LONG, URGENT: Why does my boyfriend like to hurt me so much?
We have more than one issue here. First of all, your boyfriend needs help. Yes, some people get pleasure in hurting sexually. But this is not normal. He must either have a history of violence in the past or may have been victim. Another, don't give into him just because he likes it. You must stand up for it. How can anything be good if it is hurting you physically and emotionally? You are young so move on find someone better who will treat you with respect and love. It is not worth letting someone hurt you. In the long run you might be hurt emotionally and you don't want that. Good Luck and take care
Does getting a tattoo really hurt?
IS IT PAINFUL?HOW SHOULD I AVOID IT?Getting a tattoo will never be a walk in the park, but it can be less painful if you take a few simple precautions.To complete this How-To you will need:A licensed tattoo artistA morning appointmentLoose clothingA full stomachA non-aspirin pain relieverDeep breathsScrupulous aftercareA topical anestheticStep 1: Go to a licensed tattoo artist who sterilizes their equipment and uses disposable needles and gloves. The discomfort of getting tattooed is nothing compared to the pain of getting an infection from it.Step 2: Schedule your tattoo for the morning. This is when your pain tolerance is highest, thanks to peak levels of adrenaline, a hormone that helps us endure pain.Step 3: Wear loose clothes, especially if they are going to be covering your new tattoo.Step 4: Eat something before you go to reduce the chances of passing out from a combination of nerves and hunger.Step 5: Take a non-aspirin pain reliever like ibuprofen about 20 minutes before the procedure.Tip: Don't drink alcohol or take aspirin in the 24 hours beforehand; it will thin your blood, increasing bleeding.Step 6: Choose an area of your body that has more flesh and less bone and nerve endings, like biceps, calves, and thighs, rather than bony areas or nerve centers like the rib cage, top of foot, and abdomen.Step 7: Know what to expect. The pain is often described as a cat scratching your sunburned skin. Breathe deeply, focus on your breath, and try not to move. The post-tattoo pain will feel the same, minus the cat.Step 8: During the procedure, if the pain is intense, your tattoo artist can apply a topical anesthetic. Think carefully before you ask for one; side effects include a longer healing time and a loss of color in the finished product.Warning: Applying excess amounts of a high-concentration topical anesthetic and covering up the tattoo afterward can result in seizures.Step 9: Follow the tattoo artist's instructions regarding aftercare. The tattoo should heal in about three weeks, during which time you shouldn't swim or expose it to the sun. After that, go ahead and flaunt it!You can read up more on tattoos at Astron Tattoos by Pradeep
Does it hurt to have a surgical abortion?
I am 9 weeks pregnant. Physically I am able to have the baby but emotionally and mentally I am not. I have thought long and hard about my decision so if you are just answering to tell me not to do it don't waste your time. I have no means to support this child and I was on birth control when I became pregnant. Don't answer if you are going to be mean because I don't have time for it. I just want to know what to expect and if its going to hurt. Please only answer if you know what you are talking about.
What can i use to protect my knees when figure skating?
First of all, I'm going to count my bruises and injuries currently-and this has been a remarkably injury free month for me- knock on wood.... I have two bruises on my left leg and knee, one on my right, a bruise on my shoulder, a bruise on my right palm, a bruise on my left forearm, and one from my forearm onto my elbow. Also, I sustained (most likely) permanent damage to the nerves that control my left pointer finger from the larger knuckle (half of my finger, basically) on Friday. So suck it up... That's not bad for me, normally I have more like 30 total, and some sprained part of my body, or a pulled muscle. Like Riley said, I rolled my eyes when you said what level you're on. I expected you to be working on doubles, if not triples... Complaining about bruises when you're working on salchows and toeloops? Wait til you get to axels and doubles. If you're committed to the sport, you'll suffer through broken bones to compete. (Yes, that's happened. My mom skates too, and she competed AND tested with three broken bones in her foot. And she was doing single jumps except axels, and she was testing her Fourteenstep ice dance.). So don't complain. My mom told me when I first started skating that if I complained about bruises, then I'd have to quit. So I've never whined about bruises or bumps. I sprained and severely bruised both of my wrists skating, but I was still out there, three days per week, bruising them some more. I did have wrist braces though, just because a friend's mom who is a doctor said I could break my wrists if I wasn't more careful. Anyways, you definitely are going to hate this, but SUCK IT UP! If anyone can complain about bruises, well, its definitely not you. You probably got one owwy bruise on your knee and it turned purple. So what? Suck it up and skate. You're going to get bruises, you will with any sport or activity. Also, like Riley said, I'm waiting for the thumbs down! And Riley, I voted thumbs up for your answer. (: