart-centered life. It is a continual practice, of a way of being. There is a big difference from living from one’s heart and growing the capacity to care for others and for the whole rather than from just doing nice things once in a while. Kindness is not fully present in an individual who is nice once in a while- or to the person who is inconsistent.I believe that kindness is a virtue that is much deeper than we were taught in kindergarten. It is a way of being in the world that is caring without being enabling and manipulative. There is an absence of a “tit for tat” mentality in a truly kind person. He/she strives to do what is most loving, even if it does not serve him/her directly. The posture of kindness aids in the uplifting of humanity- as it expresses the best in us. One recognizes that kindness is an energy that holds love and simultaneously accepts life on life’s terms.The only reason unkindness would trump kindness would be if the individual were not embodying kindness in the first place. It is inconsistency of character that wears down past acts of kindness. For many of us, this is a very real struggle as it is so easy to fluctuate from care to self-centeredness, depending on the days of our lives.That is why the practice of kindness is not random, but requires active contemplation- as would any virtue that demands heart strength. The more that is acquired more often in one’s character than not, the more trustworthy the individual becomes in practicing kindness consistently.

What are some random nice things I can do for people?

I've found that abstaining from prolonged anger helps a lot. I know we get mad at each other, it can get under your skin for a bit but to hold a grudge and do things to spite that person is wrong. They may of already forgotten but whatever you just did in rebellion bred more negativity. Anger is normal, we cant deny that. But to be kind instead of average, you cant let it dictate your behavior. Something else, a little more corny, is to smile. When you go through formalities like a handshake and a hello, bare them fangs and you can spark a realationship the right way even if you'll never see them again. Of course smiling all the time is just weird. If you're on the verge of punching someone, smiling and walking away is weird. (Rather, I suggest disengagment. For me this is normally a simple head bow and "I'm sorry then. Good day to you." and away I go! Saying something like "good day to you" helps the anger settle for me)Acts of kindness dont mean much. If some stone faced person hands you a balloon, thats creepy isnt it? What if someone was bummed out that day and was getting rained on with no umbrella? Walking up to them with yours is weird unless you greet them (smile!) Then there's listening. People like that alot. Even if you dont care, dont just be a wall to vent to. You are likely to never hear about it again and giving input during the convo makes the other party happier. Speaking of input, give up lying. Honesty sometimes hurts and makes you uncomfortable but if the other party sees that, they'll be less offended. "I love this thing! Isnt it great?!" Uh... not to me, no... sorry. "What? Why not, it's great!" It's just not my thing :( "Alright, you just dont get it :)" Excellent, it's yours and yours alone! More power to you! (Thinking like that is important! If you think like "why do you like it? it's stupid." You line yourself up for negativity)

Why do we always say good things about a person when he/she dies?

I have lost most precious person of my life, my father.My father was an awesome person for me. His wit, his comments on everything, his intelligence, his responsibility, problem solving everything of him was appreciable to me. He was a gift. I got to know long time ago he had heart enlargement. Still he used to work very hard without thinking about his health just to make us financially stable. I always used to think that god has given me something really very preciuos which i was scared to loss.He was my best friend and my teacher. He did everything to make me successful and make us financial stable.We went to visit Mumbai. A picture of me with my parents.This picture was taken by a photographer of Thane, Mumbai.I didn't know at that time, this would be the last visit with my dad.0:00-0:01Coming back home, after few days on 2nd June I lost my father due to cardiac problem. It was night 2 pm. My dad got up and his throat choked. He became unconcious .my, mom and grand mother was there. My mom was holding my dad. I called ambulance but no one picked up. I ran to the main road, saw an ambulance going called that ambulance. But everything was over at that time. Ambulance people said they don't have stretcher and delayed taking him. We took him to an hospital , a small government hospital and doctor declared him death soon. I couldn't save him.I asked my dad to help me make him alive. He always helped me.For the first time my dad didn't respond to me. The person who who would give his life for me , came running for me from anywhere was not even responding me.He didn't solve my problem. He was dead was difficult for me to even comprehend.And for your question, people believe when someone dies they become a soul after they die, they would be there but not in body. And a soul would have no bad but all good.

Why do people do extremely nice things anonymously?

By doing something anonymously, you are providing a double gift- a solution or loving thought, perhaps, as well as a gift of faith. Whether the recipient finds more faith in humanity, or God, or in themselves, in my opinion this is the true gift.If you give directly, this may increase goodwill or faith in you, or it may just lead people to expect you to give them more things. But giving anonymously leaves an open question, provides nothing on which to hook an expectation and is clearly given with no strings attached. There are no guilt trips or underlying motives. It isn’t given as a way to control another person.Moreover, most gifts are forgotten and fall to the wayside quickly. But a very appropriate and needed gift with a mystery attached is an act of love no one ever forgets. It’s things like that that can help people maintain faith through some very dark times.Done correctly, it’s absolute proof that someone cares, and cares so much that the caring is the only part of it they find important.Also, and I can’t speak for anyone else, but for me I’ve found that there can be a tremendous amount of personal satisfaction that can come from imagining all the different possibilities for how someone has encountered the gift and what that did for them. If I get to hear about later on it just adds to the satisfaction because I’ll have the answer.I highly reccommend watching the movie Amelie if you haven’t yet.