How should I humiliate my husband?
Hahaha omfg why would you want to do that?! That's awful but I can't but laugh at the thought of that...Try bringing up something really stupid or embarrassing he did in the past or something. Or make fun of him...lol but that's so horrible!
Why do some people like being humiliated?
Pick up a pen with your hand and raise it towards the ceiling. Now try making a circle in clockwise direction. Slowly bring your hand down, continuing with clockwise circling. Bring your hand down to your neck level and observe it now. You can see that your hand is now moving in anti clockwise. That's how our perspectives are. We all have different perspectives from different points. There is nothing right or wrong in it.May be you think that they like to be humiliated but as far as I understand there is no one who doesn't want others to respect him. Another perspective is that they are ignorant towards other's judgements. What the world is thinking about them makes no sense to them.A very interesting example is Jack Ma, chairman of Alibaba group. He had been insulted and rejected by many people to the extent that any one of us would kill ourselves. But he had goal in his mind. He was focused more towards his dream rather than what world thinks about him.My humble suggestion is to focus on your own work rather than judging other's actions. Because how hard you try, you can't do anything about anyone else's behaviour. That's out of your control and he has his own journey behind that you can't think of and feel. Rather, spend time in working on your goals in life.
Is it weird to want to be humiliated?
Many of my clients absolutely love humiliation fetish. It is a very popular fetish and I get asked for it by nearly all of my clients. Many clients are absolutely normal in their daily life but when it comes to this fetish they hide it from their partners, and do enjoy getting humiliated by a dominant female or any female actually. Sexual attraction is also part of it most of the time. I Usually I find that this fetish was triggered by something that happened in their early childhood, for example being humiliated by a neighbour, girl or aunt etc, and in some cases they cannot recall when or when it started.I have people pay me to sniff my socks, to buy my worn high heels, to get dressed up as a girl, to get Spaten, the list of humiliation activities unless.Simply have fun with it and do as you please as long as you are hurting nobody.RegardsGoddess
Why do some people enjoy being humiliated?
It could be a fetish, as in part of the greater BDSM, which is not necessarily manifests itself in a sexual behavior way but in a psychological way of how it makes them feel. People may enjoy the loss of control and the "negative" deprecating attention they receive as part of humiliation.Humiliating someone means bringing them into the spot light on display, and usually sharing something personally private about them or their persona and other people usually talking about it, or responding in different ways. Who wouldn't enjoy that kind of attention and spot light? Especially when:the kind of attention they receive is the only attention you can getyou feel you do not deserve any other kind of attention . you psychologically need that kind of attention to "feel alive" (think of it as a fetish, or a mental illness)it's an easy way to get fame of become famous (think of it as desire to be on a reality TV or a TV show)How is that?
Why do I like my wife to sexually humiliate me?
Sex is a continuum. There is nothing that is not on this continuum. Some of this may be personally disgusting to you, but you would have to admit that your likes and dislikes in your particular sexual behavior comes from a place not of your choosing. In your particular case many powerful men prefer to be humiliated in their sexual activity. This goes so far as to be urinated or even deficated on. These men are usually rich enough to have a sex worker do their bidding. If it is not blatantly illegal then it is your choice and only your choice.
Why do some people enjoy humiliating others?
Have you read, 'The Life of I' by Anne Manne? She explores the relationship between humiliation and narcissism as one part of the book.Power is certainly part of it. Shame and humiliation are strong influences in human behaviour. Where people fail to fit into cultural norms, shame and humiliation are employed to either remove them from the society or change their behaviour to fit the norm.Strongly conservative and/or religious societies use these and hence maintain a dominant set of behaviours across generations.We could even look at the struggles for gender, race and sexual identity in western cultures as an example. Currently in Australia, marriage equality gets a lot of media coverage. All in all, most Australians support it.However, an angry and influential minority don't. The rhetoric around it is aimed to humiliate and shame same sex couples and their supporters.On a more personal level, the stakes are much higher. It's a power thing without a doubt.Whether it is a work place bully who targets certain colleagues or a family member or a partner. All aim to control the situation, regardless of how aware of it they actually are.They can be acting on personal vulnerabilities - attack them before they attack me. Or it could just be a life long pattern.I've experienced many in my life. What I can say is that their influence goes only as far as the target allows it in most situations (disregarding crowds and violence). If you have a strong sense of self, these people don't cut so deeply. Humiliation becomes a minor embarrassment.One more recent example would be when a husband of my wife's friend ran me down at their child's birthday party when he learnt that I could sew toys etc. That, of course, is a woman's job (so he clearly thought).I took it as a clear confession that I had life skills that he didn't and he didn't like it. His loss, not mine. He and his mates can chat about sports, I'll just talk to the rest of the party; the older generation, the wives and the children. I had a good time.Humiliation and shame are deeply embedded in our evolution. We will feel them throughout our lives without our control. But it's not always deserved and we can master our response.
My girlfriend humiliated me publically?
Whenever my girlfriend and I argue, she slaps me when I'm wrong which I find kinda cute...and I allow it with no questions asked..I've taken left hand slaps, right hand slaps and even backhanded slaps...No Problem, But Now she did it in front of all my friends; they all made a "awwwww" sound and she made feel pathetic so I slapped her back and the second I did it I regretted it..But then sheshe kicked me in the balls, and that was just so humiliating because its difficult to breathe let alone stand up...It happened so publicly that I want to hide in a whole every time I think of it...Am I wrong do I still owe my girl an apology or is she wrong?
Why is being humiliated sexually arousing to some people?
I think that a person who enjoys being humiliated, has sexualized previous distress, caused by actual humiliating exposodes in their life. For instance, the psychological literature states that it is current belief, that it is the physical punishment that used to be given in schools (ie by being given the strap or the cane) that is the base causitive reason some men go on to develop masochistic tendencies in later life. This litreture and the research that informs it, is the reason why physical punishment has been removed from schools, at least where I live. What happens is that the individuals psyche is damaged by the abuse, and in order to repair that breach, the psyche sexualizes the problematic input, thus rendering it bearable. So while another person is responsible for the harm, there is no actual causative link to the person who later comes to play out the part of abuser, for the person affected by this form of sexual misdirection. In the case of women, the experience of distressing humiliating events is probably nearly universal, thus the fact that women were not physically punished in school, has not hindered the development of masochistic tendencies in this group.
I caught my bf talking to another girl on social media. Is it still cheating?
You’ve got to be kidding me. Talking? You consider talking, just two people having a chat as cheating? IF he was having romantic sexually charged chatting, then sure, maybe, but just chatting? Like being friendly? o__OLook, I always say that cheating is breaking the rules of a relationship and that’s true. However, this is truly absolutely OMFG ridiculous.I strongly suggest you break up with him and instead of starting a new romantic relationship, you seriously mature your thought process some more.I feel really sorry for him. He can’t have female friends, lest you accuse him of cheating, or can’t talk to any woman anywhere for any reason, because you think it’s cheating. Wow! Incredible!Sheila, just tagging you here because I feel you would also react with a WTF if you saw this question. o__o