Opinions On How I Look

What is your honest opinion of my looks?

I’m old so I’m going to try to explain why I answer the way I do.You are an okay looking guy to me. And for me, I’m a bit more into a different look — a more Hispanic look, so I wouldn’t be as attracted to you as others.I think you have probably a nice look that most gals would go for though. I feel you have regular good features. You look sincere. You even look sweet. If I were young I likely would go on a date with you based on your looks if you had other qualities that I found attractive. And maybe your look would grow on me because it isn’t unpleasant, it just isn’t what I normally go for.I’m hoping gals that prefer white guys answer this though and I suspect they would find you attractive. What I do find very attractive is what seems like sincerity in your eyes in this photo. You look also to be in good physical shape.I’m trying to put myself into a younger frame of mind and a reference of looking and being attracted to white guys. I have been at times, but it has been a long time since I’ve been drawn to white guys. I don’t mean to make this racist as I’m a white Latina, so I’ve been a turn off for men who want the “more exotic” look they think Latinas have.Anyway, on a scale of 1 to 10, I’d probably give you an 8. I hope this is complimentary for the most part to you and not negative. I usually don’t comment on people’s looks because we all have our own preferences and me being 64 years old it seems ridiculous for me to comment on any young man’s looks, anyway. But the question seemed to come to me so I answered. I can’t tell which questions are for me or just on my queue.I will say, you look like a nice guy and THAT alone is attractive.

Is there any website where I can get honest opinions about my appearance?

Don't bother! What you are really trying to do is evaluate your acceptability level from a visual point of view. This is never a good idea. The truth is that if you are outstandingly good looking then youl already know this because you seem to have some kind of magical ability to get smiles from potential partners everywhere you go! I'm guessing this isn't happening and probably the reason you are insecure and reacting badly to a low self esteem. Of course it is natural to want to seek out appraisals and work out where you stand on the model scale but the problem is that humans are a big mixture of confused people and only a handful will be honest and kind. A lot will use the opportunity to pound your self esteem further into the suck pit by insulting you as hard as possible because they are in pain and want you to be the same way.So what to do here?I advise you to completely forget this approach all together. The truth is that people who build a self esteem based on the way they look tend to become fairly shallow and actually not very likeable as people. It is much more attractive to have a caring, understanding, intelligent entertaining, creative and considerate personality. People who develop themselves slowly, master this approach and gain confidence in themselves on this basis are the most successful in life. That includes relationships.The way you look is such a small part of a much larger picture. Imagine if you bought a really expensive book because the cover was ultra cool but when you get it home and read it it turns out to be the most boring thing you ever read!I hope you get my point!Work out what is good about you and develop that further. this is all you need to do. Once you do then confidence will come naturally as you gain a level of positive reactions from some people. And confidence is very very cool!Don't ever target someone you decide you want to make like you. Just gravitate toward those people who naturally do. They are the compatible ones who will boost your self esteem. That's the secret to a happy life!Good luck!