How do I approach a friend and ask why she blocked me on WhatsApp?
Don't try to contact her to find out the reason. I was in the similar situation. A girl, good friend of mine, unfriended me on Facebook. We were in same class in college. She used to call me and talk about her studies, problems in her life and so on. We used to talk for long time, and suddenly she stopped calling, unfriended me on Facebook. I didn't try to contact her for the reason. I knew one thing at that moment, she didn't want to have me as a friend on Facebook. We even came face to face several times after that, in college send off and other occasions, but she didn't talk to me, not a single word!Few days later, she called me and apologized first, then explained her reasons behind the action. Some friends had filled her mind with things like, "that guy is into you, he loves you and that's why he listens to you speaking for hours, listens to your problems, helps you with studies". The girl had no 'special' feelings for me, I was her "good friend". She got carried away by what her friends said about me and as a 'precaution' unfriended me on Facebook and stopped calling me. She felt very sorry for what she did to me and was very apologetic throughout our conversation on phone, for having wrong views about me. Afterwards, she sent a friend request to me again, and I accepted. That friend was very sensitive, shy and innocent human being. Even the thought that someone might be in love with her was 'scary' and 'risky' to her. Whatever she did was wrong and I didn't need to suffer because of her wrong views towards me, but I had to, and that's LIFE!The girl was so confused that the same cycle of events happened again after few months. I was hurt. This time I deactivated my FB account for good. I was sick that I was getting affected so much by someone 'unfriending' me on FB. I decided not to get affected by events occurring in virtual world. Looking back, whatever happened was for good and it stopped me from getting addicted to and being emotionally involved in FB.Long story short, girls are complicated, and if you go on pestering her for reason behind she blocking you, you might end up making the situation worse. MOVE ON! (PS: The girl is there in my whatsapp friends list, I've just restricted our conversations to minimum level. Don't want to hurt her or get hurt again!)
What should I reply when I ask a girl for her phone number and she ask why?
Tell her the real reason. That would be better.I just want your phone number so that we can talk.I just want your phone number because you are helpful and I might need your help suddenly.Yes, you should be honest here. There should be no hesitation. Of course, if you really want to talk to her about some serious stuff rather than craps like:I’ve just fallen in love with you. Will you marry me? Yes, I would need your phone number then.I think it is love at first sight for me. Can I have your phone number? I give my word that I won’t disturb you.I think there is no need for phone number. This is because I guess you are neither philanthropist who would need her help nor saint who would solve her problems.True Story.
How do I deal with someone close to me blocking me on WhatsApp and Facebook?
Blocking people on social media is a very rude treatment which can not be tolerated. It is VERY HOSTILE. Without internet and social media, this could be referred to as the boycott or total rejection. I feel very sorry for you and your friend is definitely very rude. It's like showing a middle finger to the person offline and rejecting him further. Also, blocking people can be a big emotional abuse, therefore it can lead the one being blocked to depression or other mental diseases.But what I can tell you is: NEVER listen to people who tell you to "move on with your life" etc, if you are trying to reconcile. IGNORE all the people who think that you deserved to be blocked. Block him (and them?) as well, and try to defend yourself as much as you can. Talk to other people (including friends) about what happened, but never discuss it right after you met, since they might be perceiving you as like you're complaining. If he will suddenly unblock you, write to him about what happened, and explain him how you feeled, and block again. Once he will complain to others about being blocked, unblock him. Moving on with your life, if it comes to relationship solving, is impractical and can only divert than relieve you. And people don't have any justifications for their reasons, since they came up with them themselves.Next time, let the people be nice to each another, and not block anyone!!!
I had an argument with my girlfriend and then she blocked me. Is blocking each other a normal thing in a relationship? Is she going to unblock me?
The ability to block someone on a social networking sites and messengers is a great feature. It was originally designed to keep unwanted people and spam away from their inboxes. That looks a legitimate good use of the feature.Women in India usually use this feature to avoid receiving messages from their friends or boyfriends after an argument. Like in your case. This is like a modern day way of avoiding someone. Now, For your question. What should you do about it? In my opinion, you just have two options:1. Accept the fact that she doesn't want to talk to you. That way you can concentrate on the present.2. Just move on. Be happy. Take a vacation. Enjoy your life. Celebrate with your friends. Post pictures on the same social networking site you got blocked on. Remember, you are blocked, not your mutual friends or friends of friends. She'll eventually get jealous on seeing you so happy with your life just because she's out of the picture and contact you back. Why? Closure. The question that without her you can enjoy so much actually makes any woman burn. By any means any one in the age group of 5-65. Sounds filmy? It might but truth is more stranger than fiction.And,Even if she didn't you'll still end up having a great time of your life...
