What's the difference between being obsessed with someone and being in love with them?
Welllove and obsession are related in some aspects but can never be thought to be the same. It's like the difference between fresh and processed orange juice. Both are orange juice, but one is healthy while the other is very unhealthy. Same with love and obsession. The former is a beautiful feeling that's based on care, compassion, support, admiration, etc...while the latter is a crazy feeling that's harmful and selfish.There are some points which can easily differentiate both feelings well…When you love someone, you want the best for them whether they're a part of your life or not. When you are obsessed with someone you want them to be by your side all day. You want them to be yours regardless of how they'd feel about it.Love is when you give space to the other. Love is freedom. An obsessed person will make you feel trapped and suffocated with his/her constant calls/questions/doubts...You will never be able to satisfy their needs or breathe some air without being questioned.An obsessive person will try to sabotage your social life because they're jealous and controlling. He/she wants to have you for them only.An obsessive person can never trust you. A true loving relationship is based on trust. An obsessive person will always want to know every detail about the other person, while a true loving person will give you space because they know you, trust you and want you to be happy.Love is when you want the other person to be happy. Obsession is when you want the other person to be happy ONLY with you.Obsessive people are dependent. If they breakup, they could threaten with suicide or seek revenge because their lives is dependent on the other person. You are not allowed to be happy with someone else.Love is when you are happy on your own, but have chosen to share your happiness with someone else. Obsession is when your happiness depends on others.Obsessive people may have their lives wrapped up in the other person, so they may lose focus at work or lose their friendships or perform poorly in different areas in their lives while feeding on the other person's life.Love is when you take care of the other person's needs, whereas an obsessed person gives more importance to his/her needsFrom my point of view little bit of obsession in love is healthy but as very well said excess of everything is bad . So it goes here too…
What are some dark secrets my characters could have?
Her boyfriend cheated with grace but grace didnt know that he had a girlfriend
Why are people attracted to anime characters?
They touch us in a special way. I don't mean that drolling fan boy "Look at her bustline!" kind of smarm, but an emotional connection with them, as though they are family or a dear friend
Twilight haters, please answer this question [Twilighters who aren't majorly touchy can answer too :)]?
Okay, so I have to do a room 101 about Twilight for school [basically saying why you hate it] and it's got to sound like i'm on a chat show sort of thing, this is what I got so far: ☆Seriously. What kind of person sits in a young girl's room and watched her sleeping? Well. Apart from stalkers and paedophiles, but of course we *ALL* know Edward's not one of those, right? ... what a load of crap. ☆And Jacob? Don't even get me started on him. Paedophile much? Falling in love with a baby and all... what the hell? I mean, can't you just imagine this scenario? Jake gets it on with Renesmee and he randomly blurts out how he had done this with her mother ver a decade ago.. ew! ☆And the author of the books - Stephenie Meyer. What the hell is her deal? Is she obsessed with herself or something? "I can't publish Midnight Sun as a feel betrayed." Wow, Just wow, Ms Meyer. ☆And the film? Wow. The Twilight Movie just takes bad films to a whole new level. It's not finished, but I was just wondering how it sounded? I wanted to rephrase the bit about Jacob and Renesmee getting it on because it could be a little awkward reading it, how could i rephrase it?