Ok here is a question i dont think i have ever seen asked on yahoo asnwers!For males and females!?
ok i know alot of u married guys and girls say that your husband or wife never cheated!Well how do u know for sure?Have u ever asked him?Some guys are such good liers that sometimes u cant even tell they are lieing!Some may cheat at work durning lunch time!How would a wife know or husband knowt that info?Guys sex drives are very high so they could have sex 2 times a day if they wanted to. So at work and then at home again!How would he/she know?I mean i understand us woman have pretty good intutions but some times guys lie to darn bad u cant even tell they are lieing. I mean usually u can figure out if they are cheating if u know the person they are cheating with. Cause usually the females get emtionally attached to the male. But other then that exspecialy if the guy is player. Players lie so dam much they think what they are saying is the truth!Sure i have been cheated on before but me and my guy are still together yet. He dont cheat no more. And yes i know he dont cheat!
Do you think it’s ever right to tell a lie? If so, in what situation?
When I was very young, I was labelled a liar (unfairly). From that moment on, my every motive and word was suspect. After a while, I realized that even when I was being honest I was being punished for lying. Somewhere in there, I rationalized that at least with lying I had some control and stood half a chance at seeing daylight sometime before my wisdom teeth grew in. This went on for quite some time really, but then around 16 years old I had an moment of clarity. Lying made them right about me. I WAS a liar. The one thing I have to hold on to to this day is, I am a very good person. I am not a saint, or even super ambitious generally, but I wouldn’t watch a person suffer without helping, or allow an animal or human to be abused if I had the power to stop or even help to stop it. It is who I am, and when I pervert that with lies for, at the time felt like survival, then I do not even have that little place inside of myself that can feel righteous. I took that away by being who they said I was. The punishments were now deserved. But, in my broken teen self I found a spark that that told me that I deserved better. Sometimes that sucked. The first week it got me a black eye. I wasn’t wantonly throwing around “truths”, but I would answer a direct question with honesty. (you learn how to only answer what they are asking sometimes.. there is such a thing as TMI, even when asked directly). Even humiliated in the streets by a very angry young woman, the spark grew. It must have felt really good because I stuck with it. But, I also learned that there are occasions when fibs are necessary. “No Officer, I do not know why you are pulling me over”. Because the other way means you may never pay your car out of impound. And the lies of omission, when the truth would hurt more than if they learned you lied. There are acceptable lies, but I also think the person lying needs to accept responsibility if their good intentions by lying ends up hurting people in the end. It is a benefit risk thing.
If you are tired of lying and you want to go back to being a totally honest person, what should you do?
Set a day and time when you will start telling the truth. Put the past behind you. Who knows who you might hurt by suddenly confessing the past? And if you can't help lying, then make an arrangement to see a counselor. Set a limit on the number of sessions you'll see her for. Ten is a nice round number. Just tell yourself that you'll work through this in ten sessions and do it!
Ok i caught my bf....he denied it...i think hes still doing it and lying????
Um....tell him it's the porn or you. If he chooses porn over a living breathing woman than he is a pathetic loser. You are better than movies, pics, etc. Don't settle for the "it's a guy thing" excuse. My boyfriend doesn't have a porn stash, believe me, I've looked for one. My ex husband was a pornaholic, so.... So my point is, not ALL guys do it. My bf does subscribe to Maxim though, so I know he's still a guy...lol Good luck!
Am I a bad person because I lie?
I have a bad habit of lying to people, usually people I don't know very well, but I have lied to my family and close friends. Sometimes I feel really guilty about the lies I told them. They’re mostly always lies about me, what I’ve been doing; things that have happened to me, things about work etc. I never lie to hurt anyone else. They’re not massive lies, I think. Mostly ones that make me sound more interesting, or make other people laugh. I think it’s mainly because I want to sound like someone I want to be rather than accepting who I really am or what my life is. They’re not lies that people would be particularly mad about, just confused as to why I would say it if it’s not true. I’m not trying to get sympathy or attention. Sometimes it’s just so that people won’t worry about me or think that I’m doing ok. I realize that this can and probably will come back to haunt me. I guess I just want some reassurance that maybe I’m not the only one who does this....what shall I do? Is it worth going back and telling people, or just try to change from now on?
When someone asks you how you're doing and you're feeling awful, what should you say?
On most occasions someone asking how you are doing is a courtesy and greeting rather than a desire to get an in-depth recap of your current state of affairs. This is not an opportunity to go into specifics about any illness you may be experiencing or emotional issues you are dealing with. Etiquette dictates that you reply in a short meaningful way that shows appreciation for their interest.For example: "I am a little under the weather to day, but expect to be back to 100% soon. Thank you fro asking. How are you doing?" If "under the weather" is not a common idiom:"Honestly, I am not feeling well, but expect to fully recover soon. I appreciate you asking. How have you been doing? If you are feeling awful emotionally then try: " I appreciate you asking. I am a bit out of sorts today. It has been a trying week, but these things always pass. How have you been doing?"
Why do people feel that lieing is ok?
no its not ok to lie. i believe and this is totally true its only ok to make a little white lie to avoid an insult. like if someone asks u like ur friend or someone asks u "am i fat?" u wouldnt say yea ur fat. u would say no of course not even is he/she may be. or if they ask "does my hair look good" u wont say its a disaster. thats actually a bad example cus if ur a good friend and her/his hair had a big messy problem u wont let them walk out and get made fun. so u would say ur hair looks good but theres just a little piece sticking up. even if its a big piece saying a little piece makes it sound better than it is. but lieing or exatritaing the truth is not right. good friends are honest. and betrayal is horrible. if they do that they either feel bad about who they are and are tearing u down to bring u up. i no its sick but sick mean people can do that. dont be with someone like that. hope ive anwsered ur question :)