Why is my ex blocking me and unblocking me? Why does he continue to play this game?
There are dozens of possible motivations and reasons for this behaviour, and without being him (and I wouldn’t even count on that— some people have a habit of hiding behind denial about their own motives, so even they can’t recognize them), it’s hard to say why your ex is doing this.One thing we do know is that breakups seldom bring out the best in people.I’ve seen people do this blocking/unblocking behaviour because they wanted to make sure they stayed on their ex’s mind, and this is a very calculated and fairly reliable way to do that.I’ve seen people do it because they’re genuinely conflicted. Reading their recent partner’s social media posts sometimes feels too painful, but then they start pining for even a passive digital connection, so they go back and forth.And these are merely two of many possibilities.There’s one thing most-to-all of these motivations have in common: they’re all signs that there are toxic bonds between you and your ex (on his side at least, though in my experience, they often exist on both sides of a collapsed dynamic).You might think of this as a sign that it is really not healthy to be in each other’s lives right now.I wish you the best of luck as you try to heal from this relationship. May your future growth astound you.
Do narcissists end any relationships themselves?
Nope, once the narcissist realize that the narcissistic supply isn’t providing what the narcissist wants, or enough of what he wants, he’ll begin to devalue his supply and start mistreating his narcissistic supply, this is when silent treatment might set in where the narcissist acts like he ain’t interested in his supply anymore and that nothing can evoke his interests again. This is when the narcissist end his relationship cruelly and abruptly. He might start contacting the other supply who he believes can offer more to him (such as attention etc.) or that he has already been starting his idealisation (or lovebombing) on the other narcissistic supply while he was giving you the silent treatment and telling you that he can’t talk with you because he needs some time for reflection (or insert any other statements). However, narcissists will always need a narcissistic supply so he might not completely block you (although if he does, he leaves no remorse from doing that) from his life. When he gets tired of his new supply and could find no one else to be his narcissistic supply, he might come back to you. Otherwise, during the last phase of the devaluation process which is towards the end of a narcissistic relationship, the narcissist will show you his truest side, which is the meanest, heinous and inhumane self, this might cause the victim to have post traumatic stress disorder or PTSD, or utter trauma that takes time to heal. The victim might also end up with scars from the last stage of cruel abuse and might need treatment from a therapist or psychologist. The narcissist will leave the victim cruelly and in the most inhumane way anyone could think of. This leaves the victim even stressful and isolated than ever. How can such a lovable, warmhearted and generous friend/ex/family leave me like I was just a possession? The fact is that, as a victim, he is deemed as the possession of the narcissist. The last step of abuse is cruel, but it’s possibly the most impactful for the victim. By leaving the victim, it is showing that the victim is helpless, hopeless and weak. The victim might start blaming himself for trusting such a person in the first place, getting into depression/anxiety or developing trust issues.
What can I do when my friend ignores me?
I've been through it very recently. My friend suddenly stops talking to me altogether one day. For a day or two, I thought she was having mood swings. But then, when I observed that she was normal to others but me, I went to her and asked her several times the reason behind her behavior. For a few times, she said I'm over thinking when clearly, I wasn't.Then, one day, when she still continued the same and I couldn't take it anymore, I sent her a long text saying everything I was dying to (I texted her because she wasn't answering my calls and we weren't able to meet due to our break). The next morning, she called me up and gave me an explanation behind why she was doing what she was doing.The reason she was ignoring me was, a third person told her that I was bitching about her (which I never did, because she was a really good friend of mine and I wouldn't do that to her ever). Then things got clear and now we are doing great again.So my point is, maybe someone told your friend something which might be true or false. You should go, talk to that person, and try your best to get an explanation. Because nobody does anything without a valid reason.Also, if your friend is of opposite gender, then maybe he/she feels something for you and that's why they're ignoring you.Whatever the case is, just go, talk to your friend if he/she really matters. I'm sure you wouldn't want to lose a friend just for another lame reason. :)